A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am 1 month pregnant and my bf told me to take out my baby because he has more plans and dreams for our relationship. Do you think it is right for me to choose him rather than my baby? Anyway, my bf is married to another woman but he told me that they are separated. Do I have to trust him? Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Lizzybeth01  +, writes (16 December 2008):
 I don't think you should trust him...he's already gone behind the back of another women, what would posses him to not do the same to you. Right now, you need to focus on the needs of your baby. What are you going to do? Can you afford it? All those sorts of things. And remember, with or without the guy you are blessed to have this baby in your life.
A
male
reader, Danielepew  +, writes (15 December 2008):
 I have always thought that you should always choose children over partners, wives, whatever. It might not be easy for you to see it because you're young and alone, and, if you didn't perform the abortion, you would need to rear that child alone. But this is the truth. To make it simpler for you to see, what would you think of a mother who left his chid behind to run away with a lover?
On the other hand, what this man wants is simply to be free of a responsibility. He does not see that baby as flesh of his flesh. In his view of things, that baby is nothing but trouble and financial hardships. So, I think it's best if you forget about him, whatever you do.
I wish you and that baby the best.
...............................
A
female
reader, ReachForTheSky +, writes (15 December 2008):
 DO NOT TRUST HIM! any guy that will get his girlfriend pregnant while still married to another woman is scum. How do you know they are really seperated? if they are, why arent they getting a divorce? Stay away from this guy, and find one who is unattached and will really love you for who you are.
...............................
|
