I have three options in asking her out: What one's best?
Q. hi ive just started the sumer holidays and there is this girl in a lot of my classes who is pretty and i like that added me on facebook. we were talking on comments and i THINK that we are flirting. she comments on my status a lot and i comment on ...
A. 27 July 2009: ask for her messenger, start to get each other better. When things are more friendly, ask her to go to the movies, or do something together, something casual, see if theres chemistry. Good luck,... (read in full...)
How do women prefer to be approached?
Q. Yer this may sound stupid but i need some advice: I went to this rave the other day and literally as soon as i got there was this girl who was interested in me (without doing anything). All my mates tried to get with her and failed miserabl...
A. 27 July 2009: Never put a LOT of attention to the girl, be more mysterious, not so desperate. Try to be a little bit mean with her, in a soft way, of course. Feel like a MAN, lead, take the desicions, control the situation. Women love Men, as simple as tha... (read in full...)
What do you think this dream means?
Q. What does it mean when someone tells you in a dream they love you?...
A. 27 July 2009: Dreams are connected to our unconscious, at least that's what Sigmund Freud believed. So probably you're trying very hard for this person to love you or you are right now in need of love, or maybe you have this feeling that this person secretly ... (read in full...)
Is the "bum" considered a sexual organ?
Q. My husband and I had an argument this morning about anal sex. He doesn't want to do it because he says the bum isn't a sexual organ. Is that true?...
A. 23 November 2008: yes it is, your husband is right.... (read in full...)
Why don't girls want to talk to me?
Q. well, Im seventeen, and Ive never had a girlfriend. in fact, ive only had like two or three girls that were just friends. I dont know what it is about me that makes me feel so hopeless around them. all the other guys at my school can talk to any ...
A. 23 November 2008: how do you look? do you have a lot of boy friends? are you popular? do you really have a high self esteem? i need more details for a better answer.... (read in full...)
I love my wife... but I am having this battle of wanting to be with men.
Q. I love my wife. I really do! But I am having this battle of wanting to be with men. I am so natural with men, whether it be sex or just sitting in a room with them. I don't know what to do. My wife knows I have been with men. I think I am Gay and I ...
A. 16 November 2008: I'm sorry to hear you are having problems with your wife, not only because of your strong desire to be with men but also because of the money, What XXSABBYXX recommended you its a good idea, a threesome can make you feel better, and maybe you need ... (read in full...)
Caught my daughter masterbating
Q. I caught my daughter masturbating at her room with a dildo,and she was orgasming, she then noticed me and went to the bathroom crying. What should I tell her?...
A. 16 November 2008: Ignore it. She will feel very bad if you try to talk to her, things will get awkward or something. Just forget it, and next time you talk to her do it normally, dont make her feel embarrassed, masturbating its not wrong.... (read in full...)
I know there's no future with him but I still can't stop thinking about him...
Q. I need serious help!! About 2 years ago I really liked this guy called chris and I ended up telling him I had feelings for him which was a big mistake as he said he didn't feel the same way.. We never knew each other properly and I guess that was ...
A. 9 November 2008: you are in a very tough situation, but you're right, george is a good guy and deserves the best. You can't give him that, if your still in love with chris.You need to stop seeing chris, his friends, everything that reminds you of him because you ... (read in full...)
I love my wife... but I am having this battle of wanting to be with men.
Q. I love my wife. I really do! But I am having this battle of wanting to be with men. I am so natural with men, whether it be sex or just sitting in a room with them. I don't know what to do. My wife knows I have been with men. I think I am Gay and I ...
A. 9 November 2008: talk to your wife, she needs to know the truth, you can keep being unhappy with your life. If you continue keeping all this feelings to yourself one day you'll explode. Maybe you just need to start all over with a guy and see what happens. Just ... (read in full...)
Is he playing this game because he's wondering if I like him? Any advice?
Q. Hey there! This last Saturday, I went to Homecoming with three of my girlfriends - all of us dateless - and kind of "bumped" into this guy that I sit next to in Spanish class. During class, he usually will tease me a bit, or at least start small ...
A. 22 October 2008: Dont think about it too much, he obviously likes you but not because of that means that everyday he is going to stalk you! relax, send him positive signs that you like him too so he can feel confident enough to ask you out.... (read in full...)
Which guy is playing me and which guy likes me?
Q. Okay I just want to know which guy is in playing or likes me. I would like to have a male point of view but females can too. The thing is with these guys I don't even flirt with any of them, I just act like myself, and I am shy,but generally ...
