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writes:i really like this older guy, he's four years older than me, and he likes me back. we talk every day on msn and sometimes hang out at school. he's super smart and i trust him with everything. we're both into the same things and when we're talking its like we're the same age. but my mom gave me a lecture on how she doesn't want me dating older guys since my bff got into a lot of trouble from dating older guys. he promised me that he plans to come back every weekend from college to see me when he can. and he's fine with me going out with other guys. so we're pretty close. should I stop being so close to him, or get to know him even better?
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reader, rcn  +, writes (26 March 2008):
 All I can say to add to the other poster is (1) I'd say the same thing with my daughters to protect them. (2) He must be 18 or 19 years old. Growing up as a boy, once upon a time, myself, at that age I wouldn't be able to say what my girlfriends and I would do, without putting an age warning label on it.
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reader, geebaybeh +, writes (26 March 2008):
 What do you think is right? You should go on and get to know him but dont get to attached to the point that you might get hurt. and dont give your all. go and have fun with other guys but also make him know hes worth it.
But never make him think that all your attention is on him, plus hes a college guy, you would never know.
and moms just trying to be a mother that she is. If you dont think shes right theres no need to know or you can just say hes a friend. be smart and good luck!
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