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I'm 33 years old, living in Alberta Canada and I happened upon this site completely by accident. Glad I did, I found myself reading countless posts and trying to decide which ones to answer, lol. I've had a hell of a life so far, LOTS of experience for my age. I've overcome some fierce battles and kept on going strong, head up and still smiling! Learned ALOT with some fantastic advice given to me a time or two.
I'm known for my sense of humour and bluntness, though I've toned that down on here for the time being. My friends and relatives appreciate how I always give them an honest outlook, and that I care at the same time. I'm hoping that will ring true here as well.
I've got 2 fabulous kids, my whole world right there, like to keep busy and I work 2 jobs. I love reading and writing, people and places as well as being outdoors. |
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What do I do with him?
Q. i have recently been going out with a guy,we both decided to slow things down because things were goin to fast and we were fallin for eachother deeply.hes confused because his ex wanted him back but she cheated on him whilst they were together in ...
A. 11 March 2008: This will be short and sweet. The advice I have for you is to KEEP WALKING. This is trouble and not worth anymore of your thoughts, energy or time, what happens when the next round of confusion hits? Do you really want to allow such
d... (read in full...)
The irony is my mistress has finally managed to leave her husband, but I have remarried.
Q. I was married to a clinically depressed woman for 12 years. The depression killed her sex drive to the point of being almost non-existent for the last half of the marriage. Eventually, I turned to the affections of another woman. She was in an ...
A. 5 March 2008: HI, I've read this post over a few times now. I can tell there's a lot missing from the post, which isn't hard to do as you don't want to go on and on writing a novel. I agree with some of the other posters, you really haven't been too clear a... (read in full...)
According to his rules, he's allowed to sleep with other girls, but I cannot sleep with other guys. If I went along with his idea what does this say about me?
Q. My ex and I have been seeing each other for awhile now. I REALLY like him, maybe even love him. He has said that he cares about me a lot, more than any other girl. We're not committed to each other although I do have deep feelings for him and I ...
A. 12 January 2008: Get out, get out, get out!!!!!!!! Everything he wants to do and expects you to be/do is unworthy. If you don't turn around and get RID of this guy then you are nuts! Yes, I do think that would be classed as treating you badly- well, not considering ... (read in full...)
I refuse to have sex with him but we cuddle instead. His wife didn't want him until he found me. What should I do?
Q. I have been involved with a man that is a neighbor in my apt complex he lives 2 doors down. He used to talk to me about how miserable he was with her,we were good friends and he said he loved talking to me and I helped him by listening to his ...
A. 9 January 2008: Okay,
I've been seeing alot of this on here. Why do you let him back in your door? How about saying no, piss off, fix your problems, decide what you are doing and don't come here until you do.
The first mistake you made was talking to him i... (read in full...)
He's emailed many women saying he's bored with his current relationship. Is he being unfaithful or planning to? How do I confront him about this, as he will know I snooped?
Q. I am worried that my boyfriend may have cheated or be planning on cheating on me. I have been with my fiance for nearly 5 years and we have just bought our first house together in october. I had noticed that he was sending totally innocent mes...
A. 23 December 2007: Oh man, Okay, who cares if you snooped, don't let that bother you for a second, you had a feeling and you went with it...Thank god you did, I would be in agreement by saying you should sit down with him. Yep, he'll know you snooped, but SO ... (read in full...)
I deceived a married man to get me pregnant and he wants to be there for us, but I don't want him near us unless he leaves his wife, what is the right thing for me to do in this situation?
Q. I'm a single mom who had been seeing a married man for two years before his wife found out. After she found out, he broke it off with me, and we were both devestated. Then I called him a few times, and we started to see each other again, but ...
A. 22 December 2007: UNREAL. What a horribly shitty thing you have done. I'm sorry, but really, you have. The mess you are in is ALL your doing. Did you not understand that you were a good time fling on the side? He's got a wife and child already and obviously wasn't ... (read in full...)
His affair has really messed me up inside...I need help on how to cope?
Q. I know everyone means well, but everyone is making me feel like crap....My husband had an affair the 2months that he was doing this on the net and off, he became distant from me I dont believe it was the bad sex or because he felt bad for the...
A. 22 December 2007: Okay, #1, it's not your fault that this happened. Even though you are validating this time and again in your post it looks like you are still trying to figure out what you did. Stop. It was your husbands choice to be unfaithful and due to his own ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her if it's time we split (especially if I discover she is again unfaithful) or should I just accept our marriage in these circumstances?
Q. My marriage of 20 plus years is in serious trouble again. I caught her cheating a few times and she blamed me for her infidelities. I have made many changes to try and correct the issues she said made her cheat. Things between us got better for a ...
A. 20 December 2007: Why are you "waiting" for her to cheat again. Perhaps it's a reason you are after to let it go? It seems to me that you have enough reasons to just get up and get the hell out. It sounds as if you've exhausted yourself trying to make things right. ... (read in full...)
Why cant I stop having sex with this married guy, I don't even like??
Q. I am having a affair with a married man at work. I see him at least once a week when he comes into work in the AM, which is when we have sex, before I go home to my boyfriend of 15 years, who I really do love. The man I am having the affair with ...
A. 3 December 2007: Okay, I'm going all out blunt on this one. You want to know what is wrong with you, you are selfish that's whats wrong, and apparently do not care what sort of agony you cause anyone else. It's all about you right now and your own gratification, ... (read in full...)
He complains I snoop on his phone but I have caught him cheating with two other women.
Q. Dear Cupids, Well this has not happened once but three times. I have been dating this guy for 7 months now, he seemed to be so much into me and the relationship has been great except for one thing that I snooped in his phone while we were 3 months d...
A. 3 December 2007: Wow. I have a question for you.. WHY are you still hanging around this guy? Why are you even giving anything a second thought? You haven't known him long, and he seems to have absolutely no respect for you and not a care about what he is doing. ... (read in full...)
She slept with her ex, do I forgive?
Q. Am i being naive to think that this could work or should i just move on. Sorry this is so long but there is alot to be said. I have worked with this girl for 3 years (and known her just as long). I have always liked her, but i never did anythi...
A. 3 December 2007: Hi, The first thing I'd really like to say is "RUN" run far away and fast from this woman. I understand that you "think" you are helping her...Believe me, your words are going in one ear and out the other. I'm being as honest as I possibly can wit... (read in full...)
My wife has given me permission to have a sex buddy....is it a bad idea??
Q. My 46 year old wife is going through the menopause and has lost her sex drive to the point she has no desire for me or any other man on earth. I asked her to use her hand or to give me oral sex and she refused. She told me to find a woman that is ...
A. 2 December 2007: I am in agreement with what most people have said. I highly highly doubt that this is what your wife really wants. Menopause is a very unsettled time for a woman and she's obviously feeling guilty about not having an interest in sex.. I believe... (read in full...)
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