I need to stop thinking about him and move on
Q. this sounds so silly but i cant stop thinking about a guy I had a one nite stand with on new years eve. I met him out in my town however he didnt live here. He was drop-dead gorgeous and we went back to mine and it was amazing. I have just come out ...
A. 10 January 2011: Leave it alone. If he has even an ounce of feeling for you, let him come after you. He will find a way if he really wants to be with you. Don't set yourself up for disappointment if you find him and he doesn't feel the same...let him come to you! ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's female friend is literally living at my place...with us!!
Q. my boyfriend has this friend that's a female, but heres the chatch they use to go out together but split up cause of some differences. Well at first I was ok with him talking to her and her working with him at his garage, but now she's every where ...
A. 22 December 2010: Incredible. Use your common sense here girl and move out or throw them both out!! ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to approach him about the problems we're having without him blowing up!
Q. I have a problem, my boyfriend and I have been dating a year. Lately, we have been having problems, most start off as little tiffs that escalate to huge blow outs. I'm tired of it and I know he is too. But, I don't know what to do about it or how to ...
A. 21 December 2010: Talk....wether he wants to hear it or not. He's fine...you're not. You can't communicate your feelings if you don't talk. You can look for it all to get worse if you don't communicate your feelings to him. ... (read in full...)
How do I get my family to toss my fat sister out of the house?
Q. Hi. I know this probably sounds stupid asking for help and advice on this question but i have to. as u all know christmas is approaching. my question is how do i get my family to toss my fat sister out of the house. she is crazy and selfish and ...
A. 21 December 2010: Sounds like a family of enablers. It's your Parents' house, let them make the rules under their roof! If they are fine with life as they know it, so be it. When they are ready to act, they will. Sounds like your sister has a touch of mental illness. ... (read in full...)
Why can't he look at me???
Q. Hi. Just wondering possible reasons? Over a year ago I had what is called an emotional affair at work. HR got involved and others...nevertheless it caused us to not be friendly anymore because of lies and drama..well we have been friendly here and ...
A. 21 December 2010: If he can't make eye contact, he's feeling guilty. Not a good situation to put yourself in...an office affair never turns out quite the way it does on TV or in a book,huh? ... (read in full...)
What's this guy's deal?
Q. Hello. there is this guy at work who hangs on a lot of women. He is married, sometimes they are too. I recon he may be the touchy feely type, but it bothers me in general... I just think its inappropriate workplace behavior, yet others participate ...
A. 21 December 2010: He just wants attention. Probably thinks he's some kind of Casanova. I'd advise him to keep his hands to himself if he approaches you. You don't even owe this cod an explanation of why. ... (read in full...)
What is the mindset of a man who makes obscene phone calls to women?
Q. I logged on to one of the secret confessions websites and I read the confession of a guy who, years ago made obscene phone calls to women and teenage girls. Even though he didn't give out his name or hometown, I think I know who he is and that I was ...
A. 21 December 2010: A desperate Pervert who is bored. ... (read in full...)
I love a man who is 37 years older than me. How do I tell my family?
Q. okay well i been dating this guy for 1 yr, i love him to death. he makes me feel great he put a smile every time i see him. there one problem he older than me 37yrs. i met him when i was turning 20. he loves me and i love him. my parents don't know ...
A. 21 December 2010: OMG an age gap of 12 years has been hell for me!! After 14 years of marriage, I'm 48 and he's 60, it's like taking care of my Dad. He has lost all interest in sex for the past year and now I'm simply his nurse and housemaid because he wants to go ... (read in full...)
I'm married, in love with another but he doesn't love me back
Q. I can't seem to know what went wrong! I have posted here about my feelings for a certain Mr. X even when I am married. My marriage has always been good except for some problems with my In-Laws. My husband is a very nice person who takes care of me...
A. 20 December 2010: What do you expect? Mr. X gets it all for free. You are caught up in a fantasy romance where nothing will outcome but hurt emotions for all involved. I agree with the other poster who replied to this question. You sound like a romance novel lost in ... (read in full...)
The long and the short of it!
Q. I consider myself short at 5'8". I have always had a strong attraction to taller women. The taller the better. Is this normal... do most guys around my height feel this way and do very tall women feel that attraction to shorter men?...
A. 19 December 2010: None of that tall/short stuff matters. Juat enjoy your dates for who you're with, not how tall/short they are. That is sooo not important! ... (read in full...)
He jokingly told me to get an abortion!
