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writes:My name is Valerie I have been trying to have a baby now for 11 years. I don't know what's going wrong but anyway, if me and my boyfriend come together, can I get pregnant. Is there anything I can take to get pregnant????? Reply to this Question
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (15 December 2008):
 There can be a Number of reasons for not getting pregnant..!! You need to see a Doctor.. Going 11 years without a baby (while trying) is not normal.. !!You Boy Friend may have a lower sperm count, or there might be a problem in your tummy.. !! Anything can happen. So, please see a doctor.. !!G'day .. !!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): This link will provide you with lots of information on fertility and pregnancy.
I am sure it will be of assistance to you.
http://www.americanpregnancy.org/gettingpregnant/
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): Consult your doctor. If he thinks it is necessary he can prescribe a fertility drug that can enhance your chances to become pregnant.
Good luck!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (15 December 2008):
 Maybe you will think I'm a fool for saying this, but it seems you haven't seen a doctor. You say you have been trying for eleven years. That would mean you started trying as early as 18. I suppose that there must be a physical reason why you don't get pregnant.
And I agree with Rhythm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): Valerie, this is not good to be desperate for a baby. For one it will drive your boyfriend away from you, for another, you have been desperate for one since you were 19 or younger and you are not married.
Children deserve to start out in life with a stable home environment. To plan a pregnancy without the promise of forever inside of a marriage is not fair to the child. Children make marriage even harder, what do you think it will to do to a playing house or non-commital relationship with a boyfriend? It won't last and you will be another statistic a single mom raising a child on her own....nothing wrong with that, but most don't choose it as it is hard, harder than having a present partner.
Please get some counseling, talk it over with your boyfriend and start a life together as man and wife if you want to bring children into the world. Once you feel secure, you will relax and I bet your body will then allow you to become pregnant. Stress has a funny way of taking care of nature....it isn't a great way to start a pregnancy or a family and even if you aren't aware of that, your body doesn't lie.....you don't have things in place to support a child with all the love and security he or she deserves.
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