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anonymous
writes:this guy i use to talk to for like 2 years suddlenly forgot about me and just moved on with his life without me doing anything to him at all. he is talking to this new girl now and it hurts when i see them together. im not jealous but i am upset and depressed. what should i do?
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reader, Master mind i am +, writes (19 May 2008):
 Some people find it hard to see the difference between being jealous or simply mad. You feel played, left, disrespected? Well it's okay to feel that way. 2 years is a long time. By that time i'm sure you have feelings for him. The best thing to do believe it or not is to let him know. Now i'm not saying let your heart out to him but just LET HIM KNOW HOW YOU FELT AND FEEL. Even if he doesn't respond the way you want at least the thought of him knowing what he did was hurtful on your behalf is out. but before you say what you need to say ask your self "Did he have a intrest in me from the jump?"
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reader, dafni  +, writes (7 October 2007):
 sure,sure,you are not jealous!!!=)
ok,probably he is moving on because he doesn't like you anymore,or because he just wants to try with another girl..the point is that you have to move on,too and forget aboyt him...
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reader, rcn +, writes (4 October 2007):
 You say you "talked" to him for two years. Did you ever have an actual relationship with him, other than just talking?
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reader, Ask_HanBan  +, writes (4 October 2007):
 i am in the same situation as you, i know how it feels and hurts at the fact that he moved on quiker, even instantly after your relationship is over.
first of all, talk your feelings through with someone you trust.
second of all delte all evidence of him i.e his e-mail addie, monile number.
third, get a break for a week or 2 (no rebound flingsm, there bad)
and thats it
good luk
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