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My current relationship isn't going too well, I suspect this is due in part to me being in love with someone else. What to do?
Q. Hi, I'm a guy in my early 30's and I'm in love with my business partner. I took over the business that we both worked for shortly after she joined. I didn't start having feelings for her for a year or so, but when she split up with her partn...
A. 22 October 2008: Sooooooooooo, how are things going? Have you talked to her yet?... (read in full...)
My current relationship isn't going too well, I suspect this is due in part to me being in love with someone else. What to do?
Q. Hi, I'm a guy in my early 30's and I'm in love with my business partner. I took over the business that we both worked for shortly after she joined. I didn't start having feelings for her for a year or so, but when she split up with her partn...
A. 20 October 2008: Well, I need to say thanks to all of you, especially the original poster, anonymous, because this morning I hit my bottom with this fiasco at work with this guy that I'm attracted to, and who's been playing around with my emotions for six months now ... (read in full...)
My current relationship isn't going too well, I suspect this is due in part to me being in love with someone else. What to do?
Q. Hi, I'm a guy in my early 30's and I'm in love with my business partner. I took over the business that we both worked for shortly after she joined. I didn't start having feelings for her for a year or so, but when she split up with her partn...
A. 20 October 2008: Why are you apologizing for sleeping with so many girls? It's no one's business nor do you have to answer to anyone for that. And you don't owe an apology either.
You're askng for advice, well here it is. You're gonna HAVE to do whatever... (read in full...)
My current relationship isn't going too well, I suspect this is due in part to me being in love with someone else. What to do?
Q. Hi, I'm a guy in my early 30's and I'm in love with my business partner. I took over the business that we both worked for shortly after she joined. I didn't start having feelings for her for a year or so, but when she split up with her partn...
A. 19 October 2008: It sounds to me that she likes you but is probably being smart about not getting involved with someone at work which usually ends up disastrous. Do you think she would be interested in dating you if you didn't work together? Why don't you ask her, ... (read in full...)
My current relationship isn't going too well, I suspect this is due in part to me being in love with someone else. What to do?
Q. Hi, I'm a guy in my early 30's and I'm in love with my business partner. I took over the business that we both worked for shortly after she joined. I didn't start having feelings for her for a year or so, but when she split up with her partn...
A. 19 October 2008: It's so strange how we can fluently talk with those of the opposite sex, EXCEPT to the one who we really like/love. There are alot of non-verbal message he continues to send to me as well as flirt with me even though he has a girlfriend and I have ... (read in full...)
My current relationship isn't going too well, I suspect this is due in part to me being in love with someone else. What to do?
Q. Hi, I'm a guy in my early 30's and I'm in love with my business partner. I took over the business that we both worked for shortly after she joined. I didn't start having feelings for her for a year or so, but when she split up with her partn...
A. 18 October 2008: I'm really interested in knowing how you can tell "he's no good for me." I would value your opinion as a male.... (read in full...)
My current relationship isn't going too well, I suspect this is due in part to me being in love with someone else. What to do?
Q. Hi, I'm a guy in my early 30's and I'm in love with my business partner. I took over the business that we both worked for shortly after she joined. I didn't start having feelings for her for a year or so, but when she split up with her partn...
A. 18 October 2008: I just had to write you when I saw your post. Believe me, I feel for you and totally understand what you're going thru because I'm going thru the same thing you are, and shame on anyone who criticizes you for the feelings you have. Feelings are ... (read in full...)
How to survive an affair? I still feel betrayed and don't know what to do.
Q. How to survive an affair? My husband and I have been married for 16 years. About one year ago, after a very tough period together, I found out he was having an affair and had been for atleast a year with a woman who had worked for him previous...
A. 8 September 2008: Sorry you are faced with this issue. I suggest that you seek counseling in order to vent your feelings, then perhaps your husband will be brought into these sessions somewhere down the road, as determined by a reputable therapist. It sounds like ... (read in full...)
Work issue: I'm infatuated but I'm married!
Q. The difficulty I have is that I am infatuated with a woman at work and I’m married. I seem to have been up and down this problem and whenever I seem to have a new understanding of where I am I fall down a snake and I am at square one again. ...
A. 30 August 2008: My reply is very simple - YOU ARE MARRIED!! You have no business pursuing another woman. Am I the only person to tell it like it is? Or are women the only ones who get scorned and punished for adultery!! ... (read in full...)
Should I accept sharing my boyfriend with another woman???
Q. I have a boyfriend who had this other not so serious relationship before we met. He continues to see that woman and tells me everytime that he sees her. As this bothers me, I do not know how to address this issue to him. I do not want to give him up ...
A. 15 August 2008: If you want to find out where you really stand with him, tell him it's either her or me because realistically you can't be expect to put up with sharing him. Don't settle for anything less, honey. If you're not ready to give him this ultimatum, ... (read in full...)
After we had sex he said he'd call... it's been three days and I am going coo coo!!
Q. There has always been a chemisty between me and one of my best friends roommates. We ended up making out drunk at a party a couple months ago. We saw each other through our mutual friend we flirt, but nothing ever happened. Recently we ended up ...
A. 25 June 2008: I totally agree with "anonymous" male, above. So if you're looking for a real relationship more than sex, forget this loser and move on. And WHEN he calls you with all the excuses, give him your own excuses why you're no longer available to him.
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After we had sex he said he'd call... it's been three days and I am going coo coo!!
