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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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Do nice guys finish last?
Q. hi, A girl I met at uni a year ago now are really good friends. Last month I asked her out but she said that she just wants to be friends and that is all that she wants from me. So just now she is seeing someone. Her flatmates don't und...
A. 18 December 2008: Fade, I will take those, too :-).
Something is missing here. The poster can be a good guy, and I won't dispute that. But the girl didn't refuse to have something with him because he isn't nice. Being nice does not guarantee you will get the ... (read in full...)
Do nice guys finish last?
Q. hi, A girl I met at uni a year ago now are really good friends. Last month I asked her out but she said that she just wants to be friends and that is all that she wants from me. So just now she is seeing someone. Her flatmates don't und...
A. 17 December 2008: What about my chocolates?... (read in full...)
What does the phrase "just friends" really mean
Q. does just 'friends' always mean the guy is not into you? what if he says "your the most amazing person i know" and he has kissed you before? he also used to fancy me. .could there be any other reasons this guy wouldnt want to get into a relat...
A. 17 December 2008: "Just friends" is an awful phrase. It means "I'm not interested in you", no matter who says it. Sorry.
The other poster said this guy is not sexually interested in you. Well, take that as good thing: if he were, he would perhaps deceive ... (read in full...)
Do nice guys finish last?
Q. hi, A girl I met at uni a year ago now are really good friends. Last month I asked her out but she said that she just wants to be friends and that is all that she wants from me. So just now she is seeing someone. Her flatmates don't und...
A. 17 December 2008: I guess you got lucky on this one. If she had been with you, YOU would be the one being dumped, no matter what organs of yours were failing. Go have fun, meet someone else, et cetera.
I'm not your girl (and I'm straight) but I could use that box... (read in full...)
Breast Fetish!
Q. This is about by girlfriend’s breasts. My girlfriend and I have been going out for a year. I have accidentally bumped them but I want to see her breasts and touch them. Ladies, please give me some advice. I have only seen them covered up. I ...
A. 17 December 2008: Butterfly, I hope you will perceive that opinions about breasts vary. I understand what you say about people staring, but, some of us have them in greater esteem...
I like the Uncle's advice. And then Vendetta is right, too.... (read in full...)
Whats a guys fave nail polish color?
Q. ok this is probably a weird question but here it goes. is there any nail polish that guy especially like on a girl ? I know guys may not pay attention to that stuff but I'm going on my first date this weekend and I want everything to be great and ...
A. 17 December 2008: Red.... (read in full...)
Should I get him a PSP for Christmas and maybe some games to go with it?
Q. Hi Cupiters! I know this isn't related to relationships..but in a way it is. :) My bf wants a PSP for X-mas and I want to get him (1) or maybe (2) games to go along with it. Any suggestions?...
A. 16 December 2008: I suggest you buy him something cheaper. A PSP is a good two hundred dollars or more. Plus the games...
What about a slice of pizza? Or a Santa that dances to music?... (read in full...)
I treated her like a princess why did she do this?
Q. i was dating this girl for three months i fell in love with her instantly but then i felt that she moved fast after three dates after the first time i slept wih her she started playing mindgames saying things like she had sex cause she was insecure ...
A. 16 December 2008: I'm inclined to say that the problem was, precisely, that you treated her like a princess, and therefore she did not find you interesting. I know this doesn't sound logical, but it is. If you know you have someone at your beck and call, then ... (read in full...)
Do guys prefer a thin girl, like size 0?
Q. right so im about an average weight for my height and age but do guys prefer a thin girl or a girl with a bit of weight.do they like girls who are size 0? ...
A. 16 December 2008: I like girls with whom it is possible to commit sins of the flesh. Ergo, they need to have flesh :-).
Now, if it's about giving in to sins, I might make exceptions.... (read in full...)
She acts likes she's possessed by a demon during sex!
Q. Hi guys i have been with my current girlfriend for 2 months now. Things are going great, and we have just started having sexual intercourse recently. The sex is great, but is sort of getting over shadowed by the way her reactions are during. Her ...
A. 16 December 2008: Can I have your problem instead of the ones I have?... (read in full...)
I am so confused, so hurt yet so drawn to this guy!
Q. I met this guy online just over 2 years ago(about 3 months after my divorce was finalized) and we've had a on off relationship since then. The very first time he broke up with me after we slept together the first time because he is scared of ...
A. 16 December 2008: Yes, you did the right thing.... (read in full...)
Do penis pills work?
Q. does anyone know if those penis pills work? and if they do which ones will work?...
A. 16 December 2008: If the penis pills you refer to are those "herbal remedies to make you larger", then I suggest you use that money to get drunk and let all inhibitions go with a passionate stranger. That will get you an erection, and probably AIDS, too, but the ... (read in full...)
