Like what
she writes?
... Add *londeBabe x to your favourite agony aunts
Want to get in touch?
... Send *londeBabe x a private message | | | *londeBabe x's profile:Loud in personality I don't sigh away from my own opinion. Well I am very down to earth person, I tell it like it is no messing about. In my opinion honesty is the best policy and to I hate people that lie and try to sugar coat the truth.
I'm sensitive as well and if you need sympany I will be there for you.I like to think that I can give good advice to people out there but I am probably best with teenage advice as that is my age group.
I may be young but I know what I am talking about. |
|
| Latest articles: Dear Teenage me
This question has 2 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted
18 March 2015: Dear Teenage Me As it stands, I am just about to turn 20 which means soon I will be waving goodbye to my teenage years. But, what journey it has been. This probably won’t seem a lot to some people but to me is moving on to the scarier years, t...
What does a kiss tell about a person...
This question has 20 answers by readers of DearCupid.ORG.
Newest answer was posted
18 May 2008: Now this may sound rubbish but this is how you can tell how the person likes you, by the kiss they give you! Kiss on the cheek mean you are friends Kiss on the hands means i really like you Kiss on the lips means i love you Kiss on t...
|
Do I make first contact?
Q. Hey , ive seen a guy i like on a dating site the thing is i already know him i dont have a pic up as of yet being new . but he did look at my profile but didnt message . should i casually message saying hi fancy seeing you on here or just leave him ...
A. 3 August 2016: Hey there lovie,
I would message him, what do you have to lose? The main advantage to dating sites is they allow you to be braver and bolder than perhaps you would be in the 'real' world. So take that little mini leap as if you don't ask, you don'... (read in full...)
How can I last longer for her?
Q. So recently, I've gotten into a relationship with the woman of my dreams. She's my best friend, we've known each other for two years, shared ups and downs, been to the ringer and back and now things are amazing. We've also gotten physical a few ...
A. 1 August 2016: Hey lovie, thought I could add a little female perspective to this one. The previous agony aunt offered some fantastic practical advice but I am hoping I can ease your mind a little, hopefully letting you avoid the Viagra. First thing is m... (read in full...)
I like my best friend. Should I tell him I have feelings for him?
Q. Dear Cupid, There is this guy i like. I have known him for a long time. I have had feelings for him for awhile. The thing is that i dont know if i should tell him or not. I think he likes me but im not sure... Can you please help me? And it is also ...
A. 1 August 2016: Hey there lovie, oh goodness once upon I time I was in the same situation as you. The first question: do you prefer him as a friend or do you know in your heart you want something more? If no, then leave it be. If yes, then it's time to let him ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him out or stay friends?
Q. Hi I have recently broke up with my boyfriend and I have been thinking about trying to get back together with my first love the only possible is we both agree it was for the best to stay friends so should I ask him back out or should I leave an...
A. 1 August 2016: Hey there lovie,
there is only one answer here and you hold the key to it. You have to talk to him! You have to find out for yourself if he still feels there is any relationship there. However, one thing I would say is be careful not to tarnish ... (read in full...)
Should I keep my distance or try to reconnect?
Q. I'm 19 years old. I've been friends with this girl for a long time (Sense my sophomore year of high school). She means the world to me and care for her deeply. We listen to each other and we had fun together going on walks and hanging out. She was ...
A. 1 August 2016: Hey there lovie, they say time is the greatest healer and honestly, it truly is. This situation, as hard and as difficult as it will be, just needs time. Right now, you will be suffering the feelings of a break up because you have lost someone tha... (read in full...)
Why is this shy guy acting weird?
Q. A shy guy who has a crush on me tries to make me jealous by flirting with other girls around me and then he ignores me but if he sees any other guy even talking to me , he runs and come stands with me and try to be a part of the conversation. If the ...
A. 18 July 2016: Hey there lovie, men are confusing creatures. Do you remember being told as a child that if a boy pulls your hair or annoys you it is because he likes you. Well, this not too dissimilar. Ii is thought that men never fully mature and some parts o... (read in full...)
