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I have four children. I'm a single parent, of two children a boy (19) and a girl (10). My ex-wife has the two children we share living with her, 2 girls (16, and 14).
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6 July 2008: This is an article I received from local news. When reading this I think about how important it is to know who you know, and to notice changes in the behaviors of others. In cases like this, the agressor displays subtle signs prior to acting. He may ...
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We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 10 October 2009: True love is a stronger bond than any other. Just had to say that for those who read this and still don't believe in "true love"
Now since your in the place you want to be. Let's talk about Kevin's place. While his marriage is dissolving furt... (read in full...)
We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 1 August 2009: I'm sure you've heard the saying to "focus on what you have control over, not what you don't." What you don't have control over is the actions of anyone else.
Divorce can be extremely difficult emotionally, at times financially etc. He does not... (read in full...)
Will I always be scared about having sex? Or will I outgrow this?
Q. I am an 18 year old female, still a virgin, but I'm scared to have sex. I was sexually harassed for 3 years by my father and I'm scared that I wont ever be able to trust a guy enough to have sex with them. Am I going to out grow this or am I going ...
A. 15 April 2009: I want you to write a letter to your dad, You don't have to send it, it's the process that counts. In this letter I want you to vent, "you did this, and this is what your actions did to me." Be detailed, get mad, let it all out. Then, in your heart, ... (read in full...)
Will I always be scared about having sex? Or will I outgrow this?
Q. I am an 18 year old female, still a virgin, but I'm scared to have sex. I was sexually harassed for 3 years by my father and I'm scared that I wont ever be able to trust a guy enough to have sex with them. Am I going to out grow this or am I going ...
A. 14 April 2009: First, be proud you did not let it go all the way. It is not at all acceptable what he did to you, but it happened. What is also not acceptable is allowing the actions of another person ruin your life or chance for happiness.
You can not control ... (read in full...)
Will I always be scared about having sex? Or will I outgrow this?
Q. I am an 18 year old female, still a virgin, but I'm scared to have sex. I was sexually harassed for 3 years by my father and I'm scared that I wont ever be able to trust a guy enough to have sex with them. Am I going to out grow this or am I going ...
A. 14 April 2009: OK, you're still a virgin. I know this must be embarrassing for you to talk about what happened. Since you're father did not penetrate, how far did this harassment go? Was there any physical contact or was it all verbal? If verbal, please include an ... (read in full...)
I'm still bothered by my girlfriend sleeping with a former friend. What should I do?
Q. I know what a pain it is to read long questions. But I really need help from some mature smart people! So… I met my girl, we were 22 finishing school, dated a few months, broke up, we stayed friends; started seeing each other again casually i...
A. 14 April 2009: You're whole question leads to one answer. It depends.....
How do you really feel about her? Were you together while she was with your friend? You're in a relationship filled with pain, and guilt. You guys need to overcome this. One was is to si... (read in full...)
I'm 15, He's 22 But I want him Bad...
Q. Im 15 and afew weeks ago one of my aunties friends started talking to me on bebo. He was shocked to find out my real age cause he thought i was older but he chatted away to me anyway. Hes really nice and friendly and i loved talking to him. One day ...
A. 12 April 2009: I'm going to reserve the right here to agree to disagree. Meaning, the first poster is contradicting. Talks about the legal detriment, but then looks at not openly advertising the relationship as escaping or letting you down, when dong so will ... (read in full...)
Keep the cheater? Keep the ex? Confused!
Q. Ok. Well.... Here is my problem. I've been stuck in between two girls for about... a month now. See, I dated one girl for 3 months and then she got into drugs and I left her because it was stressing me out so much. Later that month I met a...
A. 9 April 2009: I'd recommend staying away from both of them. Neither one has shown behaviors which are proper for having the loving relationship you must be seeking. If you keep going back and forth, you'll keep getting disappointed as you are now. ... (read in full...)
I'm just about to get out of my 25 year long marriage and I need some help!
Q. I'm just about to get out of my 25 year long marriage. And I need some help. I feel, maybe I'm making the most horrible mistake in my life, or the best choice, I have I ever made. I really don't know.. I'm in so much pain. I really didn't want thi...
A. 2 April 2009: Why couldn't you handle a traditional divorce? That comment makes me think you are wanting out, but at the same time hold onto him by a thread.
I'm wondering if how you feel is also a secret to him? If so, that could be reason why this marriage... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with my mother again after all this time?
Q. I am 27 years old and have not spoken to my mother since I was 16. She married my step father when I was 10 and he began molesting me shortly there after. After 6 years of molestation and rape I finally found the nerve to tell my mother what was ...
