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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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In love with a moonie
Q. I am madly in love with a member of a cult. She admits to loving me but she fears god... I need help. It hurts to see her do this to herself... i just found this out and I'm on the verge of tears........ ...
A. 29 December 2008: Buddy, you just got to love her and try even if you know that most likely you will fail. Please keep your eyes open, however: if you notice it is a lost cause, give up on it. Because you can't give up on you.
I'm sure they take outsider... (read in full...)
In love with a moonie
Q. I am madly in love with a member of a cult. She admits to loving me but she fears god... I need help. It hurts to see her do this to herself... i just found this out and I'm on the verge of tears........ ...
A. 29 December 2008: Well, we're not sure if she wants out of the cult. All we know that she fell in love with someone who does not share her faith. We would expect a very zealous follower to do just what her religion orders, that is to say, not even to consider the ... (read in full...)
In love with a moonie
Q. I am madly in love with a member of a cult. She admits to loving me but she fears god... I need help. It hurts to see her do this to herself... i just found this out and I'm on the verge of tears........ ...
A. 29 December 2008: Does her god prevent her from loving someone who does not have the same faith?... (read in full...)
In love with a moonie
Q. I am madly in love with a member of a cult. She admits to loving me but she fears god... I need help. It hurts to see her do this to herself... i just found this out and I'm on the verge of tears........ ...
A. 28 December 2008: This is a difficult thing. You don't give much information, and I wasn't able to find much about them either, but this one thing does come out of what you said: she is intending to follow that religion, and, apparently, that means you two can't be ... (read in full...)
My ex is an illegal immigrant.
Q. My boyfriend is an illegal alien and this is the reason he broke up with me. He does not want me to be attached if he gets sent back to his country. I can't go because I have a little girl and el salvador would not be good for her. The thing is ...
A. 28 December 2008: I will speak from this side of the border, as I am a Hispanic myself.
Yes, being deported from the United States is a humongous problem for us. Imagine what would happen to you if you had to leave everything behind, start anew, and then someone ... (read in full...)
Did he just want sex and is leading me on?
Q. I fancied this man for ages and I think he liked me too. We always flirted when we saw each other out and sometimes kissed. But last week I got so drunk and stupidly went home with him and we had sex. In the morning he gave me his number, I didnt ...
A. 27 December 2008: He might not be leading you on, but perhaps does not really know how to deal with the matter.... (read in full...)
It seems to me that women don't really like men that much and they could be better off by themselves.
Q. Hi, I'd say I'm fairly young at my age, and I've had very little contact with the opposite sex as I'm quite shy. My question has more to do with curiosity and confusion. It seems to me that women don't seem to like men all that as much, and that t...
A. 27 December 2008: I have one for you, Diovan, but it's by a man. It's called "Nosotros", "We".
Listen to me,
There's something I want to tell you.
that you might not be expecting.
A painful thing, maybe
Listen to me, because
if it hurts in my soul,
I ne... (read in full...)
It seems to me that women don't really like men that much and they could be better off by themselves.
Q. Hi, I'd say I'm fairly young at my age, and I've had very little contact with the opposite sex as I'm quite shy. My question has more to do with curiosity and confusion. It seems to me that women don't seem to like men all that as much, and that t...
A. 27 December 2008: I have always liked Eyes and now I like her even more :-).
Tigerlily, we are bound to have some small disagreements. Women are no mind readers, that's true, but they are very, very good at seeing through a man. We think we're hiding our intentio... (read in full...)
Do you think he respects me? Should I send the topless photo?
Q. My boyfriend said that if i dont send him a braless picture from ma neck to waist he wont go on o2 unlimited on his mobile so he can text me as many times as he wants. I said no and he said so everything you said you will do with me i.e. pleasure n ...
A. 27 December 2008: This is blackmail, extortion, whatever. Don't let him do that to you.
No, he doesn't respect you. I suggest you buy him a cell-phone and suggest he... he will know what to do with it.... (read in full...)
Are guys happier on their own?
Q. Hi agony aunts and uncles. The past couple months I have been trying to understand the confusing male psyche and this forum has always been helpful, but there's still alot more that I don't get. My main question is this: a guy says he doesn't ...
A. 27 December 2008: I just would like to add one thing, which is not meant to go against what my dear Diovan and Oldersister said. In my interpretation of things, we are just complementing or repeating what the other said.
When I think that you must be happy on... (read in full...)
It seems to me that women don't really like men that much and they could be better off by themselves.
