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writes: Im back.. I'll call this part 2.Are there any women or men who can tell me how their sex life has been after a hysterectomy? Women has your mate cheated? or men do you get your pleasure somewhere else? I have a sex partner over 10 years off an on. after so many losses, (death of both parents,) he later tell his wife he was having an affair with another woman, which was me. Maybe another also. Then he later hooks up with another lady. Ok now he's back. Why? He tells me he doesn't want things to change because they gave a good relationship but at the same time he's not saying lets fuck. After her hysterectomy she's unable to have sex like she used too. So he's missing the sex. What do i do? Im still married, and the feelings were very strong. I understand we were just sex partners but to me i grew closer. Years later after I asked god to help me get over him he's now back.. whats next?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2012): You are married. Hes married. Just because you have cheated before, that makes it ok? NO! Its WRONG! So what do you do? You wise up, hes using his WIFEs surgery to get you to sleep him. Who does that!? A PRICK, thats who. I feel sorry for his wife and your husband. Married to lying, manipulative, cheaters. Fix your own marriage or get a divorce. I dont understand how anyone can disregard thier vows and defile marriage like this. Work on your marriage, or get a divorce, and dont take marriage so lightly. Good luck.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 November 2012):
 umm he's lying you know... using his wife's hysterectomy as an excuse... my mom had one when I was very young... never impacted her sex life.. my dad losing his drive bothered her more...
i have not had a hysterectomy but I have had ablations and several LEEP procedures and I'm 52 in the throes of menopause...
I crave sex as do most women I know around my age... most of us chase after our men for it... they are the ones with lower drives now...
he's back... so what? you have no free will?
he's married, your married.... to me it's a no-brainer
either you both JUST SAY NO
or
you both go to your spouses and get clearance to conduct an affair... if you both want to have extra-marital relations I think it's only fair that your spouses approve of it.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 November 2012):
 I'd recommend you go get that "Sucker" tat removed from your forehead. Then, if I were you, I'd proceed to do whatever it takes to get my life and marriage straightened out.
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