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No replies yet... 28 October 2007: I've heard this saying a million times but what does it really mean? Live life to the max!!! You never know what will be threw at you next, so make each day count!! If you want to visit somewhere...go there!!! If you hate your job and want ...
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My boobs become very painful around my periods... do you think anything could be wrong?
Q. am 17 years old and a bit over weight as a result my boobs are quite big am a 44dd but for the past couple of moths right around my periods my boobs become very painfull a started my periods when i was nine and this has never been a problem before i ...
A. 27 May 2008: Nothing is wrong at all, your breasts get very tender and sometimes painful during periods, it's absolutely nothing to worry about, it's perfectly normal!... (read in full...)
I just can't find my girl. I've never even had a first kiss and I just get so depressed every time I think about it!
Q. Hello, I'm new here and was just looking for some advice. I've just turned 28 and am seriously worried because I've never had a girl friend. I just feel like everyone around me is able to move on with their lives but I just seem to be stuck at the ...
A. 27 April 2008: Honey, don't be silly. The right girl is out there somewhere for you and you'll find her. But for the time being, have a blast! Make the most of being single and have fun. Don't get depressed every time you think of it, be happy nomatter what. Act ... (read in full...)
SITE VIDEO: April 2008 video from Andrew
Q. Been a while since we had a video update. Anyone interested in being able to post their replies to the site as YouTube videos??...
A. 27 April 2008: Wow. Okay, don't take offence but I expected a balding middle aged guy with a lazy eye. Haha but serious it's weird to know what you look like...and how you talk. I love your accent!
I love the idea but not for me, I would screw up and end up h... (read in full...)
What do you think about age gaps in general?
Q. how do u feel about age gaps in general? personally i dont think they matter but i know my family does as am 16 and going seein a 21 year old, what do u think?...
A. 29 March 2008: Well, my opinion is that when you're older, age gaps don't really matter, I mean, a few years? No problem, except maybe when there's one that's like a 30 year-difference.
But it is totally different when you're young and in high-school, yeah may... (read in full...)
Survey: how old were you when you performed your first fellatio, did you choose a special person and did you like it from the very beginning?
Q. I have question for you women and girl on this site: How old were you when you gave your first blowjob? The reason I ask is that I went to high school in a small town in the 1970s, before oral sex was known. So I am curious as to when to when girls ...
A. 29 March 2008: Okay, well I was 18 and I did it to my boyfriend who I met at high school and umm no I didn't like it, and I still don't so...hope this answers your question/survey thing and I hope you find your results!... (read in full...)
Should I let her go and move on?
Q. I Had a really intense and passionate fling with a girl who came over to study. She has been home in Holland for 2 weeks and is still with her boyfriend. We email nearly every day and text a bit to. The contact is fun and is dirty talking about what ...
A. 22 February 2008: Ok, not trying to be mean but are you sure you love this girl? I kind of got the impression you're just looking for a bit of fun, I mean, how do you feel about her? You don't have to love her endlessly and always thinking of her and stuff but flings ... (read in full...)
I'm secretly dating him, should I continue?
Q. I'm a 13yrd old girl who needs some peoples opinions. So I'm in grade 8 and a boy in my class likes me. He's 13 as well. I think he is very nice and all but I never realized he liked me until he asked me to the movies and he told me. He started ...
A. 22 February 2008: Okay, first of all, it's not right to lie and sneak around behind your mum's back. And especially if she finds out and not by you teling her. Maybe introduce your mom and this boy and she might like him. It's up to you how you introduce them; ... (read in full...)
Since we're going out should I hold his hand?
Q. I'm a 13yr old girl and I just got asked out by a boy in my class. He's 13 too and he's a real sweet person. I started going out with him today and he's talked to me today abit but he looks really shy. Since we're going out should I hold his hand? ...
A. 22 February 2008: Ok, well I would start off with holding his hand, it's not as forward as a hug or a kiss but it still shows you care. And things will probably go on from there.... (read in full...)
Is this an okay gift for my sick grandma?
