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28 November 2010: Recently, I found this poem by Maya Angelou. I think it pretty well summarizes how women should feel about themselves. Here it is, in case it benefits anyone. PHENOMENAL WOMAN by Maya Angelou Pretty women wonder where my secret lies I'm n...
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26 December 2008: Something one of my aunts sent me: When I was born, the doctor went to the waiting room and told my father: "We did all we could, but he was born alive". My mom didn't know whether she should keep me or the placenta. Since I was born before ...
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What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 24 December 2008: No te apenes.
(*Daniel apologizes profusely*)... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 24 December 2008: I meant the smell of bare skin :-).... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 23 December 2008: I also like "Naked 2U".... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 23 December 2008: Carolina Herrera 212.... (read in full...)
Hair? Or no hair? What is a guys preference?
Q. I have a personal question. I currently have not had sex but I want to and soon. However, I was wondering do guys want a girl to have hair down there or not? I've read mixed opinions, and I'm just not sure if I should get rid of it or not, if you ...
A. 23 December 2008: Muchas gracias :-).... (read in full...)
How to pleasure a girl without having sex?
Q. Whats the best way to give a girl pleasure WITHOUT having sex?...
A. 23 December 2008: Well, the post was about pleasuring a woman WITHOUT having sex. So, sorry: the other stud and me have decided to nail the closet doors. You will be the one without sex, pvtguy. No worries, we'll let you out in a while :-).... (read in full...)
Christmas present ideas for an 18 year old boyfriend?
Q. Christmas present idea for 18 year-old boyfriend? We've been dating for almost 1 year. I love him with all my heart and we hope to get marry one day after we get our degrees in universty (We are probably going to the same one). It's almost Chri...
A. 22 December 2008: We would need to know the man to really find the one thing that he would love. However, I have a suggestion for you, that might work (it worked with me once): have him go with you to the store, ask him to find the coolest present ever, and then ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend gets an erection every time we hug
Q. My boyfriend is 18. I'm the same age. Whenever we hug, I feel his erection. And when I look at him he says 'Sorry'. (It's cute. Lol) I know that it's not his fault.. But I was just thinking that perhaps there's a way to get rid of this? It's really ...
A. 22 December 2008: TannedDoll3, this is the sign that your boyfriend does like you. It is difficult to "get rid" of that. And then, sometimes you won't want to. Unless it happens in embarrassing moments, such as when you're both in line for communion, I think you ... (read in full...)
How to pleasure a girl without having sex?
Q. Whats the best way to give a girl pleasure WITHOUT having sex?...
A. 22 December 2008: Mm... Get her another stud?... (read in full...)
Hair? Or no hair? What is a guys preference?
Q. I have a personal question. I currently have not had sex but I want to and soon. However, I was wondering do guys want a girl to have hair down there or not? I've read mixed opinions, and I'm just not sure if I should get rid of it or not, if you ...
A. 22 December 2008: Diovan, what's that about letting the "Bushes" go wild? One of them did that in Irak! What's that obsession with Bushes? The man is about to finish his period (HA-HA-HA), so he can have peace, I guess...... (read in full...)
Hair? Or no hair? What is a guys preference?
Q. I have a personal question. I currently have not had sex but I want to and soon. However, I was wondering do guys want a girl to have hair down there or not? I've read mixed opinions, and I'm just not sure if I should get rid of it or not, if you ...
A. 22 December 2008: PVTguy, bear in mind that a Bush is something some people might want to throw shoes at.... (read in full...)
I can't function like this much longer. And sooner or later I'm going to break completely.
Q. Hi, I'm new to this forum and I only registered because I have run out of ideas. I am a 24 year old male, soon to be 25, and I work as a Graphic Designer. I hate my job so much that I am actually getting sick just thinking about it while typing t...
A. 21 December 2008: First of all, you need to take it easy. Many people have felt the way you're feeling. Life becomes boring, repetitive and pointless. Or so it seems.
I find it curious that you talk this way being a graphic designer, because that is somethin... (read in full...)
Where can I meet a decent guy apart from pubs and clubs?
Q. After a fairly bad relationship, and having been single for 8 months, I feel ready to begin thinking about dating again. Now, all my friends have babies/are married/settled in a relationship and as a result I don't go out clubbing/pubbing...
A. 21 December 2008: Wall Street?... (read in full...)
Do men ever leave a relationship for reasons other than having met someone else?
Q. Do men ever leave a relationship for reasons other than having met someone else? My boyfriend left me without giving me a reason, and my mind is going crazy. We weren't fighting or anything like that, as a matter of fact I thought we got along ...
A. 21 December 2008: Sometimes men do leave relationships even if they haven't found someone else. I can tell you I have. Nagging, asking for too much, wanting to control the man, trying to set stages so the man will be manipulated into doing what she wants, those are ... (read in full...)
