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I don't want anything heavy. What's the advice?

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Question - (11 December 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey met a girl off the internet twice now she lives a while away but i love her and she loves me genuinely just when i get train home from meeting her it hurts real bad and i miss her like crazy the thing is i wana go travelling in couple of years which upsets her cos she wants me properly whereas i wana take it slowly (never done l-distance before)

when we met we got on great but she wanted sex and i didnt said i wanted take it slower but we will soon she got upset which she does easily she really sensitive just when i get back from seeing her it upsets me but in a way i love going to see her but will this last occasional meeting or will the novelty wear off? just confused cos dnt wana be 40 settled down etc and regret what i didnt do but i do want her just happy meeting her now and then dont want anything too heavy whats your advice?

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (11 December 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntTell her exactly what you want but do it nicely tell her you want to take it slow and see what happens just be honest with her

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (11 December 2007):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntI think that you did the right thing. It would've been too fast to have sex with her when you first met her if you want something real. Ask her if she wants something real.

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