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male
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51-59,
anonymous
writes: my girlfriend has a habit of stopping in stores to talk to people she knows, this would seem fine and all but she treats me like a stranger the minute she see's them. Weather it's a man or woman she never introduces me and normally steps to another isle to talk to them. Should i be worried about this? We've been together for $ years now and nothing changes... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, chigirl +, writes (15 April 2012):
Just start to introduce yourself. I don't think she realizes this hurts you. Have you told her you'd like her to introduce you so that you can feel included?
Many times I skip introducing people if the other people are just someone I meet in a hurry and wont really stay to talk to. For example if I just pass them on the street and we're both hurrying along with little time to talk. It often slips my mind to introduce people to each other, even though I know it is rude not to.
Introduce yourself and she'll feel awkward or bad for not having introduced you, and then she'll start to introduce you by herself.
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reader, corbandallas +, writes (15 April 2012):
That would drive me nuts. I would bring it up with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2012): I had the same problem with an ex he never believed there was a problem with it until i did the same thing then he understood were i was coming from
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