Q. Not really a love question I'm afraid but wanted advice anyways and thought this would be the best place. Mothers day is coming up and I'm planning to get my mum this book which is full of questions and thne it has space for her to answer them. ...
A. 22 February 2008: That would be a really great present to give her and of course it wouldn't be weird! It would have been nice to hae these sort of things when I was younger as I don't have much family left and even though I never met most of them, such as my mum, ... (read in full...)
Site News: We hit another milestone :-)
Q. For the first time we broke the 400,000 visitors mark over the past month! We had 412,222 people visit the site from Jan 13th 08 - Feb 14th 08 according to google analytics! Thanks to all the mods, the aunts and everyone who shares their pro...
A. 15 February 2008: Congrats. I hope that everyone that posted got the answers they were hoping for and everything!... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to get frustrated because of her "system" when it comes to unprotected sex?
Q. I'm sorry for the long post, just bear with me: I have been dating a great girl for about 7 months now, we are both very much in love, and i honestly believe that she is the best thing that has ever happened to me. She comes from a small...
A. 4 February 2008: Ok, to your last post:
Even if she doesn't listen to her doctor, she should at least acknoweldge you. Tell her how it makes you feel and tell her in her response to 'Well I didn't!' that doesn't mean it's impossible the next time, yeah she was ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong to get frustrated because of her "system" when it comes to unprotected sex?
Q. I'm sorry for the long post, just bear with me: I have been dating a great girl for about 7 months now, we are both very much in love, and i honestly believe that she is the best thing that has ever happened to me. She comes from a small...
A. 4 February 2008: Ok, so she has a system?
When I have sex with guys it's one word: condom. Even though I'm on the pill! But hey! I'm only 19 and kind of not ready for a baby and I'm not running the risk.
I mean, it's not just pregnancy to worry about...HI... (read in full...)
I have a new crush. How can I get close to him?
Q. I have a new crush. His name is cory. I have known him since last year (8th grade) but I don't really know him. I developed a crush on him 2 weeks ago. I say hi to him and he says hi back or says wasup. I love his personality and his hair. I get ...
A. 2 February 2008: You should talk to him, you like him, so there's no problem in just having a conversation! Think of a topic, sports, movies...anything! You'll get to know him better and you'll be closer!... (read in full...)
I am ready to have sex with him, but I am worried about my friends.
Q. first of all, let me apologize for this being so long... it is a LONG story ( and this is with leaving a lot of stuff out) me (age 15) and "MT" (age 17) both really like each other. we arent dating right now because he is under a lot of stress (d...
A. 2 February 2008: Ok, so you really like this guy and you feel you're ready to loose your virginity to him.
First of all, tell your friends, if they're really your friends, they'll accept you like him a lot and at least try to be nice to him or at the very least co... (read in full...)
Please give me advice as to what to do on top if you are scared
Q. I am 28 years old. I was married (now divorced) and in a relationship for 10 years. I have only been with 3 people sexually in my life. I have been with my boyfriend now for about 4 months. I care about him deeply. When it comes to sex.....it ...
A. 1 February 2008: Ok...leaving you? Over sex? Honey, if the guy's that shallow, maybe you'd be better off without him.
So don't be paranoid, which is ctually easier said than done but I'm positive you can do it.
Good luck hun x... (read in full...)
I am 13 and I am afraid of my 54 yr old Therepist
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. I've been really sad for quite a long time so my Mom got me to talk to a counseller. I've been seeing him for a couple months now and yesterday when I saw him I felt really uncomfortable. So he's 54 and I'm only 13. I was ...
A. 1 February 2008: I agree with everyone on here, tell your mum! She has no idea about it and you're supposed to be going to him for help, not making you feel uneasy and scared!
Tell your parents and ask to change cousellers, you shouldn't feel uneasy around h... (read in full...)
Met a man online, he's much older and suggested that I lose virginity to him! I am not sure what to do.
Q. hi i have meet this man online. at first he used to annoy me but now he is easy to talk to and a right laugh. he is very forward though and has never hid the fact that he likes me. he has given me confidence about my hourglass size 14 figure...