Q. Hi, I'd say I'm fairly young at my age, and I've had very little contact with the opposite sex as I'm quite shy. My question has more to do with curiosity and confusion. It seems to me that women don't seem to like men all that as much, and that t...
A. 27 December 2008: Tigerlily, then the problem must also be one of "age" and "culture". Of all the singers you mentioned, I just "heard" about Sarah McLachlan and Sinead. And then only Sinead sung when I was young :-).
And then, those are all singers who sing in ... (read in full...)
Is it true that women prefer men who shave?
Q. is it true women like guys who shave better than guys who gotta bush????...
A. 27 December 2008: If it is the Texan, I mean, "Southern Bush", I maintain my opinion.
Taste, you're a smart girl.... (read in full...)
It seems to me that women don't really like men that much and they could be better off by themselves.
Q. Hi, I'd say I'm fairly young at my age, and I've had very little contact with the opposite sex as I'm quite shy. My question has more to do with curiosity and confusion. It seems to me that women don't seem to like men all that as much, and that t...
A. 27 December 2008: No need to go too deep here.
I've heard poems for men, only they are not the ones you would publish in anthologies :-), and they are not intended to praise anyone, but to have some fun. It seems too girly for a male poet to make a poem for Fran... (read in full...)
Is it true that women prefer men who shave?
Q. is it true women like guys who shave better than guys who gotta bush????...
A. 27 December 2008: Some women have said that to me, including my mother and some girls I liked. Some others have said they like beards. I think that shaving or no shaving is for you to decide. Tell your woman you will let her decide on your beard if she lets you ... (read in full...)
Are guys happier on their own?
Q. Hi agony aunts and uncles. The past couple months I have been trying to understand the confusing male psyche and this forum has always been helpful, but there's still alot more that I don't get. My main question is this: a guy says he doesn't ...
A. 27 December 2008: I beg to differ with the first poster. No, sometimes guys do want to be on their own. And there is nothing wrong or difficult or particular to that. First of all, it is the guy's choice, which he is free to make. Second, if it is his choice, ... (read in full...)
I think masturbating is affecting my health
Q. I am 22 yr old..but just 45 kg..i am masturbating once or twice in a week..i think it is affecting my health..But i cant control it..What should I do?...
A. 26 December 2008: If I were you, I would eat anything I could retain in my stomach. Eating is fun!... (read in full...)
Swingin' bachelor dating a single Mom - I'm not a family man, can this work?
Q. So, I've found the almost perfect woman and we've been dating a year now. She's the best g/f I've ever had. I always had a rule against dating single moms, but when I met her, I chose to break that rule and now I'm in love w/ her, but I can not ...
A. 26 December 2008: It seems pretty clear that you and that woman are not for each other. You want different things. Why don't you just break up with her?... (read in full...)
Do men just view women as sex on legs?
Q. Question for the guys, well i live on a main road and cant even cross the road with out being told to show my tits or being tooted at. Im 18 and i get 30 to 50 year olds doing it not just young guys and it makes me sick. I feel like all guys think ...
A. 26 December 2008: Double M gave you the answer.... (read in full...)
Living with bi-polar disorder
Q. Hello all I am bi-polar was diagnosed about 4 years ago. I am married with 4 great kids. Having this mental disorder has really ruined things. I have done things that looking back on I can't believe I did and really feel that I was in a haze to ...
A. 26 December 2008: I don't have your disorder, but I have a cousin who does. I may be wrong, but I understand this disorder can be treated and, if people manage to take their medications, they can regain their life and live normal lives. The difficulty sometimes ... (read in full...)
Can women and men just be friends?
Q. does anyone think men and women can just be friends?...
A. 25 December 2008: Yep.... (read in full...)
I need help on how to stop watching porn movies!
Q. I have a a best friend that recently started to act strange and I asked him what's the matter with him being so quiet all the time recently and he told me that "I watched a porn with some other friends and since then he can't stop watching it and ...
A. 24 December 2008: Tell him that all he needs is really mean what he said.... (read in full...)
Is an affair ever justified
Q. A christmas cracker: Is it ever 'right' to break your marriage vows? I still love my wife, but I don't fully understand why I feel these feelings for my mistress. I know it's wrong, but why does it feel so right? My lover paid me so much attentio...
A. 24 December 2008: I think I'm not qualified to answer this question, as I have never been married, and then others have given you great advice. My half a cent: you don't have to "suffer in silence for the rest of this mortal life". That's what divorce is for.
... (read in full...)
What would guys rather have--babe or library type girl?
