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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?
Q. Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. ...
A. 30 October 2008: All right, Fade. I didn't mean "wrong" as in "bad". I meant it as in "not everyone likes shaved 'fannies and willies'" to borrow Big Sis' expression.
We're in peace, dear.... (read in full...)
Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?
Q. Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. ...
A. 29 October 2008: Some men do like female hair.
I think the guys you've met were bad ones. At least impolite.
Big Sis, you're my kind of girl.... (read in full...)
Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?
Q. Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. ...
A. 29 October 2008: Fade, You're WRONG.... (read in full...)
Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?
Q. Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. ...
A. 29 October 2008: Sirena Blusera, as Fade said, that is because hair on the chest is not in most Mexican men's genes.
You find an occasional Cousin Itt, however.... (read in full...)
This guy kissed me (I'm male) and more has happened since!
Q. Me and 5 other mates went to South Africa for a holiday which we said that we had been planning and talking about for nearly 3 years. 1 of the guys who came with us was openly gay. He wasn't camp or anything like that lol. The group, myself ...
A. 24 October 2008: Not only friends should accept the poster for what he is, whatever his sexual inclination is. He should, too. That is his problem.... (read in full...)
Husband having sex with other men...but he tells me...am I crazy?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 25 years and we have 3 great college-age children. We have a great relationship and a good marriage. Recently he has started having sex with older men. He says its just "sex" and he is not gay. He wants me ...
A. 24 October 2008: Fade, I'm sorry, but I never said what you think I said. Maybe it's a language thing, the fact that English is NOT my native language. In my books, it's cheating, and worse, if you're open about it. I thought the irony was clear.
I feel you... (read in full...)
Husband having sex with other men...but he tells me...am I crazy?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 25 years and we have 3 great college-age children. We have a great relationship and a good marriage. Recently he has started having sex with older men. He says its just "sex" and he is not gay. He wants me ...
A. 24 October 2008: Oldfool, I respect your point of view, though obviously I disagree with you. No big deal, different opinions are what makes this site great. And we have agreed in the past, sometimes very much.
I just would like to point to something. English ... (read in full...)
Husband having sex with other men...but he tells me...am I crazy?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 25 years and we have 3 great college-age children. We have a great relationship and a good marriage. Recently he has started having sex with older men. He says its just "sex" and he is not gay. He wants me ...
A. 24 October 2008: I'm with LostSoul. "Sleeping with other men" is the definition of "gay". You're husband is gay. I respect Crowson, but, from this side of the fence, it's not easy to see whether he's a bisexual or someone who's always been gay, but slept with ... (read in full...)
Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?
Q. Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. ...
A. 24 October 2008: Well, I will take it that you have something against me, Fade. There is no point in discussing this point, however.
Once I said that, if I went faster than a certain speed while driving, I wouldn't trust myself. By that, I meant that a sneeze, ... (read in full...)
Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?
Q. Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. ...
A. 24 October 2008: And if you know the sort of accidents that can happen with a straight razor, you don't put it anywhere near "the family jewels".... (read in full...)
Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?
Q. Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. ...
A. 23 October 2008: Fade, you have scared ME.... (read in full...)
Are we meant to be together?
Q. I've been "with" my guy for 3 years now. In that time we spent a year "broken-up" but we were together anyways just not officialy you know becuase we wanted to resolve our issues etc. before we went any further now that we are back together it's ...
A. 23 October 2008: I don't believe there is a magical force that puts you near anybody. I do think that, if both parties try to work a relationship out, that happens.
If you both try, then you will be together. It won't happen because Fate would have it that way... (read in full...)
This guy kissed me (I'm male) and more has happened since!
Q. Me and 5 other mates went to South Africa for a holiday which we said that we had been planning and talking about for nearly 3 years. 1 of the guys who came with us was openly gay. He wasn't camp or anything like that lol. The group, myself ...
A. 23 October 2008: You're gay. I think you should accept it.... (read in full...)
Do men shave their pubes? Do women like it if they do?
