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male
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41-50,
*eolakins
writes:I have, almost major trust issues, with my girlfriend. she is christian and she says that its against her religion to cheat. but i have strong feelings that she is affiliated with another man. im 14 and shes 15 and we are crazy about eachother. we even decided to get married but only when shes ready. we communicate over email and on the chat room zwinky. whenever i am on zwinky with her, shes always talking and shes open and stuff like that. but when i get suspended from zwinky, whenever we talk it takes her like and hour to answer one email and sometimes shes not on all day. i asked her already if shes cheated and i dont want to kep asking her and end up comprimise our relationship because of my trust issues. any insights out there?
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reader, angelblueeyes  +, writes (12 December 2007):
 Hi,
Your very welcome keolakins if i can be of any further assistance give me a yell!!
Lu x
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reader, keolakins +, writes (11 December 2007):
keolakins is verified as being by the original poster of the questionangelblueeyes, the only reason for my trust issues is cuz of bad past relationships and thats it. but ya thanks for the idea. i didnt really think of tht until now. i feel better now that you guys have posted so far. thanks a bunch
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reader, xmeganx +, writes (11 December 2007):
 wow you need to realise that shes got a life other than sat on a computer all day! shes got things to do! so just cos she isnt talking to you ALL the time on the pc then shes cheating? come on....
Id be careful what you are accusing her of (totally unfounded accusations) cos you are gonna end up losing her
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reader, angelblueeyes +, writes (11 December 2007):
Hi,
Is there another reason why you have massive trust issues at such a young age?
I think you really need to sort yourself out maybe talk with a counciller if you feel ok doing so, give the poor girl a break you will only push her a way if you keep questioning her!
My husband texts me about 20 times a day sometimes it may take me hours to reply purely because i am busy not because i'm up to something!
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