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writes:I have concerns I am young boy who is in in middle school.I get Teased at for have many girls that are friends for example I get called "gay " and well it hurt and I cry due to these name calling. But all also I have thoughts toward my sexuality I like this girl well actually there are certain girls I but When I see a guy I feelings for him... I don't want to be gay but these tendencies for men get to me sometimes and it scares me.I need word of advice from people that can help I am only 14 years old and I don't know what to do. Reply to this Question
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reader, Comfortishere +, writes (16 April 2012):
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (15 April 2012):
In the first place you are young, and you have all your life to be anything you want to be. The bullying you are being victim of is not ok, and you should do something about it. Most of those who call you gay because you have girl as friends are actually helplessly mad because they probably don't know or don't dare to be close with a girl. But they wish they could.
In the other hand, having feeling for a boy doesn't make you gay. There is love in a friendship. It doesn't matter if it's about two girls, or two boys, or a girl and a boy. Friendship is about love too. Being gay, straight or bisexual is another thing, and I dare to say you are probably too young to decide.
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reader, cmarieky +, writes (15 April 2012):
First thing first, relax....breathe and take a sigh. Whether youre gay or straight is okay...even if you may like both genders its okay. But as far as being joked on by other people, that's a bit of bullying and not okay. Speak with your schools guidance counselors about all this.....the attraction to boys and girls and those who kind of pick at you. Let him or her know it makes you cry bc you don't want to be gay. My other advice is to just stay open with your counselors let them know what's going on. I'm sorry you have to worry about being teased and I'm sorry for the tears you cry. Maybe this counselling will boost your self esteem and you can be the person u want and like the people you will. And you're welcomed to post many more articles and I promise we will (dearcupid members) will try our best to help you.
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