My friend's boyfriend is a control freak. What advice can I give her?
Q. ok so I have a friend who has a boyfriend and her boyfriend is telling her who she can and can't talk with she likes him but he has taken it to far from telling her when she can drive and how loong she can stay out and she wants to break up with him ...
A. 8 November 2007: Breaking up with somene is the easy part. She should simply tell him she doesn't want to see him anymore. Gather her things and walk out the door. Hopefully she has a place to stay until he's done freaking out and can accept that he chased her ... (read in full...)
He watches tranny porn - is he gay or what?
Q. My boyfriend and I were in the most loving, respectful and caring relationship for over 3 years. I found he was watching tranny porn and I confronted him on it and said that it didn't bother me (and it didn't - I used to manage an adult movie s...
A. 8 November 2007: Cheating is cheating regardless if he's scamming another woman, or worse yet a man. I think you're b/f is mixed up and doesn't really know his true orientation. Trust is also a major factor in any relationship and he has violated yours. I believe ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being so jealous?
Q. This is my problem. My boyfriend swears up and down that he would never cheat on me, but he has done a lot of things to make me jealous, it has gotten to the point where it seems all that all I am is jealous. We fight almost all the time now. It is ...
A. 3 August 2007: Without knowing what your b/f did that made you jealous, I would say part of it could be your age and that you are feeling a bit insecure about yourself as a person. When ever you feel jealous about another girl, try focusing on the things you have ... (read in full...)
Is it possible that your boyfriend loves you but also wants sex everytime you're together?
Q. Is it possible that your boyfriend loves you but also wants sex everytime you're together? ...
A. 3 August 2007: In from the age of 18 - 35 want sex every time they see you whether they love you or not is irrelevant. They still want it. And they probably want it from about 90% of all the other females they come in contact with during the day to; the UPS girl ... (read in full...)
Why has he never got in touch with me???
Q. Sorry if this is long winded. I not sure where to start. I'm really hurting. I had been seeing a guy for 4 months and he said he loves me. We have been friends for 4 years before that. He always would text me every day and phoned me most and told...
A. 3 August 2007: Well I hope he didn't have to have emergency surgery...or was involved in a car accident. But more than likely he has met someone else, or things have developed between him and the pregnant g/f. Don't text him anymore. If he's not in the hospital, ... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to have a f*** buddy while my girlfriend is out of state?
Q. Is casual sex OK when you love someone else who is not around? My girlfriend took a job that forces her to travel out of state for weeks at a time 90 percent of the time. I love her but dont want to sleep alone. Is it wrong to find a casual sexual ...
A. 3 August 2007: Can I be frank here?....HELL YES it's wrong. Why don't you just break up with her. It sounds like she's going to be gone 90% of the time and home only 10%. With your sex drive, I don't see this relationship working out anyhow. ... (read in full...)
3 days ago he sent me a text message saying that his son wants to move in with us when we buy our house, I told him that was ok, but he won't let me meet his son yet.
Q. hi I have been with my partner for over 2 years, he told me 3 months ago he has a 13 year old son, He works away, and I only get to see him once a week, and he is always with his work mate, 3 days ago he sent me a text message saying th...
A. 2 August 2007: Well I suspect you're going to get to meet him soon enough if he's planning to move in with you guys. It's probably just difficult to fit that into the schedule when you only get to see each other once a week. I'd be more concerned about that and ... (read in full...)
He blames me all the time for not being able to move on because the relationship isn't secure cause we keep fighting.
Q. I have been with a guy for almost 7 years (on and off). The other day he dropped me at his house while he went to the gym, then to his mom's for something to eat. Obviously I waited, just watching TV. When he came back (he had been about 2 and a ha...
A. 2 August 2007: Does he love you...well, what has he done for you lately? Be honest. Some men show love in ways that are not conventional, like flowers and candlelit dinners. It took my g/f a long time to figure this out about me. I show her love like, picking ... (read in full...)
I sent my ex a short email. Do you think I ruined my chances of getting back together?