Q. Hey, just a quikie...do men shave thier pubes? like i always thought armpit shaving was a girl thing but i have seen men do it, and i tried to shave my crotch pubes once because i see loads of men with no pubes thier, so i thought it was normal to. ...
A. 23 October 2008: Deejuliet, you're very funny :-). I will remember this joke whenever I see an elephant.
I can offer this thought. Where I live, men my very young 38 years of age don't shave anything but their moustaches and beards, if they have any, that is ... (read in full...)
Why is it that boys are obsessed with breasts?
Q. Hey guys, I am 15 years old and am blessed with generous cups. My bf regards my breasts very sexy. Why is that boys are obssessed with breasts? My all bfs used to suck breasts more than to have sex. Personally,I like that but I dont understand ...
A. 23 October 2008: That, too.... (read in full...)
I'm 23 and I'm meeting my new date who is 42, tonight. Any advice?
Q. Hi guys a bit of help hear, My ex bf just rang me to say that one of his and his new partners mates wants to meet me, ive said yes and agreed to meet me on my own in a public place, m ex is 28 and the guy im meeting 2nite is 42 where im 23 is there...
A. 22 October 2008: Maybe I will change my mind in a few years, but I agree with Birdy. I don't think there is any real relationship between people who are at very different stages of life.
Also, I don't think you have "long-term" in your mind, at least not now, but... (read in full...)
In a polyamourus relationship and my female lover is pregnant!
Q. I have been part of a Polyamourus relationship for 5 months now, my girlfriend is married to my best friend and I love her very much. Her husband is completely understanding as he has a girlfriend of his own, and we do nothing that he doesn't know ...
A. 22 October 2008: I agree with you. The coming of the baby has changed the situation, and you now have to adjust to it. How you will, I don't know.
As to your harming the baby if you leave, I doubt it. I'm more inclined to believe that this is your way to say y... (read in full...)
Why is it that boys are obsessed with breasts?
Q. Hey guys, I am 15 years old and am blessed with generous cups. My bf regards my breasts very sexy. Why is that boys are obssessed with breasts? My all bfs used to suck breasts more than to have sex. Personally,I like that but I dont understand ...
A. 22 October 2008: "Mysterious couple of lumps"... (read in full...)
Why is it that boys are obsessed with breasts?
Q. Hey guys, I am 15 years old and am blessed with generous cups. My bf regards my breasts very sexy. Why is that boys are obssessed with breasts? My all bfs used to suck breasts more than to have sex. Personally,I like that but I dont understand ...
A. 22 October 2008: Taste, may I borrow your phrases:
"A bra will help your breasts continue to be spectacular, perky and happy"
"boobs are fun to play with, they're jiggly and bouncy and so grab-able"
and
"they're just a mysterious couple of lumps that ... (read in full...)
Why is it that boys are obsessed with breasts?
Q. Hey guys, I am 15 years old and am blessed with generous cups. My bf regards my breasts very sexy. Why is that boys are obssessed with breasts? My all bfs used to suck breasts more than to have sex. Personally,I like that but I dont understand ...
A. 22 October 2008: Men, not only boys, love breasts. I don't know if there is a philosophical explanation to it. This is just one natural instinct for us. It is as if you asked me why I like orange juice. It just tastes good! That is the explanation I can give ... (read in full...)
Can a person resist temptation and survive?
Q. Can a person resist temptation and survive? I have fallen in love with someone that I have no business loving. Ya, it started innocent enough. It was a situation where it was SO not a worry, I guess I didn't protect myself, the way I would for ...
A. 22 October 2008: It is indeed possible to avoid an involvement that will damage everyone. All it takes is to really try. If you don't want to be alone with this person, for example, make sure you anticipate the series of events so you never have to be alone with ... (read in full...)
Is having a virtual gf, with the intent of meeting her in real life....a good thing or not?