How long after a break up should I find new love?
Q. Hello so I just ended a relationship with someone I have been with for five years. I was wondering how long I should wait until I would get into another relationship. He was my first love but I grew out of it fast because we dated young. Things have ...
A. 18 July 2016: Hey there lovie, Okay, wow...five years is a touch on the excessive side. The true answer to this 'the heart wants, what the heart wants.' Only you will know the true answer to this. No one can put a time limit on love and romance as such you will... (read in full...)
I have an intimate question ...
Q. I have an intimate question ... I've been with my boyfriend for two years and we have had sex many times but I've never orgasmed. I'm not sure I can and I think it's really getting my boyfriend down as he feels like he can't satisfy me. Sometimes I ...
A. 18 July 2016: Hey lovie, this may be an intimate question but I promise you it is one problem that many woman have. This is a bit more of a sensitive subject but I am going to be as straight to the point as possible in the hope of helping best I can. The f... (read in full...)
Just a memorial of an unrequited love.
Q. I miss his smile, his laugh. We talked for hours and laughed so hard. He told me he loved me even though we only knew each other for a short period of time. We confided in each other so many things about our lives. I love his blue eyes and I ...
A. 18 March 2015: Beautifully written. I am great believer that we are never really alone and that there is always someone out there you can talk to, even if it is a faceless stranger over the internet. Sometimes, things happen for a reason and when you move on, this ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my boyfriend, but sometimes it gets too much! Advice?
Q. ok im going out with this boy and i really do love him i love him so much but at times i feel like im doing something wrong every one knows about us and i dont mind that its hard to explain but i do love him so much but at times i feel like its just ...
A. 17 March 2015: It depends on what you mean by 'too much', do you feel scared because of how you feel or do you feel like it is wrong to like him. You cannot fall in and out of love, just as easily as that. If you love them it's an intense feeling that doesn't ... (read in full...)
Sex. How can I discuss this big issue with parents? Is it normal to be feeling this way after knowing each other for long time and talking for last 3 months?
Q. Okay so, I've been talking to this guy now for over three months and we've both admitting we've got feelings. We've were together for about a year, 2 years ago but that's a bit irrelevant now as we were very young and tend not to talk about it...
A. 17 March 2015: The first thing that I think is important is you have to be sure that this person is the right person, because the majority of people end up regretting their first time because they wish they had waited. You are essentially committing to a memory, ... (read in full...)
Should I enjoy my Gf's amazing personality and hope that she'll make the decision to lose weight so that she can become more physically appealing?
Q. So I'm 22 and recently I've started talking to this girl who is 18. When it comes to a personality she's everything I could possibly ask for. But as far as looks she has a really cute face but she's pretty overweight. It sounds pathetic on my p...
A. 10 June 2014: The issue I have with this is that if you were to tell her this then you would be saying that she isn't good enough. When you are in a relationship you fully accept that person, flaws and all. If she has this amazing personality then you should ... (read in full...)
What caused him to change his mind so dramatically? I can't figure it out!
Q. Hey guys, this is basically a question about long distance relationships. The one I was in has already ended but I am just desperate for an outsider’s opinion on this because my friends and family are too close to the situation. I play in a ba...
A. 4 February 2013: Thank you, genuinely thank you. That sums everything up so well. ... (read in full...)
I miss my bestfriend! But he isnt speaking to me, what should I do?
Q. Ok so I am having a problem with one of my best friends. we haven't spoke with each other for 2 days and this is why...so everday before school me and my friend hang out.(we usually just walk around and we don't have any classes so this is the only ...
A. 12 February 2012: School is the place that shapes people for the way we will be in the future, often early signs indicate our paths. Still being at school myself I have found that people seem to split into different groups and your friend has chosen to join those who ... (read in full...)
How do you get from being friends to actually being a couple?
Q. Hey guys could really use your advice here! I’ll give you a little back story first just so the situation makes sense. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for just over three months now but it’s how that came to be that’s a bit complicated....