Q. Hello, I need some little help here. First of all, me and my boyfriend are together for about 2 years and we love each other very much. We haven't had sex yet, but we're about to (both virgins). One of my greatest fears is "what if the c...
A. 19 December 2010: You say you're a virgin? Stay that way until you marry.
If this guy is really worth it, he'll oblige you with other pleasures that do not involve condoms and the worry of becoming pregnant. Just remember it's also YOUR responsibility to not beco... (read in full...)
I'm texting a guy my friend likes to give him hints that she likes him
Q. Ive done something really bad, One of my best mates really likes this guy( they have been mates for ages) she always gos on about him and helps him out a lot with work, Anyway about 2 months ago, i took his number from her phone and started te...
A. 19 December 2010: Leave it all alone. It does not concern you and you're doing no one any favors being involved in something that may hurt another. ... (read in full...)
After what happened I don't trust women any more...
Q. well where do i start i got outta a relationship a while ago basically my ex aborted my kid she was suppose to be having my kid but because she didnt want to be with me, she aborted it and left me and its been a couple of months sense we split and i ...
A. 19 December 2010: Try to get a few self-help books for yourself. It bothers you by what she's done when you should have been part of the solution instead of the one left behind on the decisions. It's almost like you feel aborted too. I'm so sorry for your pain. You ... (read in full...)
Why is my wife so bitchy?
Q. Why has my wife turned so bitchy, and what can I do about it? My wife has always had a strong temper and did not hold back if she was REALLY mad. However, she was easy going most of the time. Now, in the last 6 months or so, she is mad all t...
A. 19 December 2010: I like your last statement. Take her out to coffee and ask her what's wrong. She may have issues and thinks you don't care if you don't talk with her about it. Approach her in a calm sweet manner when it's just the two of you. You'll never know if ... (read in full...)
I tried marriage counseling, so now what?
Q. Its been about 6 months since i posted my question asking what to do about my marriage (25 years) as i have been unfaithful to my wife with a woman that i truly believe to be my soul mate,.Ive followed advice given and have tried marriage counseling ...
A. 18 December 2010: When any person is going through a break up or divorce, the worst thing they can do is jump right into another relationship. Be single, clear your mind and your heart and start completely over or you will continue the cycle of mistakes over and over ... (read in full...)
Sexually frustrated and there's nothing I can do about it
Q. hey everyone! so i have this problem...kinda... so im 14...long story short...i had sex with this guy..."for fun" and that was the first and only time i did it...and it was great! and fun! and amazing! but heres the thing...i cant have sex with him...
A. 18 December 2010: What? You should focus on your education instead of boys being in your pants. Pretty is an outside thing. Clear your heart about that and seek self-help or therapy asap. ... (read in full...)
Offended, what's his problem?
Q. Help! I just came back from the office Christmas party and feel really shaken. I am friends with this colleague at work, but casually and we don't see each other that much. But every time we meet I feel this very strange and strong sensation, to the ...
A. 18 December 2010: To keep things on a professional basis at work, avoid him at all costs. On a personal level, do the same. You sound like the interested half of this. Work on renewing your vows to your husband and stay focused on yuor marriage, not his. ... (read in full...)
My girl friend is sending naked pictures of herself to her ex. Is that cheating?
Q. So the girl I've been dating for 6 months now has been sending naked pictures to her ex, and having conversations with him while telling him that she loves him too, and that he should come over to have sex with her, all while telling me that she's ...
A. 18 December 2010: Please don't be foolish enough to stay with this one...you can do better than second fiddle =) ... (read in full...)
Can my wife actually lose the weight?
Q. What is a person supposed to do when they are no longer attracted to there spouse? My wife and I have been together now for 13 years, 8 of which we have been married. She is awesome in many aspects which is why I love her so much. She has ...
A. 18 December 2010: OMG You are all about YOU! I'm sure she would be devastated to know what you've said about her.
Sounds like her unhapiness with you being a selfish jerk helped her to put on those extra pounds due to the STRESS and PAIN you've put her through. You ... (read in full...)
Should I stick with this marriage?
Q. I am 33 I have a three year old son and married for seven years, my husband is 54. There is the age difference and then our cultural background is starkly different as well; I am an immigrant. In the seven years that I am here I have not accom...
A. 18 December 2010: "Are you willing to try marriage counselling? It gives you a chance to speak out without your thoughts being interrupted and you have a chance to voice out your own opinions. While he may not be open to counselling, the last resort if you find that ... (read in full...)
It's growing pretty fast down there, do I need to shave?