Q. ok,well lets see who can help me, many of you might know what a Vworld is, many might not, here is a link to one of the many www.kaneva.com i want to know, Is have a virtual g/f is a good thing or not? eg: getting ego boost so you can go fo...
A. 22 October 2008: My personal opinion is that it is not. I prefer the real thing.... (read in full...)
What are the most reliable tell-tale signs that a man is attracted to a woman?
Q. What are the most reliable tell-tale signs that a man is seriously attracted to a woman? I've read books, magazines, web stuff etc. etc. over the years and I'm still none the wiser! Sometimes I think a man is attracted to me or fancies me only to ...
A. 22 October 2008: If you want to know when a man truly loves you, don't look at whether he sends you flowers or sees you in a particular way, or opens the door for you. Don't check whether his eyes seem to beam when he's with you. That's BULLSHIT. If he is willing ... (read in full...)
Does he disrespect me because I was a lap dancer?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together 6 months. Well before i met my boyfriend i was a lapdancer which he has always known from the start of our relationship. I made an innocent comment about dancing the other day, which led him to call me a slag, a ...
A. 21 October 2008: I just asked for one reason: sometimes what a person finds innocent another does not.
I also wish I had better news for you, but I don't. I think he is having trouble with the fact that you used to be a lap dancer. He says he doesn't see you ... (read in full...)
Does he disrespect me because I was a lap dancer?
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together 6 months. Well before i met my boyfriend i was a lapdancer which he has always known from the start of our relationship. I made an innocent comment about dancing the other day, which led him to call me a slag, a ...
A. 21 October 2008: I wonder if you can tell us what the comment was.
By the way, I don't think you're a bad woman.... (read in full...)
Am I being stupid by making all the effort?
Q. Hi me and my boyfriend have been split up for about 8 weeks and hes now involved with someone else anyway we agreed to try and stay mates even tho the girl hes now involved with dosent like me one bit, so he says for me to ring him which i do but t...
A. 21 October 2008: I don't think you're stupid. You're in love, but you have realized that this isn't worth the effort. I guess this is not the definition of stupid, but of its opposite.
Well done. Stop wasting your time and go after someone who is worth it.... (read in full...)
She's decided to give away what seemed to me to be a blossoming relationship.
Q. My girlfriend of nearly a year told me a bit over a week ago that she was leaving me as she'd accepted a job in the country after going on a trip, and she's leaving in a few weeks. It was a very big shock to me as we had honestly been getting on ...
A. 21 October 2008: Sorry, man. I've been where you are and I know what you're going through. I think I need to add a bit. I know it's going to hurt, but you have to hurt if you're going to get out of this.
Don't put words I never said in my mouth. I never sa... (read in full...)
Is it normal to not have a wet dream?
Q. Hi I'm 15 years old and i have never had a wet dream. I haven't really asked many peole if they've had one yet but all of them have said yes. Is it normal not to have one? I seem to masturbate OK....
A. 21 October 2008: I can say this much. Semen is produced regularly. If it doesn't find its way out because of intercourse or masturbation, it goes out spontaneously. That is what we call a "wet dream". That is to say, masturbation or intercourse = no wet dreams.... (read in full...)
Will he leave his wife after he gets his finances in order? What do you think?
Q. Help!!I am a 40 year old female. I looked up a old love we were 18 we lived together briefly. his parents as well as mine did not like the relationship and eventually he left. i looked him up a few months ago i have never stopped loving him all ...
A. 21 October 2008: Well, let's hope that with work and patience everything works out.... (read in full...)
Everyone wants me to divorce him, but I love him so much!
Q. Dear Cupid , My name is Randee, I married a 42 year old man when i was only 18, and everybody wants me to get divorced. But i love him too much, we also had a baby together. He also did drugs. What should i do?...
A. 21 October 2008: It's difficult to say. We don't know if your life with him is good despite his having used drugs. I also wonder whether he is currently using drugs, or whether this is something he put behind.