Q. There has always been a chemisty between me and one of my best friends roommates. We ended up making out drunk at a party a couple months ago. We saw each other through our mutual friend we flirt, but nothing ever happened. Recently we ended up ...
A. 25 June 2008: I totally agree with "anonymous" male, above. So if you're looking for a real relationship more than sex, forget this loser and move on. And WHEN he calls you with all the excuses, give him your own excuses why you're no longer available to him.
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Should I wait around for him to break up with her like he told me he would?
Q. so me and my ex boyfriend just recently broke up, and right after; he got back with a girlfriend he's been on and off with for about a year. it killed me, but i told him i was fine. after about 2 months of them being together; i finally started ...
A. 22 June 2008: As difficult as it may be, back off and go about your business. Date other guys, go out with friends. Don't wait around for him. If he really likes you then he'll come after you. Make him work hard to get you, then you'll be his prize!... (read in full...)
Why do women like to tease men about sex??
Q. Why do women like to tease men about sex? Why not just be open to their needs instead of making it such a big deal!!!...
A. 21 June 2008: What a loaded question this is for me right now!! I tell it like it is, thanks to some good advice I got from this DearCupid. What's teasing about telling a guy "I want to have wild and passionate sex with you"? Can we get any more direct and to ... (read in full...)
How can I get over the co-worker I had an affair with?
Q. I am married and had an affair with a co-worker who is single. Commitment was out of the question for both of us. It was suppose to be fun and easy, however he abruptly ended it. I see him just about every day so it's difficult not to think about ...
A. 9 June 2008: Why did he abruptly end it? How long did this go on? What are your ages?
The best thing you can do for yourself to empower your self-worth, confidence and dignity is to get on with your life. Flirt with other guys and whatever you do, don't sh... (read in full...)
Bizarre love triangle: the boy that my friend fancies is flirting with me, and I like him too. What should I do?
Q. okay well the thing is like this, i have a very good friend (sarah) who is obsessed with his best friend (Kyle). BUT. the other day we went out for dinner and Kyle was very VERY flirty with me. Now my problem is that i feel attracted to him...
A. 2 June 2008: If you really want to find out where you stand with him as well as not betray Sarah, then back off completely, go about your own business and stay out of the picture. If he really wants you then he will pursue you; if not, then best you find out ... (read in full...)
Do you think he was flattered by my compliment?
Q. This guy and I are attracted to each other at work. We are starting to get a bit flirty thru words and actions. Today I said to him that I would miss his sexy voice over the weekend. Do you think he was flattered by my compliment? Is there any ...
A. 21 May 2008: Thanks for your feedback, much appreciated. It happened again, only this time I told him about his sexy voice in front of other employees after he said my name soooo sexy. Could we get in trouble at work for this? We both do our jobs very well ... (read in full...)
I'm married and I want to avoid an affair at work. Will avoiding this guy do the trick?
Q. A guy (I'll call him Al) at work and myself are strongly attracted to each other. I am married and when I first starting working there 2 years ago he interested to know if I was married because Al wanted to get together with me. We look at each ...
A. 12 May 2008: This is an update, and thanks to all for advice which has really helped me. I have tried to convince myself that this attraction that Al and I share is all in my head, or a figment of my imagination, but I know it is not. Yet we are both married ... (read in full...)
Is he leading me on? What should I do?
Q. I have been dating a guy for 7 months and last month we had a massive argument, which stemmed from his ex girlfriend still texting him. Although i know he has no intention of ever being with her, I just overreacted and couldn't control my emotions ...
A. 7 May 2008: It was a mistake for you to sleep with him at that time. He needs for you to lead him on the same you he has led you on, at least for awhile. Bait him, and make him want you. Don't be so available to him, when he calls tell him you've made other ... (read in full...)
I sent a text to another guy and now my boyfriend doesn't want me
Q. My boyfriend and i recently made our relationship official, but the other day he found text messages on my phone to another guy, though i didnt cheat or meet up with the other guy my boyfriend doesn't think he can trust me. He said he can't be with...
A. 29 April 2008: How long have you been with you bf, and how did you make your relationship "official"? If he thinks he wants out, then move on with your life. Let him have what he thinks he wants. Don't call him, don't write him, don't chase him - back off ... (read in full...)
We've never had sex but he tells other guys to stay away from me! Why?
Q. He and I have never had sex although it seems we're attracted to each other, but he tells other guys to stay away from me. What's going on with him? Paradise ...
A. 29 April 2008: Okay, here's a loaded question for you. How do you think Al would respond if I left him a note that basically says "let's cut thru the crap, I don't have the right to feel this way but I would like to make wild and passionate love with you." This ... (read in full...)
We've never had sex but he tells other guys to stay away from me! Why?
Q. He and I have never had sex although it seems we're attracted to each other, but he tells other guys to stay away from me. What's going on with him? Paradise ...
A. 27 April 2008: Thanks to all for your advice and feedback. I welcome it all, as I don't know what's going on. I don't have the right to feel the way I do about this guy, Al, who has ignited a passion in me that I haven't felt for a long time. I really don't ... (read in full...)
We've never had sex but he tells other guys to stay away from me! Why?
Q. He and I have never had sex although it seems we're attracted to each other, but he tells other guys to stay away from me. What's going on with him? Paradise ...
A. 26 April 2008: I'd like to interrupt his plans to make a move on me. What right does he think he has to let everyone think that I'm his? This infuriates me. Is that what he wants? for me to get angry at him?... (read in full...)
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