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writes:am in love with a girl, not knowing she is my best friend's cousine, we both love each other but my friend did not want me to date her. pls wat should i do, am really hrt broken.......pls help.
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reader, xnickx  +, writes (6 March 2012):
 Evaluate your relationships.
You claim you are in love with her and she shares your feelings. If this is truly the case, you are already emotionally attached and would be doing her a disservice by leaving. Try explaining it to your friend this way; he should understand.
On the other hand, if you are not as much in love as you claim you are, will your friendship recover if you pursue his cousin? If so, go for it if it's what you want, it's not like you're going after his sister. If not thought, it's important to remember you're going to hurt someone else you care deeply about. Personally, i think he'll be fine, but you know him best, not me.
Best of luck,
Nick
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2012): You have to decide on whether you want to date her and lose his friendship or whether you want to keep your friendship with him and not date her. I personally would not give up a friendship just to be with someone romantically, but that's me.
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