A. 30 January 2008: Ok, 41? How about not? That is just pervy..not trying to sound harsh but eww, you're a virgin and you should wait for the right guy, that way you won't go wrong, the guy you trust and love, and it wouldn't hurt if he was around your age either! A ... (read in full...)
I am shy and reserved, what are my chances for dating?
Q. Hi. I'm a very shy and reserved 29 year old male. I have always found it extremely difficult to relate to members of the opposite gender, despite having been told I'm good looking. I've longed for the day when I'd have the self confidence to a...
A. 29 January 2008: Of course, I actually prefer quieter guys to loud ones, and I understand what you mean about all the layers and that, I'm like that, it's just that people don't take the time to see all of them.
Your chance of dating are as high as any other bl... (read in full...)
How does one fake being confident, when in reality s/he is shy?
Q. hey im a quite shy person. expecially with new people, i never know what to talk about. people always say fake it till you make it well i dont know how how can i fake being confident/outgoing? xoxo...
A. 27 January 2008: Okay, well in the first place, why are you trying to be someone you're not? And the thing about 'fake it till you make it' what's up with that? But anyways, if you want to come across as a little more confident...I would suggest:
*Eye Contact! Eye ... (read in full...)
I'd like to gain knowledge from women and be able to help give advice to guys
Q. Hey everyone. I'm Jamie Williams.. (yes that's only a stage name on here so I can gain some credibility.. it is not my real name.) I'm a 17-yr-old male and I live in the states. My biggest pet-peeve is the typical alpha-male. They think t...
A. 27 January 2008: Ok, all men are not jerks and danielpew: you're a jerk. Hello? He's trying to actually do something useful and all you say is he's a jerk.
And if you're commenting on my post, I think you kind of read it wrong, I said that all the decent guys are... (read in full...)
I'd like to gain knowledge from women and be able to help give advice to guys
Q. Hey everyone. I'm Jamie Williams.. (yes that's only a stage name on here so I can gain some credibility.. it is not my real name.) I'm a 17-yr-old male and I live in the states. My biggest pet-peeve is the typical alpha-male. They think t...
A. 27 January 2008: Aww, that's so thoughtful. You know, we really need more men like you! A lot of guys are total assholes and think it's awesome to 'score' to be cool or whatever. A lot of women have had really bad experiences with men, me in particular =(
Not a... (read in full...)
I have a crush and my brother won't like it.
Q. I'm 14 years old and in 8th grade and have a big problem. My brother who is a freshman in highschool had two of his friends over last night. I really like one of them but I don't know if he likes me back. I'm too shy to ask if he likes me, but the ...
A. 27 January 2008: Aww, your brother is just protective of you, you're his little baby sister and he wants what's best for you.
It's funny, because right now I'm really tired and I'm going to bed after this and I was looking for one to reply to and yours, it was l... (read in full...)
I have a porn addiction and I need help getting through this.
Q. I am 20 and although I am single, I think I have a porn addiction. I have got the K9 web protection program seeing as that I couldn't reach a target of 1 week without porn (which lasted 1 day). Is there anything else I should to beat the ...
A. 16 January 2008: How about a girlfriend? If your lat relationship failed because of the porn, even though she knew nothing about it, how do you know the next relationship won't work out? Or the one after that. My last relationship, I knew for a fact that my bf ... (read in full...)
Is it fair to make her choose?
Q. Hi! I have a girlfriend of 2 years and I deeply love her. Recently we had a bit of a relationship breakdown and she went to a male friend of her and he used her weakness and kissed her and tried to have sex with her but she stopped him. Things are ...
A. 16 January 2008: Ok, I just need to say: What an asshole (the other guy - not you)
I think in a way it is fair to make her choose, for the simple fact he tried to have sex with her when you're in a relationship, even if it was slightly rocky at the time, he had n... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and seeing a 22 year old guy, my Mum's gone mental
Q. hi i need a lot of help i've been going out this 22 year old he says he really like me and i like him my mum found out yesterday and is punishing me by the way i'm 13. I need a way to convince her i haven't had sex yet please help!!!!...
