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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes: Am i over reacting here,seen my boyfriend yesterday,we spent a nice afternoon together,we had some great sex too,later he sent me a nite nite sweet dreams text.now usually when we say good nite or good morning to each other,we always have a few other short things we say as well,but all i got was nite nite no mention of the afternoon we had with each other or even a gee it was good seeing you,just not a word about our time together.i feel hurt as i thought he could have at least said he had a good time or how nice it was to see me.am i right in feeling a little upset or am i being silly,i have always expressed how nice a time i have when i see him, but this time i said nothing back to him,i think he is being a little mean and uncaring towards me,
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reader, Ciar +, writes (16 April 2012):
I think you're over reacting. If he said that every time he saw you it would lose its value.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2012): Your overeacting atleast he had the decency to text you goodnight
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (15 April 2012):
Well, did he appear to be enjoying the time you were in each other's company?
Personally I think you are overreacting. "Mean and uncaring" certainly doesn't seem called for!
The time to start worrying would be if he didn't want to get together - or if he did, it was only for sex; and if he never again says anything such as nice seeing you, etc.....
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