Why did she lead me on?
Q. So this semester, I met this girl and was instantly attached, I paid so much attention to her, txted her, called her, just in general wanted to be around her, problem is, she just got out of a relationship and said she didn't want anything. I said ...
A. 21 December 2008: The simple, easy and right thing to do is keep your distance and be happy with someone else. Don't look for her, don't call her, et cetera. Don't worry, many people have felt the same way and they have all survived.
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How can I find out if he has a girlfriend?
Q. How do I find out if this guy I like has a boyfriend? I think that he might have one outside of my school. I don't want to use any backdoor tactics and I definitely don't want to seem upfront or confrontational. Please help! Oooh! And by the way, ...
A. 21 December 2008: Oh, sorry then; this is all I can think of.... (read in full...)
How can I find out if he has a girlfriend?
Q. How do I find out if this guy I like has a boyfriend? I think that he might have one outside of my school. I don't want to use any backdoor tactics and I definitely don't want to seem upfront or confrontational. Please help! Oooh! And by the way, ...
A. 21 December 2008: Some times people sell jewellery or stuff in schools (at least where I live). Perhaps you can ask him "Would you like to give this to your girl"... and he might tell you something like "I don't have a girlfriend" or "Oh, I already got her ... (read in full...)
How can it work?
Q. How can a relationship of a 9 years age difference work? I really like this guy (older), but it would obviously be against the law to date him now. Somehow my parents managed it (13 year age difference), but they met at work when they were both l...
A. 21 December 2008: Nine years wouldn't worry me if you were older. We tend to suppose that a difference of nine years is always the same. For example, that the nine-year gap is as important between a 69 year old and a 60 year old as it is between a 39 year old and a ... (read in full...)
Should I settle for my boyfriend of 3 years who has been abusive and has a bad anger problem.
Q. Should I settle for my boyfriend of 3 years who has been abusive and has a bad anger problem. We were living together and I just kicked him out a couple of months ago cuz he tried to choke me at home while my kids were home, luckily they didn't see ...
A. 21 December 2008: Wow! Just don't take him back, no matter what.... (read in full...)
How can I tell if online porn sites are legit?
Q. I have some serious questions about online porn. There is this one site that I would love to buy some from but I'm worried it could cause some future problems. How can I tell if they are legit. I mean in college I saw one of their porn videos that I ...
A. 21 December 2008: I guess that you need to take your chances with it.... (read in full...)
Why did she lead me on?
Q. So this semester, I met this girl and was instantly attached, I paid so much attention to her, txted her, called her, just in general wanted to be around her, problem is, she just got out of a relationship and said she didn't want anything. I said ...
A. 21 December 2008: I'm sorry to say this because I know how much it will hurt, but I think you'd better move on and forget about those things.
She said she "didn't want anything". And then she also said she "didn't want to hurt you". It's true that she also sle... (read in full...)
She told me "I want you in my life as long as possible."
Q. Ok so me and this girl fell in love. But due to her religion we can't go out. Quote from her; "I want you in my life as long as possible" Opinions!?...
A. 21 December 2008: Screw that, too!... (read in full...)
She told me "I want you in my life as long as possible."
Q. Ok so me and this girl fell in love. But due to her religion we can't go out. Quote from her; "I want you in my life as long as possible" Opinions!?...
A. 20 December 2008: What is her religion?... (read in full...)
What kind of perfume do guys like?
Q. It's time for me to buy some new perfume. What perfume or scent do guys like girls to wear? Especially guys in their teens through twenties....
A. 20 December 2008: Opium, Chanel n° 5.... (read in full...)
Do men like getting texts from women and can she text too much?
Q. One for the guys:- Do men like being texted by women? If so - what sort of messages do you want to hear and can a woman text too much?...
A. 20 December 2008: Yep, do it only once in a while. You could perhaps surprise him one day with an "I love you" or so, but don't do it too often. ANYONE can text too much.... (read in full...)
I don't get this guy, but then again I am dumb. Can anyone tell me wtf is going on here???
Q. My ex broke up with me 3 months ago, we remained friends until 2 weeks ago. I stopped talking to him because I asked him if he didn't like to talk to me anymore and he said that I always ask difficult questions, so I stopped talking to him. I am i...
A. 20 December 2008: Your ex thinks you're his property.... (read in full...)
Should I risk leaving a valentine's card at our next meeting this February...?
Q. It's one of those age-old situations. Yes, you will probably all have heard this before, roll your eyes and groan: "why can't you sort this trivial matter out for yourself?" Ah well, you see, my situation is not of typical complexity. There i...