A. 16 January 2008: Okay, you've heard this from everyone now but your mum is right, if you were my daughter I would beat that guy up =] My mum would do that for me as would anyones. 9 years? Think about it, I mean, you're only 13 and he's 22, you might be in love but ... (read in full...)
He harrassed me at school, I reported him and he got suspended. Was I wrong to do this?
Q. I'm a 13 year old girl. I really need advice. This boy who is in my class has been flirting with me for a while now since school started. and then he does gross, inapropriate stuff around me with words or physical contact. Ive held this in for 4 ...
A. 16 January 2008: Honey, if he was doing inappropriate stuff, you and your mom were right. You're 13, so it could have just been messing on and joking but you shouldn't stand for it! Sweetie, you did the right thing. End of. =] x Tell your friends what's been going ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want a relationship right now and just wants to be free. Help!
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for 2 years now. we have had hard times but great times like any relationship. all the sudden on new years eve she tells me that she doesnt want a relationship right now and just wants to be free to do what she ...
A. 16 January 2008: Look, you're both young and you're in love with her, and she's probably in love with you, but the thing is, she might be scared of committing, of getting married and all that. Just give her the time and space she needs and things'll work out ... (read in full...)
Just want to tell everyone and the whole world....I'M IN LOVE!!
Q. im in love wooooooo! im aware this isnt a question but i wanted to tell the world =]...
A. 16 January 2008: Congratz =] its good to know some people are happy =] xo... (read in full...)
So should I trust what he is saying..or just blow him off?
Q. There is this guy that I dated for a little bit a couple of months ago......But, after we broke up we quit talking to one another.....But after he read my message that I sent him before we got together and it was just saying how much love and life I ...
A. 16 January 2008: Maybe you should trust him, maybe you shouldn't, but don't think about what he's saying, think if you love him 'cos it sounds as if he loves you!! Good luck hun x... (read in full...)
Should I tell my new girl I have just come out of a big relationship??
Q. I just broke up with my long time girlfriend about 2 weeks ago. And although we've been together for a very long time, i fell out of love with her for about a month now. Now, i have gone out on dates with this other girl that i really like, an...
A. 12 January 2008: You should tell her.
Sorry for being so frank, but girls don't like being lied to, even if it's just not telling the truth completely.
Just tell her, if you like her, people that are in love don't keep things from eachother, I know that =]
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I've changed and she knows I have but do you think there is any chance for us??
Q. Sorry this may be a little long, but i want to put in as much detail so you guys can understand my situation and to better help give me advice. Me and my ex gf dated for 18 months. but a couple months ago she found out i was flirting on the internet...
A. 12 January 2008: Ok, let's see, I understand what the girl is going through right now, she feels betrayed by you and is wondering wether she can trust you again or not, she wants to know that you love her, and that you're faithful.
Not long ago, actually... (read in full...)
I dunno- do I dump my girlfriendfor the hot girl or not???
Q. ive been with my girl for like 3 yrs and i have been having a serious affair with a much hotter girl that i met on the train (randomly) for about 2.5 of those years (almost the whole time) my girl has absolutely no idea at all bcuz i am very ver...
A. 11 January 2008: Okay, I was thinking about what I said and I realised, maybe I was a bit harsh. I guess. Anyways, I was wondering what has happened since then? Reply and I promise I won't be nasty =] But you have to admit, cheating isn't right!... (read in full...)
How can I be happy again?
Q. Hi everyone. I've had a bit of a bad day: Today I felt chest pains as I woke up in the morning (people have informed me this is a sign of stress). Then later in college I began to feel very sharp pains when I sat up straight. I found out yester...
A. 11 January 2008: Hi, I feel your pain, I really do, lately I've been depressed and people around me don't help at all, a lot telling me that there are people in the world that are starving and dying, and when I think about that, it makes me feel worse as though I'm ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is smarter, what should I do?