Q. hey everybody, i have a question that I feel to embarrassed to ask anybody else in person so i'm wondering if you could help? Im 14 and down below is growing fast.. I'm going to a party soon and wearing a really short skirt so was wondering what is ...
A. 18 December 2010: too young to be thinking about stuff like this... (read in full...)
How do I shave without leaving stubble?
Q. How do i shave my pubic area? My boyfriend has recently asked my to completely shave my vagina, but when i did it with a razor, it just turned stubbly so wasn't very attractive. How do i shave without leaving stuble for a more sexy look?...
A. 17 December 2010: Don't tell a 16 y/o girl how to shave her tooki. She shouldn't even be thinking about such crap!! ... (read in full...)
I'm in the middle of a love triangle!
Q. Hey and Help! I am in a middle of a love triangle! There are three boys who go to my church and we are all really good friends. The fact is they all got a crush on me! I see two of my friends on Saturday at church and the other on every Wednesday of ...
A. 17 December 2010: Young Lady, you are NOT at Church for boys! Stop being silly and focus on the biblical message. Also read messages about how Jesus would want you to behave with boys. You are TOO young to even think about boys right now!! ... (read in full...)
Could the issue be deeper than it appears?
Q. Of late my wife seems to have lost interest in sex and in me in general - sorta nonchalant, and indifferent. We've had relationship issues these past years, but I'm beginning to suspect if she's approaching menopause. It's been on my mind for some...
A. 17 December 2010: Gee whizz...have you tried a little tenderness?? How about TALKING....I mean really talking to her about her feelings and what may be wrong? You shouldn't even have to ask such a question on a forum if you really paid her the attention she needs. ... (read in full...)
What should I do about my persistent ex?
Q. My ex keeps calling me like 5 times a day and wants me to be his gf, what should I do?...
A. 17 December 2010: Concentrate on your education. He sounds like a desperate idiot and needs to stop calling. Get your parents to file a restraining order on him if you need to. Stop taking his calls!!! Ignore him! You're only 16 and you have other things in life to ... (read in full...)
I cannot love him, even although we're married... Help!
Q. I have been married for the last 12 years, have wonderful 2 kids. My husband is a good man. We belong to different cultures. It was a difficult for me to adjust but I knew what I was getting into. I fell out of love with him a long time back. I ...
A. 17 December 2010: I really hope you can talk to him...mine just walks off when it comes to discussions of any kind. I can approach him in a calm quiet voice with a cup of coffee to talk and off he goes...He thinks the world revolves around him and I'm just the maid. ... (read in full...)
Tunnel vision positive thinking - used to your advantage
Q. Life is never perfect. Even people, who look like they have it easy, still have challenges. Maybe different challenges to people doing it much tougher, but challenges all the same. That's when it's much harder to feel positive. Even if we cou...
A. 16 December 2010: Wow! You have made me feel positive just by reading your article. It's like talking to and with someone who really understands. I have copied and printed this therapy session and it is now on my corkboard! Thank you for being here. =) ... (read in full...)
My friend says he is only with me until he finds someone older. Am I being foolish for accepting this?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for 5 months now and he's absolutley perfect! except he is 8 years older than me. So we agreed that we won't become boyfriend and girlfriend because at the end of the day we want different things. He says he is so crazy ...
A. 16 December 2010: Please use your common sense. You are being USED!! ... (read in full...)
What is an appropriate age difference?
Q. I have a question, I get hung up on age, is ten years too much of a difference. Is it wrong if the girl is ten years older like if she is 32 and he is 22?...
A. 16 December 2010: At my age (48 spouse is 60) I'd have to say don't marry a man any more than 3 years older. We've been together 14 years. Kids have grown and moved out...we have the house all to ourselves and I'm incredibly bored with the relationship! His interests ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 he's 11, should I ask him out?
Q. i fancy this guy who is two years younger than me. i am 13 and he is 11. we met on holiday in holland this summer and we are always texting and ringing each other. he lives about 15-20 minutes away from me so it isnt that far. i fancy him because he ...
A. 16 December 2010: Focus more on your School work than each other and you'll grow up to be good kids. ... (read in full...)
Should I stick with this marriage?
Q. I am 33 I have a three year old son and married for seven years, my husband is 54. There is the age difference and then our cultural background is starkly different as well; I am an immigrant. In the seven years that I am here I have not accom...
A. 16 December 2010: Get out while you can. The age difference will only leave you feeling lonely, unloved and miserable on down through the years. ... (read in full...)
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