A. 10 February 2012: I know for a fact that he likes me, I know that for sure. I would literally trust him with my life as he is one of the most sincere, genuine people I have ever met. We essentially played a game of cat and mouse for like 2 years to get to this ... (read in full...)
He has asked me out and I like him, but I'm very shy and worried about my studies! What should I do?
Q. Hi there. Well, recently I've been kinda dating this guy. The reason I said kind of is because my best friend told him that I liked him, and he likes me too. So then he went up to me and asked if I wanted to go out with him, I really barely k...
A. 10 February 2012: Honestly, you just need to calm down, breathe and take a step back from the situation. You are getting yourself worked up over nothing.
Dating itself is about getting to know the person you like so you aren't going to fast; you've just dipped y... (read in full...)
Please help, I'm insecure!
Q. I am crazy in love with my boyfriend and he really is a great person. But I am really feeling insecure at the moment... I'm over weight and live quite a ways away and haven't gotten to see him much. But thing is he used to be very popular back in ...
A. 2 February 2012: Why don't you try and look at this from a slightly different perspective.
Now, you say you’re insecure because he was popular and you don't feel good enough? Personally believe this isn't true.
Why?
He chose you over these others girls ... (read in full...)
I know she loves me, but what kind of love?
Q. I think I am in love with my best friend.... she's a good year and a half older than me...and whenever I am at her place or she is at mine, we kiss and cuddle and tell each other we love each other....I'm just not quite sure what her love is....she ...
A. 15 July 2011: I really wish I could just tell you the answer and make this so much easier for you but I can't. What you have to do is talk to her and ask her how she feels. In turn then tell her how you feel and that you don't want to lose her as she is an ... (read in full...)
Does true love exist?
Q. Do you think true love exists? I used to believe in true love. But love always hurted me. I hate love. I trusted my boy-friend so much. He broke it. I'm 16 years old. My ex was 27. It was online relationship. I was dating him for 2 years. I broke up ...
A. 15 July 2011: Love exists but no one ever said it was easy.
It's one of the most complex emotions as it can have you in tears but give you the most happiness. I can fully sympathise with you and it's awful that you've had to deal with so much heartbreak alre... (read in full...)
My friend is making threats that sound like he is planning to hurt himself what should I do to help him??
Q. Out of my friends I am the one they turn to when they have problems however I'm never able to sort out of my own and I really need someone to turn to. I feel completely at my wits end and so lost as I have never been in a situation like this ...
A. 7 July 2011: I just don't know if he was being genuine and I don't want to end up making the situation worse. I feel like I am walking on egg shells at the moment. However until Tuesday he is away at a Metal Festival so that's why I choose to try and get advice ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he wants to increase contact?
Q. Ok, so this is probably a stupid question, but I've texting a guy who is very shy and so am I. So I am reading into everything to find out if he is interested. We have been talking on the phone and texting, though its not every week, its quite ...
A. 6 May 2011: Basically I think that they basically mean exactly the same thing, the only difference is that one word has been change. Something along the lines of 'we should talk more' would show that he wanted to increase contact.
However from what you have... (read in full...)
I caught my girlfriend kissing a girl, is this considered cheating?
Q. the other week me and my gf went to a house party. a few hours and many drinks later i saw my gf in the kitchen snogging another girl. at first i spied and i thought it was very hot. but after a about 30 seconds i realised that they were on there,as ...
A. 6 May 2011: Yes that is cheating.
It doesn't matter that it was with a girl or that she may just considerate a 'bit of fun' she kissed someone passionately that wasn't you. Worst of all you saw her cheating on you. Maybe you should sit down and have a talk with... (read in full...)
I don't want to appear desperate. How do I start up a conversation with her?
Q. There is this girl in my graduating class in college that I really like. I don’t see her at all this semester but I would like to at least talk to her before graduating. Last month, I sent her a polite email — it was our first interaction — and ...