A. 1 April 2009: It's up to you. If it were me, I'd get together with you to find closure. You don't want to have her gone, and not have the opportunity to close this chapter and pain you've been going through. ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 March 2009: Best of Luck to you. Take care. ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is ashamed of me, is he!? Please help.
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year now. At the start of the relationship keeping me a secret didn’t bother me much, I really didn’t care. You see, I am 30 years old and I am also a trans-female or transsexual woman, ...
A. 25 March 2009: Believe me, I know about self esteem issues. I generally work with individuals who have been through substantial amounts of abuse. At no time will I claim breaking through and building your self esteem is easy. I know it's not. Breaking through this ... (read in full...)
I think my boyfriend is ashamed of me, is he!? Please help.
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and I have been together a little over a year now. At the start of the relationship keeping me a secret didn’t bother me much, I really didn’t care. You see, I am 30 years old and I am also a trans-female or transsexual woman, ...
A. 25 March 2009: So, he knows your trans gender? Are you pre op or post op? I feel that in a sense, you're not satisfied with who you are. You're hiding. He's hiding. Therefore you're both being dishonest with each other and yourself. Now, the world isn't cruel, ... (read in full...)
Why can't I get him out of my head? What's up with that?
Q. Why can't I get him out of my head? I've been browsing the archive of 'teacher - pupil' topics, and none of the posts described a situation quite like mine. I first met the teacher in question when I was 11 years old, the first year of sec...
A. 25 March 2009: Look at where you are now. Did he impact your life which lead you to where you are and what you're doing. He was a "substitute" parent to you. You seem as if you weren't getting affection at home, he shows you affection you're lacking, it heightened ... (read in full...)
Is he just a big baby searching for a mother when he is hurt...?
Q. We live in a very wealthy seasonal place. I am beginning to think my boyfriend is a walker. In case you don't know a walker is someone who escorts ladies to events, dinners, etc. My bf of 9 months said he was angry with me so he did not come to an ...
A. 25 March 2009: Stop, take a deep breath, and re-read what you wrote. Do it as if you were on here simply answering a question.
I think you already know the answer to your question, but you're trying to justify it as something else because you want the relation... (read in full...)
Please help me show a way out of this self-caused misery.
Q. I am giving her time, what should I do now? My long distance girl friend says that she is super busy with her program and full time job. She was previously married but got divorced last year and we met during her divorce. I used to date her abo...
A. 25 March 2009: Reading this showed a lot of "I want" and not "she needs". I've been divorced for 13 years now, and I counsel others going through many different issues. I found, depending on her reason for divorce, those going through one, or recently when through ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for guys to keep adding girls on their facebook list?
Q. hi everyone i am sort of worried about my boyfriend of 1 year.is it normal for guys to keep adding girls (they don't even know at all) on their facebook list? is it like one of those "cool" wannabe things or what?its really getting on my nerves now...
A. 25 March 2009: I wouldn't worry about it either. If he's being attentive to your needs, it must not be a big deal to him either. I don't know what his back ground is, but as a musician, I receive a few requests, but equally from women, men, and other musicians. I ... (read in full...)
He insists it wasnt serious, but I am upset at the innapropriate texts between my husband and this other woman. I want to confront her!
Q. I discovered last week that my husband has been texting a woman he has been working with suggestive texts and she likewise. He admitted it has been going on for 2 or 3 months and obviously was careless enough not to delete the ones I discovered. I ...
A. 23 March 2009: First lets talk about what is and is not serious in a relationship. I look at inappropriate as being ANYTHING that has the potential to violate the terms of the marriage, or CAN hurt the partner in the marriage.
Even if he wasn't physically havi... (read in full...)
I'm scared of being alone!
Q. i really need some help. i have a constant fear of being alone, physically and emotionally. the close friends i had before all managed to hurt and betray me in some way and those friendships are gone now. i've been recently going out with my ex, ...
A. 22 March 2009: You need to build your self esteem. It seems as if most of your fears are based from lacking part of your sense of self. You seek relationships to feel fulfilled. Being satisfied, first starts with being whole. Not doing so, in a way you're setting ... (read in full...)
Any suggestions for us being civil to each other?
Q. I'm in a bit of a bad situation here. Well my boyfriend and I share an apt I'm 7 months pregnant and our relationship has just gone to shit. He hasn't helped me with any of the prenatal care etc. I lost my job as a bartender because of the pregnancy ...
A. 22 March 2009: What you decide to do as far as your child, is your business, but this behavior in your home is completely inappropriate. This is not about an environment to raise a child, but it's not an environment you need to be in either.