A. 20 December 2008: I have some trouble here. Why is it unprofessional to fall in love? There are, to be sure, some people you should not approach or make your feelings known to, but I don't see where professionalism fits here.
(Wiling to hear explanat... (read in full...)
She told me "I want you in my life as long as possible."
Q. Ok so me and this girl fell in love. But due to her religion we can't go out. Quote from her; "I want you in my life as long as possible" Opinions!?...
A. 20 December 2008: I think wrhillgil said it right: Screw religion. It can't be right that two teen-agers can't go out.... (read in full...)
My sister has been diagnosed with cancer and I'm wishing for a X-mas miracle.
Q. my sister is 16 and has recently been diagnosed with cancer and she is really sick. im soo worried about her because she like my best friend and i dont know what i would do with out her. the doctors say she will be in hospital on christmas day. i ...
A. 20 December 2008: It is going to be hardest on her, dear poster. There is something you can do for her on Christmas, and that is be with her. Maybe the whole family can do it. You can go there and have your Christmas celebration as you would if she were at home. ... (read in full...)
What makes one woman attractive to a man? And another not attractive?
Q. what are the causes for a guy rejection a woman? what are the other causes that makes one woman sexually attractive and another not? because i am always always getting rejected in the coldest way....
A. 20 December 2008: I think Irish answered the right way. Her answer does not respond the two questions the poster asked, but it does cover what the poster needs to know.
What makes a woman "sexually" attractive? Many different things. Her body, to start with. B... (read in full...)
Ladies please answer: He's 19 years younger is it ok to bring sex into the relationship?
Q. I have a good relationship with a younger man who is 19 years younger than I am. It is ok to consider sex in our relationship? The age thing won’t get in the way? Ladies please respond. Should an older woman have sex with a younger man? Any...
A. 20 December 2008: This question can be answered as whether sex with a younger man would be wrong, in itself, or whether "a relationship with a younger man" would be wrong. Or, the way pvtguy answered, and which I make mine: is it CONVENIENT for two people with a ... (read in full...)
Ladies please answer: He's 19 years younger is it ok to bring sex into the relationship?
Q. I have a good relationship with a younger man who is 19 years younger than I am. It is ok to consider sex in our relationship? The age thing won’t get in the way? Ladies please respond. Should an older woman have sex with a younger man? Any...
A. 19 December 2008: I'm with pvtguy. You need to know what you expect from this relationship, and, also, what HE expects from it.
I can only congratulate him on his looking into the future, too. What seems fine today might not be fine tomorrow.
If you agree ... (read in full...)
Guys, what body...?
Q. What body type do guys prefer? Short? Tall? Long torso? Long legs? Thighs? Chest? What's your ideal type? Just curous. ;0...
A. 19 December 2008: Lace, what if the girl is 5'4" and is a 38DD?
I still remember a Canadian journalist I met. Blond, great personality (a little bitchy), green eyes, long slender legs and beautiful feet (no, IT'S NOT A FETISH). She was 6'2" and maybe 36C. The mos... (read in full...)
Guys, what body...?
Q. What body type do guys prefer? Short? Tall? Long torso? Long legs? Thighs? Chest? What's your ideal type? Just curous. ;0...
A. 19 December 2008: All.... (read in full...)
Bewildered...
Q. I suspect that my height has stopped me from getting a girlfriend, I'm 5ft9 and girls have told me that I'm good looking quite a few times when I show them a picture or in conversation. I also have a good personality judging by what lots of people ...
A. 18 December 2008: I think you posted this question before. Anyways, we're here to help.
Your height is not your problem. I live in a country where many males are much shorter than you are, and they don't have any trouble having girlfriends. Plenty of men we w... (read in full...)
I'm 22 still a virgin, should I go to a prostitute even though I'm afraid of the risks?
Q. What I'm about to share with you may seem to be an absurd and juvenile concern that is unworthy of your attention and time, but nevertheless, it's important for me to discuss it with those who might be in a position to empathise with me and offer ...
A. 18 December 2008: I hate to say this because this is not the subject of the post and because it will upset many people, but, in some countries, you're more likely to get AIDS from a housewife than from a prostitute. The reason is, wives trust their husbands and ... (read in full...)
I'm upset that my brother's girlfriend wants to abort, any help?
Q. Hya im only 16 and really need help. Im not supposed to know but ive just found out my brothers ex girlfriend is pregnant. Now she wants to abort it, but she will be 12 - 13 weeks pregnant. Now i know im only 16 but i think its a wrong decision...
A. 18 December 2008: I understand why you're upset. Unfortunately, this is not fo r you to decide. This things happen and all you can do is carry on. For example, suppose the husband next door cheats on his wife, who is a lovely person. If you talk to her and ... (read in full...)
I don't want to want up and be an 80 year old virgin!
