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writes:I need some advice. I am 26 female (virgin), I work with a bunch of Army guys, I have never really bothered with any of them until a couple of years ago, when this corporal started, we started talking and flirted all the time, we arranged to go out and he cancelled on me at the last minute, I never asked why (I know that was silly). Anyway after about six months we started flirting again, he wanted me to keep him company at work and I said no, he then said we wanted different things (I think he wanted sex and I wanted him as a boyfriend), we stopped talking for a bit and now we have started talking and flirting again and we snogged each other at work which was probably stupid but beause we are both attracted to each other it just kinda happened.I was happy that we had finally snogged and he said he was happy as well, but nothing else has happended since, he just says that he really enjoyed it and we will have to do it again but he only ever suggests it when he is working. Did I make a mistake thinking that he had changed his mind and wanted more than just a quickie, he is the only bloke I have felt attracted to ever, I just want him to want me, I feel so silly. HELP.
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reader, rcn  +, writes (19 March 2009):
 what is snog? I thought it was making out.
You talked, you flirted, did you discuss what you're looking for in a relationship? It's important to make sure you're on the same page as the other person. If you "ASSUME" you're leaving yourself set up for disappointment.
See, you were thinking he changed his mind, you didn't verify whether or not he had. Someone will love you for you, just make sure you're looking for what they are before going further.
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