He needs to leav... (read in full...)
I love him, but he lies.
Q. hi i have asked a question already and it was anwsered thank you. but i need more help. the answer said to keep calling him out about his lies and i try and he is still in denil. how long should i go on with this? should i watch his every more to ...
A. 22 March 2009: How are you calling him out on his lies? The way you word, or emphasize your speech determines what result you'll receive. You need to be firm, and not accept the untruth as anything different. You may have to be firm to the point of telling him, if ... (read in full...)
Being apart hurts all the time
Q. I was in a relationship with a man who was is still is my soulmate. He is the only person that has ever understood me, he is the only man i have every loved. The problem: he is black, I am white. This caused a huge problem as my parents said they ...
A. 21 March 2009: DO NOT get married when your heart is not in it. Understand, this makes your husband a victims of your insecurities. So, you believe he's your one true love, yet you say I do to another man. This is a very "dependent" act.
As far as your parents,... (read in full...)
Why do ex's do this after a break up?
Q. Hoping the great agony aunts on here can help. My live in boyfriend of twelve years and I parted company a year ago. He moved back to his hometown a long way away. It is a distance to drive, seventeen hours to be exact...Canada is a big country. It ...
A. 20 March 2009: People deal with break ups and hurt in different ways. I was short spoken with my ex as well, but now 7 years later, we can talk for a couple hours, laugh and joke around. You also called for a particular reason, not to just say hi. That may have ... (read in full...)
Years ago she made a penis mold of an ex! I caught my wife using it recently, now I don't know what to think!
Q. My wife hasn't really been 'around the block' much. She had 2 bf's before me (well serious bf's, not counting guys with a few dates and no action). Problem is, my wife, way before she met me, made one of those penis molds of her one boyfriend. I...
A. 19 March 2009: I agree with the other poster. Go toy shopping together. I would let her know your feelings about her using a toy she said was tossed out. That I don't feel is okay behavior. Let her know you have no problem with her pleasuring herself, but what she ... (read in full...)
Did I make a mistake thinking that he had changed his mind and wanted more than just a quickie?
Q. I need some advice. I am 26 female (virgin), I work with a bunch of Army guys, I have never really bothered with any of them until a couple of years ago, when this corporal started, we started talking and flirted all the time, we arranged to go ...
A. 19 March 2009: what is snog? I thought it was making out.
You talked, you flirted, did you discuss what you're looking for in a relationship? It's important to make sure you're on the same page as the other person. If you "ASSUME" you're leaving yourself... (read in full...)
I need help to stop being so insecure and crazy. Why am I so off balance?
Q. I have had quite a few relationships but never found the one. I am an attractive, intelligent and successful, with men constantly wanting to be in a serious relationship with me. Finally I have met a guy and have fallen in love with him and he ...
A. 19 March 2009: *FEAR* One of the biggest killers in relationships, especially with the relationship you have with yourself. You've experienced loss. That doesn't mean you're going to loose your boyfriend. Quite often when we loose someone we love, we start pushing ... (read in full...)
Is it all in my head?
Q. Where do I begin? I know my problem will probably seem childish and maybe even overdone. The logical answer is to simply choose but sometimes it's just not that easy you know? So I've had this friend whom I love, cherish, trust and respect. He's an ...
A. 19 March 2009: You're doing what's simply called "mental masturbation." Talking to him, even though you love someone else, you're wondering "what if?" What if you didn't have commitment issues, what if you weren't afraid, what if you tried to make it work back ... (read in full...)
Now that we have a child... what do I do for the best?
Q. Me and my partner have been together for 2 years just over, when we first got together we did the usual go out get drunk like young people do, I did notice on a few of these occasions that he could be very nasty in the names that he called me but he ...
A. 19 March 2009: I'm sorry you lost the first pregnancy. I am wondering why you tried again with this individual. Kids are always a blessing, but it seems as if their were enough negative signs to not try again until you were with someone who would be good to both ... (read in full...)
Its getting harder and harder to stop something from happening outside my marriage
Q. I have been married for almost 10 years now. I used to get sex every night if not every other night. Lately, I barely get it once a week and I am so horney. I have a very high sex drive. I keep telling my husband, but it doesn't seem to help. I even ...
A. 19 March 2009: My advice is to really have a heart to heart with him. Let him know how he's not satisfying this area, but not reducing his value as your husband.
One day a week set up for you and your husband. Call it a date night. One person plans, then next week... (read in full...)
What should I do about my ex???
