A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: I had sexual relation with my friend. Now i am getting married. I am worried about that can my would be husband will know that i had realtion with someone before marriage. Reply to this Question Share |
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male
reader, Htsn47 +, writes (7 November 2012):
No, there is no way he can tell. Some men will expect a virgin to bleed a little her first time, but frequently that does not happen. And the hymen is very commonly broken from non-sexual activities, so it is not a reliable indicator. (Sadly, it is sometimes used as one but that's simply wrong!)
So no, relax. He will not be able to tell.
A
female
reader, person12345 +, writes (7 November 2012):
There's no way he can tell unless you tell him.
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A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2012): Yeah, it's not like honesty is important in a marriage.
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A
female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (7 November 2012):
not if you don't tell him...
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