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writes:I have been with my man for 3 years the sex has been great but recently I have noticed that he has not been able to ejaculate while have intercourse. He will ejaculate while we are having oral sex, is there something wrong with me? For some reason I am not as moist and tight as I was before I had a baby could that be part of the problem? Someone please help! Thanks Lena
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reader, LOSTONEla +, writes (29 January 2009):
Sounds like it could be emotional on his part - talking is best. I have been there - and it could be (I dont know) an intimacy problem. Or just being tired or not being able to relax and take time. Do not blame yourself - you need to be understanding to him and not take it personal unless he gives you some concrete reason to feel bad about yourself. Otherwise, you will only make the situation worse for both of you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): Are you taking care of contraception? Maybe he is scared of another pregnancy. You mith be tired and not always in the mood for sex; that might explain your lack of natural lubrication. I suggest, you both have a good talk about the issues that are worrying you. Communication is very important and it can only help you both to understand each other better. Use proper contraceptives, take advantage of foreplay and you will hopefully both be able to enjoy a good and fullfilling sex life again.
Good luck!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (15 December 2008):
 I'm not sure if there is a problem. Maybe what is happening is that both of you are tired, since now you have a baby to look after. That takes time and makes you stay up :-). Maybe that's all there is to it?
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