Q. After a month and a half of initiating no contact with my ex-girlfriend, I dropped her a short email today welcoming her back from a trip and asking her how things went. She had contacted me a few times via instant messenger since the breaku...
A. 2 August 2007: I seriously doubt it. But I wouldn't count on it or anything else you do at this point of magically repairing the relationship. I don't know who broke up with whom, but it is a break up afterall. It's usually best to move on anyhow.... (read in full...)
Is everybody online dating? I cant find anyone in the real world!
Q. Is the whole world online dating? I can't find anybody in the real world ....
A. 2 August 2007: I've surfed the web, listed myself with personals for years but never met anyone that I'd consider a potential mate. It was just something I did to keep from feeling lonely and it filled up time in my life, gave me something to look forward to. ... (read in full...)
I still love my ex!
Q. I am in love my exboyfriend that i dated 9 years ago. I am currently involved with my fiance' who i have a 4 year old boy with. My ex is married and just had a baby. We kept in contact with one another through the past 9 years. We occasion...
A. 2 August 2007: It's okay to still love someone but you must move on and put things into perspective. There is probably not one woman I've been involved with, that I don't still love on some level, especially my ex-wives whom I had children with. In fact, my first ... (read in full...)
He says it's him but could it be me???
Q. i have started dating a guy, we have been sexual active for 4 months, he can only ejaculate via masterbation and sometimes looses his erection during intercourse. is the problem me, he says not....
A. 2 August 2007: Is he taking any kind of blood pressure medication? This sometimes affects a man's erection. ... (read in full...)
He's got a roving eye, he watches porn and he often doesn't get hard with me... !
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. In this time, he has consistantly had a roving eye. He denies this. I have been physically moved out of the way, for him to get a better view of another female. I can see him getting twitchy when he sees ...
A. 2 August 2007: Your man appears to have an addiction problem. This is not something you're going to solve by improving your self or enlarging your breasts. It's a much bigger problem than that. I suspect he cannot get an erection because he spends too much time ... (read in full...)
She is supposed to be my girlfriend, but she keeps meeting people she likes.
Q. Hello! I have been together with my girlfriend for almost a year now. I love her very much and everything would be fine if not for one little problem. Everywhere she goes without me she meets a guy that she likes. The last time that happens she told ...
A. 1 August 2007: She sounds immature and clearly not ready for a one-guy committment. I think she's still curious about what's out there and she's looking around while you're gone or whatever. It's only a matter of time. She's too young to be tied down, still has ... (read in full...)
How can I cope with her breaking up with me?
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend for the past 10 months. Only recently she has moved back home to Wales and since then the relationship has seemed strained. She has been home for about a month and is now asking for space. Things have seem...
A. 1 August 2007: Okay she's moved away, she's asked for space, she doesn't want to talk about the relationship. At a time when she should be reaching out to the person who loves her, she is pushing you away further. I think she may have fallen out of love with ... (read in full...)
I am a shopaholic because I hate having any money
Q. I somehow feel hatred for money and tend to splurge on unnecessary things mainly because i consider it to be root cause or evil that prevented my development needs from being met by my parents / father in first place. My requests were neglected and ...
A. 28 June 2007: Get need to see a counselor so you can develop a healthy attitude towards money. Also, if you insist on wasting your funds, why don't you donateyour money to some organizations who could really benefit from it. There are plenty of little kids who ... (read in full...)
His ex hates me and doesn't want the kids around me. I think he should stand up to her! Am I right?
Q. please help! i've been with my bf for 4yrs, thing is he has 3 kids to his ex wife she's an alcoholic and is never sober. well one night the police called my bf to say that they were bringing the kids down as his ex wife was lying blacked so my ...
A. 26 October 2006: Your boyfriend needs to get a lawyer and have papers drawn up about visitation rights with his kids which don't dictate whom he can have at his home during their visits. As long as the children are not being exposed to an unhealthy environment, she ... (read in full...)
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