If the only reason to leave him were his age, the... (read in full...)
Will he leave his wife after he gets his finances in order? What do you think?
Q. Help!!I am a 40 year old female. I looked up a old love we were 18 we lived together briefly. his parents as well as mine did not like the relationship and eventually he left. i looked him up a few months ago i have never stopped loving him all ...
A. 21 October 2008: It's difficult to say, dear poster. I would say that, if he's unhappy in his marriage, there does not seem to be too much to stop him from leaving his wife. But, like I say, it's difficult to know.
I wish you the best.... (read in full...)
She wants to take a step back and focus on her situation...
Q. Hi, I met a great woman several weeks ago, and we seemed to have an instant connection. I have been separated for 7 months and waiting for the divorce to go through and she is also nearly completing her divorce. She text and called a few times ...
A. 21 October 2008: Ah, and just for the sake of responding to questions, I think MammaMia is right. There's no waiting here.
I saw that "waiting" part in "waiting for her to re-focus", since she is "taken back by the poster". But, now that I read better, there is... (read in full...)
She wants to take a step back and focus on her situation...
Q. Hi, I met a great woman several weeks ago, and we seemed to have an instant connection. I have been separated for 7 months and waiting for the divorce to go through and she is also nearly completing her divorce. She text and called a few times ...
A. 21 October 2008: All right :-). I'm not personally involved anyways.... (read in full...)
Could my boyfriend be gay?
Q. I have been dating this extremely nice thoughtful almost perfect guy, but I can't help to think that he might be gay. He is 32 years old, has never been married and has very little dating experience. He has some female mannerisms such as crossing ...
A. 21 October 2008: Much of what you mentioned does not mean he's gay. I do share your point of view, however, about his shaving his legs. That's not something most of us do. And his explanation of his shaving his legs is the least-believable I have ever heard. Why ... (read in full...)
She wants to take a step back and focus on her situation...
Q. Hi, I met a great woman several weeks ago, and we seemed to have an instant connection. I have been separated for 7 months and waiting for the divorce to go through and she is also nearly completing her divorce. She text and called a few times ...
A. 21 October 2008: Just this note, to see things from the other side. Maybe the woman isn't sure about this guy. I understand that she needs to get to know him. She might ask for time to "focus". However, that doesn't mean that, in her adding and substracting, she ... (read in full...)
He had absolutely no compassion when I told him I was raped.
Q. While discussing with my fiancee about when I was raped when younger he couldn't put his arms round me and when I cried he just got angry and said we were in a shitty relationship, does he really love me? or will he abandon me?...
A. 21 October 2008: Fade, I would leave it at "Take a cold hearted idiot".
I agree that you need to put this behind. It wasn't your fault, and your fiancé should be human enough to notice that.
I would have second thoughts about this guy. If he can't understand... (read in full...)
She wants to take a step back and focus on her situation...
Q. Hi, I met a great woman several weeks ago, and we seemed to have an instant connection. I have been separated for 7 months and waiting for the divorce to go through and she is also nearly completing her divorce. She text and called a few times ...
A. 21 October 2008: Sorry. To remain friends CAN do harm. It will do harm to the poster, who might wait in vain for who knows how long a time. Honest question: What if she doesn't make her mind up? Will the poster wait until she does, if she does, that is? Why do ... (read in full...)
She wants to take a step back and focus on her situation...
Q. Hi, I met a great woman several weeks ago, and we seemed to have an instant connection. I have been separated for 7 months and waiting for the divorce to go through and she is also nearly completing her divorce. She text and called a few times ...
A. 21 October 2008: I beg to differ with Smiles.
Give her space, and DON'T get in touch if she doesn't initiate it. Whatever her reason, you don't want to appear pushy or impatient.
Also, you don't want her to think she has you at her beck and call. You're a ... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed about my height... I'm so damn short!
