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writes:I dont know what to do, just after xmas my fiance posted a home video of me on a hard core porn site and when i found it it had 18554 hits i felt totally disgusted he showed no real remorse !just said he was proud of me !! I also found out that he had a e-mail account that he has been using to acces these sites and today found a old forum where he had been asking girls to send him pictures of there boobs. he has been using the computer when i am not in to go on porn sites yet says he loves me, we split up a few weeks ago over it all but today finding out what he has been using the e-mail for makes me feel sick again,
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reader, goodbutnotgifted  +, writes (20 February 2007):
 I agree RUN, and if he follows arrest him for violating your trust and demeaning your value as a woman. Porn takes enough away from women anyway. and his unfeeling cooth is terrifying, I am questioning his stability and humanity. why are you asking what to do? get the tape file charges and have the respect you deserve, not to mention all his friends will get the hint when he goes down for it, because he is bragging, believe that, "I am proud of you." is no way to respond to your concerns in this situation. You can do so much better than this. Most guys watch porn thinking the women are willing participants. If I found a woman being so violated I would report it imediatley, there is no place for that kind of behavior, and I hope you can recover from this with some dignaty intact. Good luck
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reader, Ponungalungb +, writes (18 February 2007):
 This is called invasion of privacy. You could have him arrested in The States.
Lose this creep.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (18 February 2007):
 Can I also add that this should be a lesson to you in the future. If you're going to play with fire (ie have movies like that taken of you) then you need to be aware of what the consequences could be. Making love to your partner is a very intimate and private expression of how you feel about one another, it's not something to be caught on camera and as you've found out, exposed for almost 19,000 people to share, watch and get their rocks off over. Let it be a lesson to you in the future.
Eve
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reader, AskEve +, writes (18 February 2007):
First of all I would get in contact with the porn site and let them know that this was sent WITHOUT your approval and could they remove it immediately! (Even send it back to you.) Then you have absolutely nothing to do with the creep. If he truly loved you he would never splash you all over the net in this way. He has absolutely no respect for you. Avoid him at all costs, avoid any contact he makes with you (if he does decide to get back in touch), even change your phone number if you have to.
He has a serious problem and watching all the porn that he does certainly isn't helping him any. You were right to get rid of him love, you can do so much better than him.
Eve
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reader, onewish89hmb +, writes (18 February 2007):
 Are you serious?! You seem nice. You can do so much better than that. I hate when guys think they can do this. You're better off without him hun! I'm sure you know that
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