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writes:Is it normal for a man to enjoy having his anus played with during sex? When my husband and I are having sex, he likes for me to put my finger in (just the tip) or around is anus. This gives him ultimate pleasure. I haven't questioned him about it. I'm too embarrassed to ask any of my girlfriends if their men like the anal-play thing. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2007): yes it is i love for a girl to put a didlo in my but hole or finger
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reader, anon_e_mouse  +, writes (12 December 2007):
 Have to say the idea turned me off completely until my gf tried it on me and WOW! Like anything in sex - just experiment and be open minded and you'll be amazed.
I have to say I liked it :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): In few words, it's natural, absolutely natural. It pertains to preference. Some men like this sensation during the intimate act, to be touched there. Some don't. You shouldn't think it's weird. And your girlfriends can tell you their partners dislike this, but it's of no help for your situation to know if this gesture is prefered by other men or the majority of other men. My partner likes to be touched there. I like to touch him there also. It's one of those matters of personal choice and preference. Don't question it too much, or think it's out of place. And if it doesn't bother you, continue to do it. If it does, and this is the real matter, ask yourself why and if other people's sense of normality or the general preference should be of any influence upon you. Remember, it's only you and your partner, and you can experiment and do what you like and what is suitable and normal for you. Good luck!
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reader, missmel34  +, writes (11 December 2007):
 YES!!
Anal play gives a man the ultimate orgasm. Women have a G spot, men have a P spot, or the prostate gland. Placing your finger or a sex toy against this gland during sex creates the most shattering of orgasms.
Sometimes it can be difficult to really explore this gland during sex, as it is hard to get the angles right with your hand. The best way I find is during oral sex while you are facing him in between his legs. Make sure you lube your finger and don't have really long nails. When he is extremely hard and turned on, place your finger in with your palm facing upwards, slowly pushing your finger all the way in. You can do this with a in and out rhythm to correspond with the the rhythm of your mouth. Then you can begin to curl your finger towards his belly button. You will feel a small walnut like lump, this is his prostate, with your finger lightly stroke/push at it. Do this while you continue to give him oral.
Be prepared for it will give him the strongest orgasm he will ever have.
Good Luck.
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reader, jm81690  +, writes (11 December 2007):
 it's not really a standard thing us guys like...but i'm sure more guys like it then are willing to admit to it.
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