Q. are guys attracted to nice ,quiet ,shy ,innocent ,genuine ,safe,plain looking girls? would guys find girls like this boring because i am like this i am passed over for the babes who are loud,dress sexy and who are party girls. i want...
A. 24 December 2008: Talking Helps is right. Everyone has preferences. Which means that "nice, quiet, shy, innocent, genuine, safe, plain looking" girls also find someone to love them. As it always happens, some people will not like you, while others will.
Older... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 24 December 2008: No te apenes.
(*Daniel apologizes profusely*)... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 24 December 2008: I meant the smell of bare skin :-).... (read in full...)
How do I end it with her? She's bipolar.
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now. I still love her to death but she has become someone I am not in love with. For starters, she is bi-polar. She has drastic mood swings and constantly argues. I am a very laid back guy and can easily ...
A. 24 December 2008: I guess that the first stage in all this is to get her to accept that she needs the medication. That it is the first step towards recovering her own life. It's not something she will do to please you or others, but to help herself be the person ... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 23 December 2008: I also like "Naked 2U".... (read in full...)
Turning on my partner...
Q. Hiya, hopefully this will be a fun question :) I remember reading an article in a magazine a while ago about turning on your partner. Under the 'dirty talk' bullet point, it suggested whispering something sexy/naughty to them unexpectedly, eg whilst ...
A. 23 December 2008: The best way to turn a partner on is to know her well, ask what she likes or not, use some imagination, and get into her mind (and onto her body) to do what she wants. So, no "recipe" for it. This is not something like "The 1-2-3 guide to heavenly ... (read in full...)
I need a better job, any suggestions?
Q. Goodmorning my fellow earlybirds : ). My problem is related to finance and my relationship. I'm 18 and my bf is 21 and he makes like 3.5 times as much as i do. I work at starbucks and I've been working there for like 8 months now, and its my 1st j...
A. 23 December 2008: I can't help you about what job to take. I don't know the American work market. I did notice you said you might not be going to college next year, and I happen to know about a book that might help you with that. Haven't really read it, but it ... (read in full...)
My question is, why won't my FWB commit?
Q. So, my best friend and i started to become friends with benefits about 4 months ago. earlier this year i went through a hard time with my ex and he always helped me through it. for the past few months, my friend has begun to act like my boyfriend: ...
A. 23 December 2008: I think that the girls have given great answers. I just want to say that one does not exclude the other. He might already have what he wants, be afraid of not being good enough, and then be unwilling to commit because of that.... (read in full...)
I want to make my family proud by marrying one of my kind, but my boyfriend is black!
Q. i've been going out with someone for the past 8 months and i have no complaints because i know he loves me and everyone says he adores me, however before me and him got together i was seeing another guy who is my own race but ended it because he was ...
A. 23 December 2008: I say, marry for love and not for the sake of old tradition.... (read in full...)
Why do older men think they have a chance with younger girls?
Q. ok i'm a 22 year old woman and i have a question about old men, like 40+. basically why do they try and flirt with us younger girls, why on earth would we be interested in someone who is old enough to be our fathers?! seriously, i hate it when i a...
A. 23 December 2008: Bugs, the word is "piropo". It's a "flirtatious remark". The oldest and perhaps most worn out one: "OH! So many curves, and I got no brakes". This one is so old and worn that I think it achieves the absolute opposite effect. It reveals the man ... (read in full...)
Men: the ideal body size for a woman?
Q. Just was wondering do men really like woman that are skinny or do they like woman with some meat on there bones? Whats the ideal body size of a woman that men think is sexy....
A. 23 December 2008: Donuts, Bugs :-).... (read in full...)
Why can I only masturbate once?
Q. hi, why i can masturbate only one time?once i masturbate, i just don't feel like doing second time even after 2 hours. it's kinda hurt little bit and i don't enjoy. Also it just takes me 2 minutes to cum? should it take more time? please help ...
A. 23 December 2008: All men experience the "refractory period", during which they can't get another erection. The duration of this period depends on many factors, one of them being how hot you find the girl to be. It is normal if you can't masturbate that quickly, ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong for me to not like Christmas?
Q. I am a Catholic but I do not like Christmas. Christmas for me is way too stressful. I hate shopping espeically during the holidays but I still have to buy presents for people. Parking, the crowds and everthing else. Than there is the cooking o...
A. 23 December 2008: In four words: No.... (read in full...)
How do I end it with her? She's bipolar.
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now. I still love her to death but she has become someone I am not in love with. For starters, she is bi-polar. She has drastic mood swings and constantly argues. I am a very laid back guy and can easily ...