Q. My ex and I broke up around five months ago. We had a great 2.5 year relationship with few problems, we're both 21. we broke up because he was going overseas for two months with 3 of his single friends and i was getting paranoid, threatening to ...
A. 19 March 2009: Now you're on the right track. Take care, and I wish you the best for your future. ... (read in full...)
She still doesn't really want to perform oral sex on me!
Q. I have been with my Fiance over 2 years now and about 6 months into our relationship I posted a question about how to get her to enjoy going down on me more. She was borderline forced to preform oral in her previous relationship. Your responses ...
A. 18 March 2009: sex is all about pleasing the other person. now she may not be really into giving oral to you. is that okay with you? have you asked her why she does not? my brothers ex did not give to him, but he gave to her all the time. she said giving made her ... (read in full...)
Living without him? What if this doesn't work?
Q. me and the love of my life and supposibly getting married he says he wants to marry me and i love him.. but sometimes i wonder if i could make it without him. what if he doesnt want to marry me ? what if this doesnt work?...
A. 18 March 2009: You're not ready to get married, and shouldn't until you know the answers to your questions. What if? Causes doubt. Talk to him, express your concern. It's okay to feel this way, but just don't take the final plunge until you have your questions ... (read in full...)
Tell me how to move on, please tell me how to live a life!
Q. Dear Cupid, It's been a month since my ex of a year and half broke up with me. I've tried to move on so hard, but I can't. I can't stand her absence in my life. I gave her everything I had. I gave up on everything for her. I've gaven u...
A. 17 March 2009: I hope you can too. Take care, and have a great Spring Break trip.... (read in full...)
My sister wanted me to spy on her fiance..do I tell her what I found?
Q. my sister sent ne on a mission to spy on her fiance. their wedding wud take place in three weeks. well, i got to find out he has an affair wt his coleague at work and when i caught him red handed in an eatery, hugging her, saying bye see u later , ...
A. 17 March 2009: I believe in honesty. Do you want her to get married and find out his behavior repeats its self. She can decide to get married or not, but allow her to make that decision with all the evidence to make her decision by. You'd do her a disservice by ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my ex???
Q. My ex and I broke up around five months ago. We had a great 2.5 year relationship with few problems, we're both 21. we broke up because he was going overseas for two months with 3 of his single friends and i was getting paranoid, threatening to ...
A. 17 March 2009: Your welcome. Just a bit of advice to leave you with. When things are confusing, and you're pulled different directions, take time after one relationship ends before starting a new one. You need to take time for yourself, sort everything out, and if ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my ex???
Q. My ex and I broke up around five months ago. We had a great 2.5 year relationship with few problems, we're both 21. we broke up because he was going overseas for two months with 3 of his single friends and i was getting paranoid, threatening to ...
A. 17 March 2009: The problem I have in answering your question, is how what you're saying now contradicts your initial question. Was it as bad as you said, or is "We had a great 2.5 year relationship with few problems, we're both 21. we broke up because he was going ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my ex???
Q. My ex and I broke up around five months ago. We had a great 2.5 year relationship with few problems, we're both 21. we broke up because he was going overseas for two months with 3 of his single friends and i was getting paranoid, threatening to ...
A. 16 March 2009: It's not about defending what has happened or what he or you had done. I'm not trying to be harsh, only show you that choices have consequences. Every choice will either produce a negative or a positive outcome.
If you say you'll discuss gett... (read in full...)
We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 16 March 2009: This is a wonderful story. I'm happy for you. Take care. ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my ex???
Q. My ex and I broke up around five months ago. We had a great 2.5 year relationship with few problems, we're both 21. we broke up because he was going overseas for two months with 3 of his single friends and i was getting paranoid, threatening to ...
A. 16 March 2009: The facts you gave, if I understand this:
(1) You, through jealousy and fear, threaten to break up with him, which he gave an honest answer about handling "drama" and med combined.
(2) He leaves, wants you back and you tell him to go away, an... (read in full...)
Tell me how to move on, please tell me how to live a life!
Q. Dear Cupid, It's been a month since my ex of a year and half broke up with me. I've tried to move on so hard, but I can't. I can't stand her absence in my life. I gave her everything I had. I gave up on everything for her. I've gaven u...
A. 15 March 2009: You know, I still wonder why I was born. I know I have purpose, but I'm not always sure what that purpose is. Over the past 7 years, I've gone from corporate management, to going back to school for law, became a reverend of a church, and began ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend older than boyfriend? Wasting my time?
Q. my boyfriends 17 and im 22 weve been dating almost a year now were pretty happy and planning on moving in together soon his family knows my age and doesnt mind at all however my parents and freinds do not know Im just wondering should i tell them ...