Q. I don't understand why girls just don't seem all that attracted to me. I'm 19, fairly smart, good hygiene, nice and funny. But women still don't seem to like me, I always just crash and burn in the friend zone. Sure, I might not have a six p...
A. 18 December 2008: This question comes up every so often. When I'm around to answer, I always do the same thing: post this link:
http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/ng.shtml
That's what they mean when they say you have no "game".... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship with single mum!
Q. I'm back again. I wrote a couple of weeks ago about a problem I was having with my long distance relationship with a single mom whose son recently deployed to Iraq. I want to thank the person who answered for the guidance, because I truly think it ...
A. 18 December 2008: I'm sorry, but I think the real problem is that you think you two are soulmates and you two are meant to be. She believes otherwise. This is heartbreaking, but it has no solution. It doesn't matter if she needs to be saved from herself or not: ... (read in full...)
I'm 22 still a virgin, should I go to a prostitute even though I'm afraid of the risks?
Q. What I'm about to share with you may seem to be an absurd and juvenile concern that is unworthy of your attention and time, but nevertheless, it's important for me to discuss it with those who might be in a position to empathise with me and offer ...
A. 18 December 2008: We give our opinions here because we don't think that matters are "absurd and juvenile". So here's another opinion of mine. Sometimes, I'm afraid, I'm the one who says absurdities.
Your situation is "the call of nature". Meaning you're a man an... (read in full...)
How to tell parents that I want to move out and to another country to be with my girlfriend?
Q. Hi there, I'm currently living in South Africa and I'm a citizen here by birth, I plan on moving to the USA after April 7 in 2009 because thats when I turn 18, currently I'm 17. I want to move there and go live there permanently for many reaso...
A. 18 December 2008: And if you don't get them to be on your side, well, grin and bear it.... (read in full...)
How to tell parents that I want to move out and to another country to be with my girlfriend?
Q. Hi there, I'm currently living in South Africa and I'm a citizen here by birth, I plan on moving to the USA after April 7 in 2009 because thats when I turn 18, currently I'm 17. I want to move there and go live there permanently for many reaso...
A. 18 December 2008: Ooops! I forgot. As to "how to tell your parents", just tell them what you intend to do. Something like "I wanna live in Americaaaaaaa...". They will get angry and cut your privileges, and that will be fine. You need to get used to the fact that ... (read in full...)
How to tell parents that I want to move out and to another country to be with my girlfriend?
Q. Hi there, I'm currently living in South Africa and I'm a citizen here by birth, I plan on moving to the USA after April 7 in 2009 because thats when I turn 18, currently I'm 17. I want to move there and go live there permanently for many reaso...
A. 18 December 2008: Tristan, some time ago I wanted to do something like what you are doing now. I have been on your shoes, then.
We don't know what your parents are like or why they would oppose your going to the United States. We don't know, either, what her pare... (read in full...)
Should I offer to split the bill and pay half the room cost?
Q. There isn't a right or wrong answer to this - I am simply looking for people's opinions on what they would do in this situation. My friend decided to go to Venice at the last minute and invited me to go also. I declined because I doubted I could ...
A. 18 December 2008: It's better to be safe than sorry. I would split the bills.... (read in full...)
How can I impress a guy who is democratic and environmentally aware?
Q. How can I impress a guy who is democratic and environmentally aware? I am both of those things, but how can I make it more obvious? How can I seem more mature?...
A. 18 December 2008: I'm with Fade. Be yourself. Do you want him to be with you because your political views are like his, or because you're yourself?... (read in full...)
Do nice guys finish last?
Q. hi, A girl I met at uni a year ago now are really good friends. Last month I asked her out but she said that she just wants to be friends and that is all that she wants from me. So just now she is seeing someone. Her flatmates don't und...
A. 18 December 2008: Fade, I will take those, too :-).
Something is missing here. The poster can be a good guy, and I won't dispute that. But the girl didn't refuse to have something with him because he isn't nice. Being nice does not guarantee you will get the ... (read in full...)
Do nice guys finish last?
Q. hi, A girl I met at uni a year ago now are really good friends. Last month I asked her out but she said that she just wants to be friends and that is all that she wants from me. So just now she is seeing someone. Her flatmates don't und...
A. 17 December 2008: What about my chocolates?... (read in full...)
Do nice guys finish last?
Q. hi, A girl I met at uni a year ago now are really good friends. Last month I asked her out but she said that she just wants to be friends and that is all that she wants from me. So just now she is seeing someone. Her flatmates don't und...
A. 17 December 2008: I guess you got lucky on this one. If she had been with you, YOU would be the one being dumped, no matter what organs of yours were failing. Go have fun, meet someone else, et cetera.
I'm not your girl (and I'm straight) but I could use that box... (read in full...)
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