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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I have a big problem. I am in love with someone I have known since just after I was born. He knows how i feel and he used me and took advantage of my feelings when I told him. Our parents work together and regularly go away on conventions. Me and him both love London, so when their conventions are in london, we go with them. Me and him have just turned 16. When our parents are booking the hotels, they book three rooms, one for his parents, one for my parents, and one for us. (Begining to see where I'm going with this, aren't you?)Last time we shared a room together we had seperate beds. That was fine. We talked for a bit, and he admitted he was a bit unsure about his feelings for me. I told him, (to see what his reaction would be), that I didn't fancy him anymore. He looked upset. I said "you know how you feel now, don't you?", I leaned in as if i was about to kiss him, he closed his eyes, but instead of kissing him, I whispered, "I have been in love with you for four years. You've known since I fell for you, and you thought you'd use me to your advantage. Do not presume that I am that easy now." At which point I left the hotel room for a while. When I came back, he wasn't there either. I got in the shower. Just after i had turned it off, I heard him come back and I realised that I hadn't locked the door. I was about to yell to tell him but just as before I did, he came into the bathroom. The shower wasn't running and he didn't realise I was in there. I was frozen to the spot, hoping he wouldn't, and I realised he had a bunch of flowers with him. To my horror, he began to strip down, I was panicking now, because I knew he was going to take a shower, like me. He was completely naked now, and he turned to the shower, and noticed me stood there. He froze too and I don't now much time passed just stood there. I am not skinny at all, I'm not fat but I'm really curvy. I noticed him scanning me up and down. I was the first to move, grabbing my towel and proceeding to dry myself. He must have resized he was staring because he moved around me. I dropped my towel, and pointed to the flowers. He said they were for me, as an apology for everything he's done. I stood there for a while again, and then thanked him. I joked that he'd done quite a little strip tease, but he just blushed and apologised. I was about to leave the bathroom before he stopped me. I turned back to him and he told me that he'd only done what he'd done because he'd been afraid to admit he liked me. I decided not to hold a grudge and told him he was forgiven. I was about to leave once more before he kissed me. I broke away and told him I'd need proof that he wasn't using me again. But then I noticed he had an erection, and I didn't really want much more proof. I kissed him again, and pulled him close to my body and ran my hands all over him, through his hair, his chest, bum. I felt mad with him afterwards, and I don't know why. We are going to London again this week but we don't have seperate beds this time. I really want to bring up going out with each other, and if I'm brave enough, making love. I don't know how to. Please don't tell me to rethink this. I want to so badly. I just don't know how I should talk to him about it, or ask him, or if I should kiss him, and that would lead to it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2012): You're right. Thanks. I don't want to rush into things, but I'm worried that something will happen being so close to him for 3 nights. I don't want to lose my virginity to someone who might be playing me again! I don't want to be too easy! I don't want him to think that he can bend me how he wants.
I have just been in love with him for such a long time.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (7 November 2012):
 Honey getting an erection has nothing to do with love. It's lust and hornyness. Pure and simple.
I think it would be a big mistake to start having sex with this guy on this trip. DATE him first for a few months, see if you two are even compatible as a couple.
Besides how do you think your parents will feel? Yea, they will lose some trust in you... don't you think?
I know that is not what you want to hear, but that is my advice.
You can't let hormones, infatuation rule your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2012): I'd suggest you go slow and don't bring it up. If it happens and you want it to let it but don't go overboard. These are too many emotions at your age. Go slow and be easy going and see what life brings you. Without rushing and talking to death.
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