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writes:please help me i have this friend that likes my boyfriend and he said he doesn't like her he thinks she's to full of herself [which is true lol] and he says i am the only gurl for him......i always see her looking at him talking about him or flirting with him and he tries to walk away but she like blocks him from leaving its kinda scary and today she told him he was being cheap for going out w/ me please help before i do something drastic!?keep in mind that we realy like each other!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 October 2007): It sounds like your friend wants something that you have and she's acting it out. I get the impression that she's being immature or needy about the whole situation and if she really is your friend, she would respect your feelings instead of saying that your boyfriend is "cheap" for dating you, that's just cheap in itself. Your boyfriend chose you for a reason and he made it clear that he doesn't like her if he thinks she's "full of herself". Any decent guy would see right through that and they want someone who respects herself AND her friends. I had a similar situation but this friend of mine said that my boyfriend is hot once or twice and she would sit with us when we're eating if she saw us. She'll say she's happy for me but I kept feeling uncomfortable just because she said that and didn't want to make a scene either. But I appreciate that my boyfriend chose me anyway so I'm not worried. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok ppl i hae talked to the gurl & i slapped her she is NEVER coming anywhere near him agin me & MY BF kissed & made up!! thnx to all the people who gave me advice xoxox
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reader, XxAngelDust89xX +, writes (5 October 2007):
 Sound like a perfectly wonderful friend to me
NOT!!!
Tell your "friend" to back the heck up off ur man!!
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reader, rcn +, writes (5 October 2007):
 Dump your friend. She's calling your cheap and trying to impose on your boyfriend, a real friend would not do this to you and your boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): She sounds like a bitch.(Sorry but that's what it sounds like ). She doesnt care about how uncomfortable shes making you and your boyfriend she just wants to win him over for herself.Tell her (politely) that he is your boyfriend and that there are other guys out there for her if she wants them, but to leave yours alone.
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reader, hotty  +, writes (5 October 2007):
you need to tell her to get lost shes no friend and with friends like that who needs enemies. She doesn't seem to care about your feelings towards this guy or how much you seem to like him. If you can't tell her straight you need to cut her off!!
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