A. 1 October 2008: yep. too confusing, 4 guys but you like none.. so whats the question again...?
Guys stare at pretty girls because there's an attraction. sorry if you are shy and think this is weird, but you'll have to deal with it. It happens.... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for a 13 year old to date a 16 year old?
Q. im 13 and i really like this guy who is 15, but he is about to turn 16 in a couple months, is it wrong if we date? but i really like him, and he really likes me....
A. 15 September 2008: I dont think it's wrong
if you really like him, go for it.
But remember those 3 years of difference
will eventually come out when you talk about a subject and
you have different opinions or at the moment when you both want to get things physi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend hangs out with MY best friend more than me! Is this a big deal?
Q. ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 months. we were close before that so we're even closer now. but he hangs out with MY best friend (shes a girl) more than me. and it really bothers me. they live close to eachother but when they hang ...
A. 17 August 2008: What's going on with your best friend?
why dont you tell her how you feel, she needs to understand, you are not making a big deal about it.
Obviously you are not going to end their friendship, that would be over the top, but you can tell your bes... (read in full...)
Any tips on my first kiss?
Q. Ok. well as you know by my name im a youngiin to be accurate im 14. And yea i do have a bf of 2 months now (( today being 8/13/08 )) but i still havent had my first kiss, cuz i wanna have that with someone i truly care about and i really do care abo...
A. 14 August 2008: well first of all just relax, everything becomes natural.
Dont open your mouth too much, prepare yourself with soft lips and a really nice fresh breath.
Good luck(:... (read in full...)
There is an age difference between me and the boy I like, does it matter?
Q. I'm 15 almost Sixteen. He's just turned 17. He's starting his senior year. I'm starting my Softmore. I like him... alot ... and he seems to like me. but I think the age and grade diffrence may be in the way. do guys really care about that ??? ...
A. 8 August 2008: I dont think there is going to be a problem with age.
Guys dont matter that much, unless like betty_backstabber said if the girl is underage and they are having sex.
Dont worry, just continue your relationship and see where it goes. Hope it works... (read in full...)
Religion (feel free to debate and discuss!!)
Q. Lately iv been having a discussion/debate with a woman on here about religion, she's a muslim and im not really anything, more of an athiest with a hint of scientologist id say, and as you could imagine our opinions on religion are at complete ...
A. 4 August 2008: well my opinion about religion:
I DO believe in GOD or something superior to us but I dont believe in the bible or the church whatsoever. What's going to happen in 2012? i dont know, nobody knows, I dont think is going to be the end of the worl... (read in full...)
Trouble adapting to a new school and coping with the nasty comments!
Q. hi. ive recently moved from the US to the UK and i started school just a while ago. when i got to school on my first day everyone was friendly and nice however after school the most popular girl in school overheard my mum complaining about how there ...
A. 1 August 2008: try to ignore all the nasty comments about this jealous "popular" girl.
Ask for help to the boyfriend so he can introduce you to society. Having the opportunity to present yourself and show everyone how amazing you are.
DOnt let your self confiden... (read in full...)
How do I know if I'm bisexual?
Q. Hey I'm a bit confused about my sexuality i mean I'm getting married in 5wks to the most fantastic bloke I could wish for but I fantasize about having sex with women when I watch porn it has to involve at least 2 women I've had 3 somes with women ...
A. 1 August 2008: maybe you are just curious about sexuality and you just feel pleasure when you do something different involving women. That doesnt exactly make you bisexual, you can talk this with your new husband and both try a 3 some with another women. SOmehting ... (read in full...)
How can I stop frowning and being so miserable?
Q. Hello, Simply, how can I get a more happy persona and stop being miserable? My childhood wasn't always the happiest (parents divorcing, arguing etc), and I just want to learn how to be happier. People always tell me to stop frowning and sto...
A. 1 August 2008: try to get all your frustrations and everything that makes you miserable out.
go and take a therapy or look for professional help. I mean you are young you shouldnt be feeling this way. You should be enjoying your age and going out with your frie... (read in full...)
My best friend is in love with a jerk, how can I help her?
Q. i seriously need help... my best friend has pretty much fallen in love with a idiot. he treats her like shit, and they don't even go out. he is so mean to her and her friends. and he even told her that he talks to other girls like that and he's ...
A. 29 July 2008: what a good friend you are, i'm glad.
well first of all if your friend is in love then is not going to be easy to move on because in her mind she wants to get over him and she knows he treats her bad, but in her heart she is completly blind so its ... (read in full...)
I feel so ugly, will I ever get a boyfriend?