A. 23 December 2008: This is a very good question, and a very difficult one. I will try to do my best.
She's not bipolar by choice. I understand this is a mood disorder, not something people do because they want to. No one chooses to go bipolar. She is difficul... (read in full...)
Men: the ideal body size for a woman?
Q. Just was wondering do men really like woman that are skinny or do they like woman with some meat on there bones? Whats the ideal body size of a woman that men think is sexy....
A. 23 December 2008: Maybe you will be surprised to know that most of us do want some flesh in our women. Slender is right, anorexic is not. Obssessed about weight isn't, either. Once I met a woman (not a girlfriend) who was always counting how many "carbs" she was ... (read in full...)
Why do older men think they have a chance with younger girls?
Q. ok i'm a 22 year old woman and i have a question about old men, like 40+. basically why do they try and flirt with us younger girls, why on earth would we be interested in someone who is old enough to be our fathers?! seriously, i hate it when i a...
A. 23 December 2008: Sirena, if you tell a man that you want to die first, what are the chances that he will kill you?... (read in full...)
Why do older men think they have a chance with younger girls?
Q. ok i'm a 22 year old woman and i have a question about old men, like 40+. basically why do they try and flirt with us younger girls, why on earth would we be interested in someone who is old enough to be our fathers?! seriously, i hate it when i a...
A. 23 December 2008: Bugs, my mother used to do just that in buses, too :-). That gives another meaning to "safety", I guess.
I live in a country where catcalling is the rule, rather than the exception. It's a rare man who doesn't do it, and the girl doesn't ... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 23 December 2008: Carolina Herrera 212.... (read in full...)
Hair? Or no hair? What is a guys preference?
Q. I have a personal question. I currently have not had sex but I want to and soon. However, I was wondering do guys want a girl to have hair down there or not? I've read mixed opinions, and I'm just not sure if I should get rid of it or not, if you ...
A. 23 December 2008: Muchas gracias :-).... (read in full...)
How to pleasure a girl without having sex?
Q. Whats the best way to give a girl pleasure WITHOUT having sex?...
A. 23 December 2008: Well, the post was about pleasuring a woman WITHOUT having sex. So, sorry: the other stud and me have decided to nail the closet doors. You will be the one without sex, pvtguy. No worries, we'll let you out in a while :-).... (read in full...)
I miss my Dad and my sibs, but don't want to hurt my Mom by getting back in touch
Q. I know this has nothing to do with being boyfriend and girlfriend but I dnt knw what to do as I stopped seeing my biological father when I was 11 and am now 15 and I really do miss him. He has also got 2 of my brothers an one of my sisters living ...
A. 22 December 2008: Perhaps you should try to get in touch with your siblings first. I am sure that your mother misses them too, and they miss your mom.
I understand that you don't want to hurt your mom. However, it is sad that such bad things happened and the chil... (read in full...)
Christmas present ideas for an 18 year old boyfriend?
Q. Christmas present idea for 18 year-old boyfriend? We've been dating for almost 1 year. I love him with all my heart and we hope to get marry one day after we get our degrees in universty (We are probably going to the same one). It's almost Chri...
A. 22 December 2008: We would need to know the man to really find the one thing that he would love. However, I have a suggestion for you, that might work (it worked with me once): have him go with you to the store, ask him to find the coolest present ever, and then ... (read in full...)
How to pleasure a girl without having sex?
Q. Whats the best way to give a girl pleasure WITHOUT having sex?...
A. 22 December 2008: Mm... Get her another stud?... (read in full...)
Hair? Or no hair? What is a guys preference?
Q. I have a personal question. I currently have not had sex but I want to and soon. However, I was wondering do guys want a girl to have hair down there or not? I've read mixed opinions, and I'm just not sure if I should get rid of it or not, if you ...
A. 22 December 2008: Diovan, what's that about letting the "Bushes" go wild? One of them did that in Irak! What's that obsession with Bushes? The man is about to finish his period (HA-HA-HA), so he can have peace, I guess...... (read in full...)
Hair? Or no hair? What is a guys preference?
Q. I have a personal question. I currently have not had sex but I want to and soon. However, I was wondering do guys want a girl to have hair down there or not? I've read mixed opinions, and I'm just not sure if I should get rid of it or not, if you ...
A. 22 December 2008: PVTguy, bear in mind that a Bush is something some people might want to throw shoes at.... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 20 December 2008: Opium, Chanel n° 5.... (read in full...)
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