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writes:hi i have asked a question already and it was anwsered thank you. but i need more help. the answer said to keep calling him out about his lies and i try and he is still in denil. how long should i go on with this? should i watch his every more to see if theres something hes hiding or should i back off? im not sure how to handle this... i love this man with everything i got and he is the father of my children. Reply to this Question
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reader, ~AgonyAuntLaure~  +, writes (22 March 2009):
 Back off! Just for a little while anyway and then review the situation and if it is still bad talk to him and tell him how you feel if he reacts badly or lies again don't stay with him even though he is the father of your children, i was in that situation and i would have prefered my parents to break up than not trust each other and keep rowing! I hope this help you!
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reader, rcn +, writes (22 March 2009):
 How are you calling him out on his lies? The way you word, or emphasize your speech determines what result you'll receive. You need to be firm, and not accept the untruth as anything different. You may have to be firm to the point of telling him, if it's not the truth, don't waste your time with anything less. Therefore, if it isn't, keep mouth shut.
It's not mean to expect the truth. For whatever reason, some people have difficulties telling the truth.
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