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Hey guys, I joined this internet site looking for advice and found it great so now im hoping to give a little back. Im not saying i know everything but i will try and help someone to the best of my ability and have there greatest interesting at heart,I am a student of nursing also.

Like me your more then likely really worrying about the problem and this is why you have turned to this site, Well its the best way to get advice as i have found and i hope to pass on my knowledge :)

17 year old and 14 year old

Q. Hey I'm a 17 yr old guy, my girlfriend is 14, yes I know that a big age differance this young. We are very much in love, strong word but true. I have asked her about sex and she said she doesnt want to go that far, but she keeps throwing me mixed ...

A. 29 November 2011: Awh you may love your girlfriend but remember what is connected to sex which is std's and also pregnancy, she is still very young to even be thinking about sex but hey i guess everyone is diffrent right!! All you can do is tell her you still love ... (read in full...)

I'm 19, never had a girlfriend, never even kissed a girl and I hate feeling like an outcast among people I'm surrounded by

Q. I'm really depressed, I can't deny what I feel. I'm 19 and never had a girlfriend. I've never even kissed a girl. It is something about myself I despise. I'm constantly surrounded by couples and I'm friends with so many couples I can't stand it ...

A. 29 November 2011: Ok where do i start, there is plenty of people out there your age that are single and still have not had a partner, your still very young i now you may feel left out when all your other friends have girlfriends but behind it all i bet there wi... (read in full...)

My girlfriend dresses attractively when she goes out with her friends but when she's with me,its always the usual t-shirt and jeans

Q. Well, I've always noticed that my girlfriend dresses attractively when she goes out with her friends(of course,this includes guy friends),but when she's with me,its always t-shirt and jeans,in fact she only wears the same 3 or 4 t-shirts over and ...

A. 29 November 2011: Maybe your girlfriend just feels comfortable around you and that you dont care if her makeup/hair is done to perfection thats a good thing right?, im a girl and i know it takes a very long time for a girl to feel comfortable with herself around a ... (read in full...)

What do I do about my dirty little secret?

Q. what do i do when i really like this guy, i've dated him before and we've had sex lots of times, were not dating right now, i'm kinda making him my dirty little secret (cheating) but i really like him and i don't wanna hurt the guy i'm with...idk ...

A. 29 November 2011: Your very young to be juggling with this.. Best advice i can give u is if you were in a relationship before with him and it did not work out, chances are it wont either this time around!! If you dont want to hurt the guy your now with you should not ... (read in full...)

She wants to be friends, I want to move on

Q. It's been almost 2 weeks since my ex and I broke up. We decided mutually to break up, even though she brought it up and that I still loved her, I lied and let her go because I didn't want her keep going with me. Okay can't be arsed to tell the sob ...

A. 29 November 2011: In order for you to move on you need to cut every bit of contact that ye have... Yes it may be hard totally understandable but she dosent have your best interests at heart so she is really not worth getting upset over. If she questions you on why ... (read in full...)

She wants to be friends, I want to move on

A. 26 March 2011: A girl who dose that is not worth you time, try stay well away from her and cut off all contact it will benefit you if she is only trying to make you jelouse, she may have no respect for you nor herself from the sounds of it... Think of it this... (read in full...)

Opinion on friends with benefits?

Q. Friends with benefits. What's your opinion? Do these kind of "relationships" always turn into something much more complicating? ...

A. 26 March 2011: YES definitly friendship and respect get thrown out the window, relationships and friendships ar to very diffrent things and should not be mixed up.. You could lose out in a good friendship for what the sake of 1 night ?? ... (read in full...)

Feeling unmotivated, isolated, and questioning my relationship with my bf. What to do??

Q. I'm not really sure what to say. I am really struggling with life at the moment, I guess. I kind of feel as though I am ruled by my emotions. There are things I want to do and that I am working towards, like my degree. But some days I just can't ...

A. 13 March 2011: Can i just start off by saying i know what your going threw, I suffer from savior anxiety (social) and deppression i have been batling it for a long time and i know how alone you ar feeling at the moment but please take my advice i kept hiding all ... (read in full...)

My ex is making sexual comments against me

Q. Hello, i hope you can help. two years ago i started dating this boy who kept nagging me (i didnt like him and he was annoying at first) after a while i gave in and gave him a chance as a reslut of this i dumbly fell for him. it was a long year rel...

A. 10 March 2011: Hunny dont go back, if it was so bad when you had been in a relationship with him dont put yourself threw that again. He seems like the type of guy who is all for him self and dose not care about anybody elses feelings including yours.. You will ... (read in full...)