Does it mean anything if a guys asks if the man you are with is your boyfriend?
Q. Does it mean anything if a guy asks you if the man you are with is your boyfriend? On two separate occasions I have been out for a drink with two different male friends of mine and this guy that I like, has asked me both times if my friends are m...
A. 16 December 2008: Of course he wants to know whether you were available. If you don't care about a woman, we don't usually care whether she has someone or not :-), or what she looks like, other than to have fun :-), as in "guys, guess what: she came in that awful ... (read in full...)
What does it take to make a girlfriend or get the number one spot?
Q. What do guys look for in a girlfriend? Brains, beauty, good physique, sophistication? What do they want?...
A. 16 December 2008: Brains, beauty, good physique. Sophistication we could do without, because "sophistication" is a tricky word to define.
We often believe a girl is perfect. When we believe that, the girl might have no brains, no beauty, bad physique, and even... (read in full...)
I am so confused, so hurt yet so drawn to this guy!
Q. I met this guy online just over 2 years ago(about 3 months after my divorce was finalized) and we've had a on off relationship since then. The very first time he broke up with me after we slept together the first time because he is scared of ...
A. 16 December 2008: Your major problem is that you let this guy play with your feelings. Ask him to forget you and move on. You sound like a loving person and he sounds like he doesn't deserve you.
Be happy.... (read in full...)
Why is my private area darker than the rest of my skin?
Q. Hello, My virginia is darker then the rest of my skin... I have a sandy golden tan... but I noticed that my private area is more darker... why is this? Do guys find this attractive? ...
A. 16 December 2008: Your private parts are darker than other areas in your body because melanocytes, the cells that give color to skin, are more abundant in certain areas, such as face, arms, neck and genitals. That's all there is to it.
Preferences vary, but I sa... (read in full...)
Poll question: What is the most arousing part of a mans body?
Q. Poll(for women/gay men): Whats the most arousing part of the mens body? Shoulders, Abs, Penis, Ass, Back, Legs, Face...
A. 16 December 2008: Just a little joke, girls. Diovan: What about men with glasses? Their eyes might give you the wrong impression :-). And then these windows might need some Windex :-).... (read in full...)
I attach great value to myself as a person and cannot bear to see myself governed by basic animalistic instincts.
Q. I really thought I was immune to being constantly hit on by guys over the years. The disgust I felt at the thought that they didnt care to respect I was in a long term marriage helped greatly to combat their attempts. I recently joined a new comp...
A. 16 December 2008: I beg to differ, dear poster: the only option is to take the bull by the horns.
Since you understand this attraction you feel is bad for you, act on that basis. I'm afraid that the meeting you suggested was not for closure, but for the absolute... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is gay!
Q. I just found out my boyfriend of 6 months is gay. 6 months may not seem like a long time at all, but for me it feels like my whole world….and yet it feels like it wasn’t long enough. It is all to hard to explain how I feel but I keep trying and I ...
A. 16 December 2008: You're angry at him with very good reason. The man deceived you and played with your feelings. He faked a love he didn't feel and used you for cover. That is very, very bad.
My opinion is that you should not let this bad experience take con... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the aftermath of the WEEK FROM HELL
Q. This week so far my mum tried to kill herself by taking an overdose and crashing into a tree, and is now in a mental institution. I had a massive fight with my dad A good friend had an accident and is now in a coma. I crashed my car (I'm n...
A. 16 December 2008: You feel sad and stressed with good reason. I know that you have to deal with all these problems at the same time, but that does not mean you can't sit to analyze them one by one, to choose what best to do about each one.
The car and the property... (read in full...)
I'm 29 and never had a boyfriend, any advice from the male?
Q. hi i was wondering can any one help me . i am 29 years old and i have never had a boyfriend. i never even got my first kiss. i don't know and everyone else does. all but me. every guy i like rather someone else and never me. they r...
A. 16 December 2008: You sound like a very shy person. You know, things don't happen in life unless you dare to make them happen. So, the first thing you need to do is to make a conscious decision to change your life. It won't get you a boyfriend right away, but ... (read in full...)
Is he only with me because he doesn't want to come out of the closet completely?
Q. Is my boyfriend gay? He recently told me he would like to try oral sex with a man, then asked me if I would like to watch. I agreed to it and he has been cruising personal ads nonstop for the right person. Then he told me yesterday he would like ...
A. 16 December 2008: I'm not sure what is going on, but I understand your distress. Your boyfriend is suggesting awful things, and it's easy to think he wants you as cover.
I think you should not agree to his having sex with another man. And also I think you need... (read in full...)
Wow! I hate being a teen. Am I turning gay?
Q. Wow, I hate being a teen! I'm 17 and well confused about my sexuality, more inclined to straight but I'm addicted to anal stimulation, oh boy, do I love it, SO normal I use the traditional german sausage and use it as a dick basically I get ...