A. 6 May 2011: Okay, let’s look at both of the situations.
1. The graduation party: Personally I think this one is the better of the two options as it is far more impersonal. If you see her, start a conversation about how you haven’t spoke to her in so long and... (read in full...)
He said he didnt feel the same, but I'm amazing. What does this mean?
Q. So, ive been in love with this guy. I told over the internet that i love him, but he said he didnt feel same. Still he said im amazing. Does that mean he also had feelings for me 'someway, somehow'? Plus he's been checking on me lately. I need your ...
A. 6 May 2011: I suppose it depends on how you understand the word 'amazing'. From my own point I few I think what he means is that you are an amazing friend and a great girl but he doesn't have necessarily have feelings for you.
However the best advice I... (read in full...)
I'm in the middle of a love triangle!
Q. Hey and Help! I am in a middle of a love triangle! There are three boys who go to my church and we are all really good friends. The fact is they all got a crush on me! I see two of my friends on Saturday at church and the other on every Wednesday of ...
A. 17 December 2010: Sounds more like a love square to be honest.
Okay what you have to do is just take a step back from everything and just think everything through.
With some of the guys what may have happened is that you don't like them but you like the idea of ... (read in full...)
Are my feelings normal?
Q. Okay, so I've been with my boyfriend for over a year and I'm feeling a lot of pressure to do things, you know the kind of thing, like touching etc. We've done some things that I wouldn't normally consider appropriate for my age, but I feel our ...
A. 17 December 2010: Never do anything that you don't want to do as you could regret it later. Just take your time and do what you feel is right and trust your own instincts.
In my opinion you are still abit young and you should never feel that anything is expe... (read in full...)
I want a boyfriend but I still want to be me!
Q. I'm 15 and have never had a boyfriend but I am more than ready... How do I make myself more attractive to guys but still be me???...
A. 17 December 2010: Never try to be someone your not, guys just arent't worth that. Somewhere there is someone just perfect for you just the way you are you just have to find them.
A natural, happy girl is one of the most attractive qualities for a girl to have rath... (read in full...)
I don't know what to say to him or even about how I feel!
Q. In my group of friends I am normally the one that sorts out the problems but I will be the first to admit that I am rubbish at solving my own. Mainly because I think it takes someone with a clear head and someone that doesn't know you personally ...
A. 16 December 2010: Thanks that advice has actually helped alot. Quick question when I do talk to him what do you think I should say? ... (read in full...)
Loving a person and being IN love with that person... what is the difference?
Q. What's the difference between Loving someone and being In love with someone? I think it's just the difference between like the love of a friend or family and the love of a partner. Am I right? ...
A. 22 August 2010: In a sense you are right but yeah would say you are right. For example someone who has been in a relationship for a long time may fall out of love but will still love that person like a close friend.
... (read in full...)
Tampon trouble!
Q. hey guys so i am a soon to be swimming instructor and seeing as i am a 15 year old girl , once a month i get my period , but the problem is i havent yet learned how to use a tampon and i cant be getting in and out of the water with no protecti...
A. 16 August 2010: Well I would recommend tampax pearl as I have found using them much easier to use than any other. What I would do first is lie down on your back and take slow, deep breaths to relax a little and then push it in very gently. It will only hurt a ... (read in full...)
Acne, scars and what can I do?
Q. Im thirteen and I had ok skin untill a few months ago when I just broke out all over my forehead. I know it's puberty but in the mean time what can I do to keep it manageable? I've tried "clean and clear" the pimples ar a LOT smaller but there's ...
A. 10 August 2010: Natural products may help such as witch hazel and tea tree but there is always a chance they won't work. My best advice would go to the doctor and they can give you something that has a better change of working. I did this and my skin is now ... (read in full...)
Do stretch marks go away?
Q. I'm 13 and I have these weird strech marks on the top of my bread area my upper thiges just random places and it not that Im fat. I'm 5'8 and around 130 pounds but I look 120 what should I do? Will they go away?...