Q. my girlfriend is smarter then me what should i do...
A. 11 January 2008: Work harder in school but why does it matter if she's smarter anyways?... (read in full...)
How can I get this other girl out of the picture?
Q. i am 14 and recently i really like this boy he is mates with all my mates he seems really nice. but there is this other girl who he is kinda going out with i really like him tho this other i added on myspace too see what she looked like and she comm...
A. 11 January 2008: Hmm, maybe you shouldn't try, not trying to be mean or anything but you could be called a boyfriend stealer and much worse. You may really like this boy and he might really like you but I don't think it's reasonable to make a move on the guy, or try ... (read in full...)
Seriously depressed, should I run away, what do I do?
Q. I seriously am depressed and I hate my life. This has gone on too long. I have no friends and I think everyone hates me in my grade. I'm only 13 years old and I think I should run away. Should I runaway?...
A. 11 January 2008: NO!!!!!
There is nothing worse you can do...if you're only 13 years old, you have your whole life infront of you, when I was 13 I hated my life mainly because people thought I was weird and I thought I was fat =S. But running away doesn't solve an... (read in full...)
I feel a connection...should I ask her out??
Q. OK, this might sound really stupid, but I would like you to advise me on what to do at school. I'll try and be as brief as possible but here is the situation: There's this girl I like in my class, who I think might like me. I'm not sure but I have a...
A. 26 November 2007: Hi, well I think you should ask her out!! It sounds as if you like her and she likes you =D
As for what you do with a girlfriend, it's different all the time, I suggest holding her hand sometimes and then going further if you both want to, for ... (read in full...)
How can I meet new people online?
Q. I don't have much time to socialise by going out. How can I meet new people online? any sites that are good that you don't have to pay money to subscribe to? ...
A. 25 November 2007: Yeah, one is www.girlsdateforfree.com its free and you can meet new people like that, just upload a pic and make your profile!! Good luck... (read in full...)
I dunno- do I dump my girlfriendfor the hot girl or not???
Q. ive been with my girl for like 3 yrs and i have been having a serious affair with a much hotter girl that i met on the train (randomly) for about 2.5 of those years (almost the whole time) my girl has absolutely no idea at all bcuz i am very ver...
A. 24 November 2007: Wait!!!!! Everybody that has been saying dump your girlfriend, I don't think he should do that, I think that he should tell his gf so then SHE can dump him!!!!!!!! Much better plan.... (read in full...)
I won't give up my unborn child - should I go and live with my mother?
Q. Ok I'm kind of young-ish and I missed my period, I've been puking, mood swingy, I was crying hysterically last night for hours on end, anyway so I think that I might maybe be pregnant and my boyfriend says he doesn't want a kid "right now". My fat...
A. 24 November 2007: hi,
Just writing to ask how things are =D I hope you've told your parents, and the father!! And I was just wondering how things have went.
Mail me if you want to
love just-ask-xx... (read in full...)
I won't give up my unborn child - should I go and live with my mother?
Q. Ok I'm kind of young-ish and I missed my period, I've been puking, mood swingy, I was crying hysterically last night for hours on end, anyway so I think that I might maybe be pregnant and my boyfriend says he doesn't want a kid "right now". My fat...
A. 7 October 2007: Make sure if you are pregnant first because that kind of changes everything :) If you are, I would say that you should tell the father, if he loves you, he'll try and if he says he doesn't want it, ask if he will still be a part of their life, no ... (read in full...)
I dunno- do I dump my girlfriendfor the hot girl or not???
Q. ive been with my girl for like 3 yrs and i have been having a serious affair with a much hotter girl that i met on the train (randomly) for about 2.5 of those years (almost the whole time) my girl has absolutely no idea at all bcuz i am very ver...
A. 5 October 2007: So you've been going out with them both for al this time? Wow, you must be a pro, and don't take that as a compliment. I feel soo sorry for your gf. She thinks she's in love with a lying, cheating rat. I honestly feel sorry for her, so here is what ... (read in full...)
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