A. 16 December 2008: This sounds like a fake post.... (read in full...)
Went through a phase of listening to my mother masturbate... Help!
Q. I'm really not sure exactly when it began but some time around 7th grade I became aware that my mother had a drawer full of sex toys and that she masturbated basically every night. I was very conflicted about this as I was both filled with disg...
A. 16 December 2008: I think I can think of something to help you, yes.
I understand you have trouble accepting that mom masturbates. We all have trouble accepting that our immediate family does this or that. However, we are all humans and we all have needs. ... (read in full...)
Ejaculation problems... is it me?
Q. I have been with my man for 3 years the sex has been great but recently I have noticed that he has not been able to ejaculate while have intercourse. He will ejaculate while we are having oral sex, is there something wrong with me? For some reason ...
A. 15 December 2008: I'm not sure if there is a problem. Maybe what is happening is that both of you are tired, since now you have a baby to look after. That takes time and makes you stay up :-). Maybe that's all there is to it?... (read in full...)
My wife wants me to be active in bed, but I am passive and wait for her to ask!!
Q. I have been married for 2 years. My wife has 3 young childfren from a previous relationship, but was never married. The past year and a half we have had no sex life, maybe every 3 or 4 months. She wanted me to be aggressive and go after it, and I ...
A. 15 December 2008: As is often the case, I agree with Eyeswideopen. It seems very odd that your wife suggested you sleep with other women just because she wants you to gain experience and have sex more often, and then initiate the sex, instead of waiting.
Also,... (read in full...)
Girlfriend slept with other guys should I be ok with it
Q. my girl likes to hang out her guy frends but some of them shes slept with should i be okay with that ...
A. 15 December 2008: NO.... (read in full...)
I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???
Q. Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...
A. 15 December 2008: Take no for an answer :-).... (read in full...)
What makes a life better?
Q. Hello all, Ok, im 19 years old male. Still virgin and never had a gf before. Actually i dont care about virginity, lonelyness hurts alot more. Ive got the worst of everythink u can think of. First of all im pretty short, only 5ft nd 9. I know gir...
A. 15 December 2008: I want to begin by saying that, at 5'7", I'm visibly shorter than you are, but I don't care about my height. I stopped worrying about it a long time ago. And I think I wouldn't want a girl to love me, or give in to concupiscence and all sort of ... (read in full...)
Do you think it is right for me to choose him rather than my baby?
Q. I am 1 month pregnant and my bf told me to take out my baby because he has more plans and dreams for our relationship. Do you think it is right for me to choose him rather than my baby? Anyway, my bf is married to another woman but he told me that ...
A. 15 December 2008: I have always thought that you should always choose children over partners, wives, whatever. It might not be easy for you to see it because you're young and alone, and, if you didn't perform the abortion, you would need to rear that child alone. ... (read in full...)
If the Ladies helping here are "Agony Aunts", what are we.. "Agony Uncles"?
Q. Hey Guys, Whole day of Serious Questions and Answers!! Let's make the mood Easy.. !! Everywhere I go in this Website I see, "Ask agony aunt for help" and stuff! Why is it too much into an Agony Aunt? Why has it always gotta be an Agony AUNT.....
A. 15 December 2008: I found this definition of "agony aunt": "A woman who provides answers to readers letters in a publication's agony column". So we're agony uncles.... (read in full...)
Inappropriate touching between step mother and step son!
Q. I'm a 45 year old step-mother of a 19 year old male, and I've recently made a horrible mistake. For the past few weeks I've been flirting and teasing my step-son. My husband has ignored me for the several months now, and I just wanted some ...
A. 15 December 2008: We are not supposed to be judgmental, but you had it coming. Harmlesss fun, you said? I can't believe it. You are the adult and the step-mother, and should have known much, much better than this. If this had happened between a step-father and a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is an escort, am I crazy that I continue to stay with him?
Q. My boyfriend is an Escort. He meets with much older guys every so often, either on long trips or one hour sessions. I am "ok" with this because we have an open relationship, and, its' guys that I am not threatened by. However, I have confided in...
A. 15 December 2008: Well said, Bemused.... (read in full...)
Are you a tall girl and self conscious?
Q. No need to be! I can relate. I am almost 18 years old and 6'1"! When I was in middle school, I absolutely hated it, and if you are one of those girls, there's no need to hate your body or your height! I have found that many young tall girls are v...
A. 15 December 2008: Well, I'm 5'7", so all of you tall girls are just as tall as me or taller. I like you :-), and I wouldn't mind it if my girl were taller.... (read in full...)
I am DESPERATE for a baby!
Q. My name is Valerie I have been trying to have a baby now for 11 years. I don't know what's going wrong but anyway, if me and my boyfriend come together, can I get pregnant. Is there anything I can take to get pregnant?????...