Q. I'm 19 and 5'6" tall. I feel so damn short. I used to be pretty tall compared to my class mates just a couple of years ago, now that I meet them on the streets it's surprising how much I haven't grown at all, as people who were shorter than me ...
A. 21 October 2008: And I would marry taller women.... (read in full...)
How can I clean my white tongue?
Q. so I was making out with this guy and somehow he noticed my tounge is pretty white.. embarrass me much? anywho, I use a tounge scraper! so what else can I do to clean my tounge?...
A. 20 October 2008: Use your toothbrush without any toothpaste on it. That works.... (read in full...)
What condom size should I use?
Q. hello, is there a way i can measure myself so i know what condom to use, and none of them , seem to have a size on them...
A. 20 October 2008: Sorry to disappoint you. I'm a translator and I happened to translate the size chart for condoms. You know, the "extra wide and long ones" are 55 millimeters wide, and eighteen centimeters long. The "average" ones are about 52 millimeters. So, ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to not have a wet dream?
Q. Hi I'm 15 years old and i have never had a wet dream. I haven't really asked many peole if they've had one yet but all of them have said yes. Is it normal not to have one? I seem to masturbate OK....
A. 20 October 2008: You don't seem to masturbate :-). You masturbate, man :-). Masturbation is the reason why you haven't had a wet dream.... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed about my height... I'm so damn short!
Q. I'm 19 and 5'6" tall. I feel so damn short. I used to be pretty tall compared to my class mates just a couple of years ago, now that I meet them on the streets it's surprising how much I haven't grown at all, as people who were shorter than me ...
A. 20 October 2008: No, there's no way to change your height. You've grown as high as you will.
Why does it bother you? I know this sounds like too easy a question. I used to feel bad about it when I was a teen-ager, too. As time went by, I learned not to worry... (read in full...)
Debts piling up, should I do some topless modelling?
Q. hi, I'm having a problem regarding my future, I'm a college student and working as a part-time model to afford my college expenses. I've been doing some simple body modeling, lately business been slow and I need money for pay my college fees, my...
A. 20 October 2008: If you want to do it, what can we say?
If you're unsure about the decision, I can tell you that, in my opinion, there are some things a person shouldn't do. For example, I wouldn't belong to a certain political party even though doing that wou... (read in full...)
She's decided to give away what seemed to me to be a blossoming relationship.
Q. My girlfriend of nearly a year told me a bit over a week ago that she was leaving me as she'd accepted a job in the country after going on a trip, and she's leaving in a few weeks. It was a very big shock to me as we had honestly been getting on ...
A. 20 October 2008: We have all been where you are now, so it's easy to see why you're feeling confused and why you come here for help.
The bad news first. She didn't suddenly lose interest in you. She lost interest little by little, over small but signific... (read in full...)
This feeling of being smaller in size is very disturbing.
Q. My penis is just about 3.5" flaccid and 6" when erect. I feel it to be very small and feel like it has shrinked down with the passage of time. Currently I live without a woman for the past more than a year. However, I am not a failure with my women ...
A. 20 October 2008: I'm not a lady, but I can offer this thought. I don't like the fact that I used to be able to play soccer the whole afternoon and I would still have energy left. However, I need to understand this is how it is.
I think your problem is insecuri... (read in full...)
What should I do to make my breasts most attractive?
Q. What should I do to make my breasts most attractive???? Secondly, my mom urges me to wear a bra. I don't like it and so does my boyfriend. In this case, What type of bra would you suggest??...
A. 20 October 2008: I guess breasts are pretty on their own.... (read in full...)
Do men say the opposite of what they think?
Q. I met this guy on the last day of a week trip to Hawaii. He knew I was leaving soon but wanted to get me out for lunch. We did so and had a great time. Really good connection. Over the course of the "date", he suggested numerous times that we should ...
A. 20 October 2008: I think that maybe he is busy with work and hasn't had the time to reply.... (read in full...)
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