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writes:Ive been with my boyfriend for 7 years this summer, weve had our ups and downs and odd little breaks but overall everything is good. We had a big heart to heart last year when he told me approx a year before i met him he had oral sex with another man and since then often goes on gay websites and watches gay porn as he is curious. I know he talks to gay men on these websites and he has even sent photos of himself to other men and received photos in return. He said that the experience was odd but he didnt not enjoy it. Sometimes when we have intercourse he pushes my hand towards his anus. Im not sure what to do about it. As he is in the curious stage ive told him that if he wishes to speak to unknown gay males then he can, which i think is very understanding of me but i love him so much i just want to make him happy. Hes told me if i told him i didnt like it then he would stop immediately but hes been doing it for all these years we were together and only told me last year so im not sure if he would. Obviously none of his friends or family know anything about this, The question being is my boyfriend gay? Is he taking advantage of me being so understanding? and what am i meant to do?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 April 2012):
 I would think that he's at least bisexual. See that he is sending his picture to gay men and receiving theirs. That is not what a straight man does.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2012): No he is not gay he is as he say curious. He is not taking advantage of you in the least.....if he was he would be having intimate sex with multiple men or having dates with these men knowing it is causing u pain but you'd do anything for him.....that would be taking advantage. If you're okay with your boyfriend being possibly bisexual then stand by his side.
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