Q. Hey. Im a girl, Ive just turned 15. My problem is with my appearance. I always feel so ugly. Monsterously ugly, and people tell me Im ugly aswell. If Im out with my friends, lads will look my at my friends and smile, then look at me and they'll look ...
A. 28 July 2008: Number one: eventually you will have a boyfriend Number two: you need to start to belive in yourself and to take more care about your appearance. I totally agree with ChiRaven. Learn how to use make up properly. Take your time to do your rese... (read in full...)
He is very weird, some days he caring, but others he just ignores me, I was expecting him to ask me out sometime...
Q. I really need help I am desperate, i have a "thing" going on with one of my male friends for over 1 month and a half. Everything was going perfect, he was very happy, i was very happy, he was amazing. Funny, smart, loving. Until i got frustrat...
A. 26 July 2008: i ask him
what was going on between us...
i follow your advise
and he was such a girl.
he just told me.. umm nothing right?
so yeah... end of story
thanks for the help i guess... (read in full...)
How do I make up the ground we seem to have lost?
Q. ok heres the thing, im in a bit of a situation thats making me really upset but i dont know what to do, im 17 and ive been going out with a girl whos 16 for a bit over a year, and we havent had sex. and also we barely do anything physical at all,...
A. 26 July 2008: oh okay i'm sorry.
so she's shy.
hummm... well you'll have to take the lead,
still i'll support my advise:
talk to her or just make her feel comfortable when you get physical.... (read in full...)
Disappointed in myself because it took me months to get over it and then when I've finally gotten over it I go back to him!!
Q. ive recently started to date my ex again. i first went out with him 4 years ago for 6 months. i fell in love with him but he hurt me bad by finishing wiv me for someone else. He started going out with this girl and they moved in together. It took me ...
A. 26 July 2008: Enjoy your relationship, if it makes you happy, then dont worry. Be happy you know the song ;) haha jk well the thing is... maybe eventually you will break up or you wont get married or maybe you do. you NEVER know, so why worry about the future? ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cheated four times. Will she change?
Q. My grlfriend cheated on me four times,but I still love her and we got a child together.Do you think she will ever change?...
A. 26 July 2008: Do YOU think she is going to change?
there's your answer.
Don't waste your time and move on.
... (read in full...)
How do I make up the ground we seem to have lost?
Q. ok heres the thing, im in a bit of a situation thats making me really upset but i dont know what to do, im 17 and ive been going out with a girl whos 16 for a bit over a year, and we havent had sex. and also we barely do anything physical at all,...
A. 26 July 2008: just be confident. Maybe she's thinking that everythings getting too slow too. So you got 2 options
- talk to her, see what's going on, try to solve it the old fashioned way... through communication.
or
- Just wait for the moment, and get more... (read in full...)
My friends are away during holidays and I'm tired of being alone, what can I do?
Q. my best friends and my brother are on holiday, my parents are working full time everyday, my boyfriend dumped me and all other family members are a billion miles away...all i have are my dogs and my horses basically. I'm usually okay with being on m...
A. 26 July 2008: you can go to some public places, where you can meet new people. Try to make friends, maybe first on internet later in person.
Or you know you can always try to do things to enjoy yourself on your own. I mean watching movies, reading a book, li... (read in full...)
I know he's right for me BUT I always find flaws and worry too much. I'm even starting to doubt my love for him.
Q. I overanalyze everything and my new topic of overanalyzing is my bf. Im starting to doubt my love thinking, what if i dont love him? Is this a fear and how do I stop this fear down? Before this, I was SO HAPPY and still am but now when i meet him ...
A. 21 June 2008: I think you are not familiar with being okay in your relationship. I dont know if you understand me. I mean he is awsome, you have been together for almost a year or so, and you start looking him some flaws because:
#1: he is too perfect and you ... (read in full...)
Did she actually like me or what? She seemed so normal and cool before I asked her out.
Q. I was friends with this girl for over a year. One of my close friends told me that she wanted to hook up with me, so i decided to ask her on a date. I did, and she didn't give me an answer but was really nervous. She then told me later that she ...
A. 21 June 2008: time is bad? haha that girl has problems. MY advise, move on, forget her, and start to go out with your friends, hit the bars or clubs and find some ladies. She is not worth it. Maybe she doesnt want to get attached with someone right now.... (read in full...)
We flirted and kissed, then texted a week later, now I'm afraid to contact him in case he's busy or not interested...
Q. Well last Saturday week I was out in town with my friend and I meet this fella and we were flirting away, anyway we kissed and he also gave me a nick name which was a compliment. So he text me this saturday night to see where I was and why wasn...
