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writes:so my GF and i broke up about 1 month ago. we were still talking until last week when i told her i needed "space", to think whether i could remain her "best friend", something she asked of me...we haven't spoken in a week. i receive a sms simply saying "you have my things. can you please send them to me?"obviously she is hurt. maybe she is looking for a reason to see me. i don't know, i should probably stop second guessing. should i send her things in the post? or should i try and meet up with her? she often joked that i never listened to her, so maybe it's time i did!
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (16 February 2007):
 I would send her the things like she asked. I wouldn't ask her to meet up, not yet anyway. That will only make you look foolish as you told her you needed space away from her to sort your head out about the "best friends" issue. No... send her her things like she asked and stand your ground. It may be, she thought by saying this, that you WOULD get in touch with her but don't! She's got to see that you mean what you say.
If she really has feelings for you and wants to get back together then she knows your number.
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reader, wvgirl  +, writes (16 February 2007):
 If she wanted to see you, she'd likely ask to either come get her stuff, or for you to bring it to her. It's obvious she just wants her stuff back and to move on with her life. Mail her the stuff and let her be. You owe her that much.
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