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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I really do not know what to do I have been friends with this boy for two years and in these two years we have grown closer and I do consider him one of my best friends as I can trust him more than some of my girl-friends. Recently, I have realised how much I enjoy his company. And when I know I am going to see him I get butterflies and start going clammy, and I really can't make out whether I love him or the friendship? Also, I am told by other people in school I am always seen with him and I ask what's going on between us. I really can't make out whether I like him or not someone help ?!However, the other day we were having a conversation and he was saying he liked this girl and I wasn't too bothered by it but when he told me her name i gaged who it was and she isn't the nicest girl to get with and for his own good I don't think he should get with her because she is a very bitchy girl and I can see him getting hurt. Do I try steer him away? If so how?
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reader, xXAmiXx  +, writes (15 April 2012):
Hmmm, this is a tricky one. Because I know where you are coming from but then again I do not really agree with telling people about people.It depends on if you have feelings for him or not. If you are unsure that you like him but even so much 'think' that you do. Then you may just like him. And if you like him and don't want him going out with this girl then I suggest you try telling him how you feel and if he feels the same way, there should be no problem. But if you don't like him and just wanna look out for him, I'd just let him decide if she's a bitch or not. Like if this girl is nice to him and makes him happy(so long as she treats you with respect) then goodBut if not, then let him know that the girl he likes is very rude to you and if he cares enough about you he should be able to cut ties with her.Other than that I don't recommend you telling him anything about the girl because that could cause trouble(Trust me I've been through it before, it's nothing but unnecessary mess)Good luck
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (15 April 2012):
About this "not so nice girl" you should talk to him, and tell him what you think about her. Anyway, you should decide whether you love him or not. Do you think you would be pleased if he dates another girl? Can you think of a girl you would like him to date?
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