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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I have a question for the ladies, do you feel more comfortable with anal stimulation and anal sex after you have an orgasm? Or is it better before, in state of higher arousal?
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 April 2012):
if I'm really hot I might like it now and again but once I've orgasmed I'm done don't touch me...
you need to ask the partner...
you need to be more aware that anal play is not for everyone and there is no natural lube there.... not everyone likes it...
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2012): Maybe I should do some more experimenting, thanks for the answers.
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female
reader, person12345 +, writes (16 April 2012):
You'd have to ask her if it hurts, everyone is different. Also there's a big difference between external or a finger and full on anal sex. You could also have her try it on you if you're curious about when it feels best! In fact I know far more straight men who enjoy anal stimulation than straight women.
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female
reader, 1sunshine +, writes (16 April 2012):
My answer is never. It hurts like a bitch! LOL
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2012): I find it painful and gross, so nothing can make me ready for it. Yuk!
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2012): I am not crazy about it but I like to play with it once in a while, my significant other does not seem to mind about it. So that is why I wonder, so it would not disturb or hurt her. I never hurt her, would not like to do so either.
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female
reader, person12345 +, writes (15 April 2012):
The anus doesn't expand like a vagina does with arousal, though I'd imagine it would be easier to relax after a lot of foreplay. Most women don't like anal sex no matter what the circumstances are. Why do you ask?
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