A. 15 December 2008: Maybe you will think I'm a fool for saying this, but it seems you haven't seen a doctor. You say you have been trying for eleven years. That would mean you started trying as early as 18. I suppose that there must be a physical reason why you ... (read in full...)
Do men like short or tall girls?
Q. Do men like short girls or tall girls. I am 5 feet, but have gotOk figure, Breast: 36 waist 27 butts 36 fair complextion and long hair. But i feel inferiority complex due to my short height. ...
A. 14 December 2008: Ah, and to answer the question: I can only speak for myself. I like them in all sizes.... (read in full...)
Do men like short or tall girls?
Q. Do men like short girls or tall girls. I am 5 feet, but have gotOk figure, Breast: 36 waist 27 butts 36 fair complextion and long hair. But i feel inferiority complex due to my short height. ...
A. 14 December 2008: I like you! As to your inferiority complex, I think you're great...... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard to depend on other people???
Q. Why is is so hard to depend on other people/ Must I do everything myself if I want things to get done? Why can't people just say no or I can't from the very beginning instead of making promises they cannot keep? I am just feeling very overwhelmed ...
A. 14 December 2008: One great piece of advice by Oldersister.
I may add a little cultural bias, perhaps. In some cultures, saying an outright "no" seems impolite or dangerous, so people sugar-coat their refusal by not saying "no" but giving you a convoluted "maybe".... (read in full...)
What are at home methods to get rid of spots?
Q. Ok im 12 and ive got liek 5 spots on my forehead and blackheads on my chin and nose HOW DO I GET RID OF THEM What products do you reccomend Or What Methods Like At Home Methods Etc...
A. 13 December 2008: Some people will say otherwise, but I find that you need to get rid of blackheads by pinching them (carefully). If you don't, they just become darker and bigger and you look disgusting. So, for that only, I recommend pinching them.
Gina gave you... (read in full...)
Does a German woman/woman marriage "count" in the US?
Q. hey every one out there!!! got a question i 'm still married to a woman back in germany but i live here since 2006 and i'm also married to a man !!! does the marriage count here i mean between woman a woman?? cuz i here it don't!!! everyb...
A. 13 December 2008: I think you would have a problem in Germany. The same sex marriage is valid there; and the "heteromarriage" is valid, too. So you commited bigamy for the Germans, that's for sure.
And then, I'm not sure what happens with "homomar... (read in full...)
What visual characteristics are guys attracted to?
Q. What are some visual characteristics that get guys attention in a good way? Such as clothing, hair, make-up etc. What are guys attracted to? more skin/ hair down-up etc. I know to be myself... just asking for opinions that can help.. that I m...
A. 13 December 2008: Dyes are a turn-off when the woman "makes mistakes" in choosing the color. Please, no one take offense, but a dark-skinned woman, for example, should stay away from blond dyes. At least that's my opinion. And then senior ladies who we all know as ... (read in full...)
What visual characteristics are guys attracted to?
Q. What are some visual characteristics that get guys attention in a good way? Such as clothing, hair, make-up etc. What are guys attracted to? more skin/ hair down-up etc. I know to be myself... just asking for opinions that can help.. that I m...
A. 13 December 2008: None taken, Sirena. That's your preference and we should mind our own business.... (read in full...)
Does a German woman/woman marriage "count" in the US?
Q. hey every one out there!!! got a question i 'm still married to a woman back in germany but i live here since 2006 and i'm also married to a man !!! does the marriage count here i mean between woman a woman?? cuz i here it don't!!! everyb...
A. 13 December 2008: I'm not sure what would happen. I understand that, for the sake of international law, marriages valid in one country are valid in all others. That is to say, if you marry in Germany, under German laws, your marriage is valid in the United States ... (read in full...)
What visual characteristics are guys attracted to?
Q. What are some visual characteristics that get guys attention in a good way? Such as clothing, hair, make-up etc. What are guys attracted to? more skin/ hair down-up etc. I know to be myself... just asking for opinions that can help.. that I m...
A. 13 December 2008: Uncle, I forgot the private parts! Add that one, too!... (read in full...)
What visual characteristics are guys attracted to?
Q. What are some visual characteristics that get guys attention in a good way? Such as clothing, hair, make-up etc. What are guys attracted to? more skin/ hair down-up etc. I know to be myself... just asking for opinions that can help.. that I m...
A. 12 December 2008: 1. Boobs
2. Boobs
3. Boobs
4. Face
5. Pelvis (yep, believe it or not)
6. Legs
7. Derrière (I don't want to say "ass"; it sounds better in French)
7. General shape
8. Eyes (shape, color)
9. Hair color
10. Hair type (straight, Curl... (read in full...)
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