A. 10 August 2010: You get stretch marks from growing, I had them on the tops of my thighs and they have now gone. I found recommend any cream with vitamen K in it as this really helped mine fade but they do fade away slowly over time. ... (read in full...)
How do we approach our parents with the news I'm pregnant?
Q. im 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. we just found out this morning that i am pregnant. it doesn't seem real yet, i feel like its all just a dream.. we're going to take another test tonight and make sure i actually am, ...
A. 10 August 2010: Just tell them the longer you leave it the harder it will be. You parents may be shocked at first but they are the people that will always love you uncondtionaly and I'm sure that they will support you. You may even find it easier to have your ... (read in full...)
I am against pre-marital sex but I am super horny! How can I control my urges?
Q. im fourteen and a virgin and i dont belive in pre marital sex. i have a boyfriend who i have actually been with since were were 11 and now im a freshman. . the issue with my no pre martial sex thing is that im like super super horny and im worried ...
A. 10 August 2010: You set yourself the boundry line so stick with it as you may regret it later and besides you are still only 14 and full of raging horomones. Just because you don't want to cross the line and go all the way doesn't mean there is other stuff you ... (read in full...)
I love her but she says she's not ready to say it yet, what does that mean?
Q. Okay, so i have been dating this girl for a few months and im convinced that i love her even though im still kinda young. I told her and she said that shes not ready to admit that she loves me yet because its a big deal, she did say that she likes ...
A. 10 August 2010: Everyone is different so experiences things differently all that has happened is you have fallen in love a little quicker. You don't have to do anything, all you have to do is be paitent. She obviously likes you it will just take her a little more ... (read in full...)
Am I a virgin man?
Q. Once, my colleagues asked me " r u a virgin"? And i did not know how to answer them. I am wondering how '" virgin" is defined? Lets say if i have never had sex with a girl, but i have done masturbation. Then am I a virgin man? ...
A. 7 August 2010: A virgin is someone that hasn't experience sexual intercourse so masterbation definetly doesn't count. To be counted as not a virgin you would have to go the whole way with a girl. ... (read in full...)
My cousin proposed to me, I want to say yes, but what will my family say?
Q. When i was 17 my cousin came down to Texas from Georgia for a family reunion and when she got there she came up to me asked me to go for a walk down one of the trails that led to the river. Somehow she knew exactly where she was going and we stopped ...
A. 4 August 2010: Well you know what if you're happy thats what is really the most important thing, hope everything goes well for you! All the best.... (read in full...)
I've broken up with him but now my friend keeps talking about him all the time and it's hurting me...
Q. About 2 weeks ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. Though, he wasn't just my boyfriend, we've been best friends for the past year. We only dated about 2 months and I've loved him for quite some time before that. He said he loved our other best friend a...
A. 2 August 2010: What you have to do is take a step back to just clear your head. Your heart is longing for the guy you can't have and these two are doing anything to make it any better.
Personally what I would do is take a short break away somewhere just to be a... (read in full...)
What does his text message mean exactly???
Q. I've been seeing this guy for about ten months. We aren't dating because I'm leaving the state for graduate school for a couple years and he's not a fan of long distance relationships. We've talked about this and are doing what we can. We have a...
A. 2 August 2010: The only way you are going to know is just to go right ahead and ask, otherwise you are never going to know. He probably won't commit to a LDR because they are difficult and count on trust from both sides. Maybe he is having a change of heart as he ... (read in full...)
My cousin proposed to me, I want to say yes, but what will my family say?
Q. When i was 17 my cousin came down to Texas from Georgia for a family reunion and when she got there she came up to me asked me to go for a walk down one of the trails that led to the river. Somehow she knew exactly where she was going and we stopped ...
A. 2 August 2010: In my opinion this just spells trouble, it could lead to you having alot of trouble with your family and issues with your relationship in the future.
If she is your first cousin the what you are doing is extremely wrong however anything over sec... (read in full...)
| *londeBabe x's friends
These are mutual friends, so *londeBabe x has
added them and they have added *londeBabe x!
|
