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writes:It it okay to have not care about anything? Its like i've lost interest in things over the years. It all started when I got rejected by my fist Love and ever since then I have been on a downward spiral with my inner self. At first I started to hate women and I became paranoid that every girl that saw me was judging me. I never wanted to date because I had it in my head that no women was worthy of me so thus me being a virgin. After that my virginity became a problem and I continued to be pulled downward. Now im at my lowest point and don't care about anything. I feel like im on autopilot all the time. I feel worthless and I get angry at myself for being so weak and lonely. Lately ive been thinking of just paying escorts to make me feel worth something.I don't know what to do i am so lost. Please help me...
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reader, bruce lee  +, writes (6 March 2012):
 Yes, it's normal. A lot of people feel like this these days. It doesn't mean it's right to feel this way but it is normal. The best thing you can do is talk to your local Psychiatric Ward staff. Ask them what they think. They might turn out to be real cunts. People who either can't or won't help. But that's life. I hope things work out well for you whatever happens. There are never any guarantees in life. The only guarantee is that the world is full of cunts. And you're going to die one day. And then when you're buried in the ground, a few people every now and again will walk over your grave. And you probably would have been better off if you'd never been born. I know I would have been better off (in hindsight) if I'd never been born. But that's life. Now, when we focus on the escort subject...that's entirely up to you. I can't give you any good or bad advice there. That's something you'll have to decide for yourself. No-one ever listens to me though. So, you might just laugh after reading this.
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reader, itcantjustbeme +, writes (5 March 2012):
 It's not not normal. I think everyone feels kind worthless sometimes, even for long lengths of time at some points of their lives. How I think is an easy way to kick yourself out of it? Just that, kick yourself out of it.My friend used to have this same issue and because she lives so far away I couldn't help her in person so maybe some of my tips for her will help for you:Next flower you see, I want you to take a moment and grab it, caress it, smell it deep, and just when you think you can't take in enough of it take another big wiff. When you look at it realize that it started as nothing more then a small seed(or bulb) covered in dirt, wet and cold. Don't take for granted how beauiful it has become because you can become just that beautiful too. And somebody who is worth it and worth the time will see you for the flower that you are, or are becoming.The easiest way to be liked is to like yourself. It's a catch22 because how do you like yourself if you don't believe anyone likes you? I'll tell you something kind of weird if you fake it, it just becomes a part of you.I had social anxiety, constantly worrying about how people thought of me, I just wanted people to like me. When I found out that people just liked happy people, I started smiling at strangers. I walked with a bounce in my step and you know what? I noticed within days that people reacted possitively and were more interested in getting to know me. It was great, and then all of a sudden I wasn't having to force the smile on my face at people, it just happened.I think that could work for you, if you let it.If you think your whole situation is unmanagable on your own, then you should concider seeing someone like a social worker or even a close parent. If you are open and honest with this person and regularly speak this way with them, you might even see a change that way.I hope I've helped, and I have faith that you'll see how lovely you truly are. :)
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (5 March 2012):
 Have you considered some therapy and/or counseling?
I think that you are in a vicious circle of low grade depression that feeds on itself and can easily be corrected....
are you walking through life?
work?
school?
sports?
do you have friends you go out with and do things with?
what do you do with your days?
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