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writes:How can i speed up sex without finishing quick?I'm young, and suffer from P.E, i'm a confident guy who's got no problem in meeting girls and has confidence talking to girls. But when it comes to being sexually active with a girl i try to avoid it because i've literally got no confidence anymore. I never use to suffer from P.E, but it suddenly affected me. I recently purchased Matt Gorden's Etrainer, but still not back to how i use to be. How can i speed up without finishing quick?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2012): Think about this: Your problem is not a problem - it's a blessing!There is actually nothing that feels as physically good for a man as a helplessly excited, uncontrollable ejaculation. It's the most intensely pleasurable of all sexual sensations and experiences a man can have, if you'll only revel in it and let it blow you away. Men who rarely come, or can't come, or only come with huge pleasureless effort, would give anything to have your 'problem'.Enjoy it! Thank your lucky stars. Try to set new records for how quickly, reflexively and wildly you can squirt and how much pleasure you can feel.Tell whoever you fuck that you love being so excited by them that you can't help coming as soon as you start fucking them (or hopefully sooner) and that you love the way they do that to you. Tell them you'll do whatever they want to help them come too, after you recover, and make sure that you do! They'll love it.Most women love making men ejaculate. It's very encouraging and flattering for a woman to be the cause of helpless pleasure in a man - just make sure you soon afterward cause pleasure in her too.There is no such thing as a woman who comes too quickly and there should be no such thing as a man who ejaculates too soon. If you come in your pants, take them off! Then take hers off and give her a good tongue-lashing until she comes, or, as soon as you get another erection, fuck her again. If you enjoy your ability to come within moments of being aroused, and do so with your girls' prior knowledge, you'll both end up having more pleasure.The more you do this, the more secondary and subsequent erections you'll sooner or later start to have, and that will mean that you can fuck her again, and again and again - until she's had enough.If you ejaculate again before she comes, lucky you. Just fall off and finger her a little while you recover, and then repeat the sequence of fingering and licking and fucking her again, until she's had enough.She wants to be sexually irresistible, and she wants to be pleasured. So come early and come often and make sure that whenever you're not actually fucking her, you're licking or fingering or otherwise sexually pleasuring her whenever you're sufficiently revived from your orgasms to do so.The only possible drawback is that you might sooner or later lose the ability to have wonderfully helpless orgasms and have to decide when to come, or worse still, have to work for them . . .Your solution is to come as quickly and as often as you can, while giving your girls as much varied sex as they like.
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reader, grymsoul +, writes (16 April 2012):
 I can tell you how to not finish quick. I too use to suffer from P.E, but I did some research on the internet and found a few methods that helped me to last longer, and I mean so long that she gave up on me out of pure exhaustion, lol. Foreplay is essential. Have plenty of foreplay to get the blood going. Start out slow and easy. Pace your thrusts so that you can manage the rising sensation. Think of other stuff besides sex while you're at it. I know it sounds counter productive but trust me, your little friend there has a mind of his own. He knows what he's doing so let your brain wonder a bit.
I found that the main reason I ejaculated too early was because most of the pleasure I was absorbing was due to sight. I started to stare at other stuff beside her body and I realized that the eruption was steadily decreasing. When I could control it better to a point, I started to focus on her again.
Also, there's one last trick that I found was very helpful. Everytime you feel close to cumming, ask her to gently grasp your balls. It somehow settles your approaching finale. I hope this information was helpful.
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