A. 10 June 2008: He texted you
it means he is interested
dont be afraid, call him.
good luck... (read in full...)
My ex led me on, and now he tells me that he was just teasing me! I'm very hurt...
Q. Hello all agony aunts I need some help in the current situation I'm in, my ex of almost a year who has a girlfriend (his ex) has now lead me on twice. The first time was back in feburary in which he almost kissed me and told me the old feelings have ...
A. 3 June 2008: I know this must really hurt but you need to be strong and move on!
he is a jerk and he doesnt deserve you. Dont ever trust in him again, and look for someone who really loves you?... (read in full...)
Now he's in a relationship and I'm so confused!
Q. Ok, my situation is fairly complicated so please try to read it all and understand it. Well, me and this lad have been friends for about 18 months now and we get on really, really well. He used to text me every single day, sometimes until the early ...
A. 3 June 2008: he was very cruel, he chose someone else in a really bad time, i mean it was a little bit too late to make changes. It was not fair for you and i understand how bad you must feel but you need to move on, because if he stop texting you and all that, ... (read in full...)
Falling in love with my best friend...
Q. I love my boyfriend but.. recently I feel I am falling in love with my best friend too (Hes MALE) Im not sure what to do. My boyfriend is all 'im in love with you' whereas Im not sure. I dont think im IN love. But I do love him if that makes sense?? ...
A. 3 June 2008: First you need to know if your best friend feels the same way that you do.
try to send him some hints.
If he feels the same and you are still confused,
then...
go for the one who makes you truly happy.
the one who loves you for being your... (read in full...)
Is he messing around with his old girlfriend?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years and have never really thought he would ever cheat on me, but the other night he forgot his cell phone when he went to work so I peeked. I found a text message to an old girlfriend that he had sent stating " ...
A. 2 June 2008: maybe he's been flirty with her.
why dont YOU celebrate memorial day with him?
if he tells you he has something else to do, then there you go! it means he will celebrate with HER. In that case, confront him.
If is not the case and he celebrates i... (read in full...)
He cheated on me twice and the idea he could do it again behind my back is constantly on my mind!
Q. my boyfriend (met on the internet) cheated on me twice once was just a kiss but the second time was sex and he did it with his ex he says he loves me and i broke up with him but then we got back together but people (my family, frineds)keep telling ...
A. 2 June 2008: "once a cheater, always a cheater"
he cheated on you twice, you deserve a lot more than that
i would recommend you to leave him, try to move on.
You need someone who loves and respects you.
Dont waste your time with him. Good Luck... (read in full...)
He thinks I don't want to go out with him, how do I tell him that I do?
Q. i really like this boy. we've been really close and we're kinda like brother and sister but we still like each other.. a lot. we hang out a lot, usually sleep at each other's houses. we kiss in front of our friends too. but there's a problem.. he ...
A. 2 June 2008: talk to him. communication is the key :)
tell him how you feel, and please dont hurry with doing sex or sexual stuff, leave him wanting more please, or at least wait till you are his proper official girlfriend.... (read in full...)
My problem is that she seems to believe that I am stupid!
Q. A little background first. I am a 22 year old male dating a 20 year old single mother. He have known each other since High School and dated one for a short period of time. My problem is that she seems to believe that I am stupid. When asking about ...
A. 2 June 2008: Confront her, dont let her treat you like that. You are not stupid you deserve respect, and if she talks like that, she is no good. Why dont you start to treat her like she does? Treat her bad, when she tells you something nasty give her a good ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex wearing the necklace I got her, and of all the people she could have called to print out her paper, why did she call me?
Q. I am a college student...I broke up with my ex girlfriend over 3 months ago near the start of the semester. In the beginning i tried my best to try to make things work between us and maybe try to get back together. But things didn't work out. The ...
A. 2 June 2008: well i'm going to be honest with you.
Maybe she called you because she trusts you, she feels she can count on you because of your past relationship.
The necklace maybe she's wearing it because she likes it period. i recommend you to stop thinking... (read in full...)
Feel so attracted to my best friend, only recently I've realised she would be an absolutely perfect girlfriend!
Q. Hello, well basicly im starting to feel attracted to my best friend, only recently ive realised she would be an absolutely perfect girlfriend, i cant think of 1 fault, i know she liked me in the past do you think it might be worth a shot? We have a ...
A. 2 June 2008: okay well i would advise you to first give her some hints, try to be a little flirty with her, lets see how she reacts. You dont want to ruin your friendship, so play it save for now, until you get a good sign that she likes you back you can go for ... (read in full...)
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