A. 15 March 2009: Years are just a number. If you're compatible and know he's the one for you, stick with your feelings and the direction they take you. If we listened to everyone who passes judgment, most of us would never get anywhere. ... (read in full...)
Tell me how to move on, please tell me how to live a life!
Q. Dear Cupid, It's been a month since my ex of a year and half broke up with me. I've tried to move on so hard, but I can't. I can't stand her absence in my life. I gave her everything I had. I gave up on everything for her. I've gaven u...
A. 15 March 2009: You do it because you're overcoming a challenge. We've all had heart aches. Their not easy, but they are part of learning and developing who we ultimately become. You speak high about school and getting your education. I don't think that's something ... (read in full...)
I hate my body! I am too fat!
Q. well for starters, i absolutely hate my body. i'll be 18 this summer which makes me feel even worse about the way i look. i feel disgusted when i look in the mirror, i mean i'm only about 113 pounds but i definitely dont look it. i keep trying to be ...
A. 15 March 2009: You want to be secure with yourself, but you keep bringing up other issues, such as your ex, how weight affects relationships etc. You're being secure with yourself needs to be for self worth, and not how doing something may affect relationships or ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend older than boyfriend? Wasting my time?
Q. my boyfriends 17 and im 22 weve been dating almost a year now were pretty happy and planning on moving in together soon his family knows my age and doesnt mind at all however my parents and freinds do not know Im just wondering should i tell them ...
A. 15 March 2009: I think if you want to be with him, why hide the truth. Hiding the truth says their is something to be embarrassed by. ... (read in full...)
We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 14 March 2009: There are computer search engines. Google for "people finder" and a list will come up. A PI you can use if you can't find him. It's not stalking, because all they do is utilize search engines which they pay for the service, and have access for any ... (read in full...)
We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?
Q. Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first lov...
A. 14 March 2009: You've been so afraid of what might happen, it's kept you from the one person you were meant to be with this whole time. I don't consider it destiny, you two may be soul mates. This explains a love that never disappears, even when with someone else. ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 July 2008: Hasn't your solicitor heard of a continuance. You have the right to be hard in all matters of law.
After these decisions are made, do you have a higher court to appeal the ruling of a lower court? I don't believe your solicitor did a job the best... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 July 2008: Sounds like you're doing better, as a manner of speaking. Your right it doesn't look good to the judge to drag out court.
Just a bit of warning. Seeing someone prior to the end of the divorce can be used in court as well. Legal marriage, is lega... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 June 2008: That's what you need to concentrate on. As far as his taking the solicitor out to lunch and such. Violation of ethics. People here get their licenses taken away or suspended for those behaviors.
Keep a calendar of all issues. Everytime he cance... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 May 2008: If you can establish proof of his dating his solicitor, that should establish a conflict of interest, which would pull her off the case, and may cause issues with her ability to continue law.
I woulnd't accept less than what you feel you dese... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 15 May 2008: If he seeks an injunction, a hearing should be set to answer to it. If his calls were done by home phone, have your phone company pull a copy of those records which show his phone calls to you. If they are done by cell phone, your bill should ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 April 2008: I know this is hard for you to deal with. Working with people who have been through divorce and seeing the after affects, it's heart breaking. I can't figure out your question either of how someone can act or live as if they love and care for ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 19 April 2008: The first piece of advice anyone one law gives is to not speak to the other person. Speak through your legal professionals. Reason being, "anything you say can be used against you in court." Couples who split up can get into some heated arguments. ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 11 March 2008: I'm glad everything is working out for you. I can see where your solicitor is coming from. I'm in law as well and hoping to begin in family law. My two big pet peeves in family law are adultry and any lack of responsability on the best interest of ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2008: First of all, make sure you file your response within the time the court has allowed, it's generall (at least here) 30 days from the date you receive the paperwork. Remember too, the response, if you do it prior to meeting with the solicitor, i... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2008: Great, have your son contact me on here, I'll let him know you give your permission to toss your phone in the river.
Let me ask you this. If you didn't have your phone, would that stop you, or would you find another way?
Do you believe life... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 November 2007: Your doing what's right. I hope your strength keeps building. I know it's hard sometimes around the holidays to be alone. Before I got custody of my children. I would eat Christmas dinner alone at a diner. But other than that, being alone was OK. I ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 20 September 2007: I am soooo glad to hear you are moving on with your life. It's better for you and your son. You don't want him growing up imitating his dad's behavior. You are a wonderful person and someone who really loves their child and plans to put him first. I ... (read in full...)
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