Friend used me as a rebound. How do I act around him now?

A female age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm on my Easter holidays and a male friend of mine got dumped just before we broke up. So I was a shoulder to cry on for him and anyway he asked my out on a date and I didn't realise it until afterwards that I was just a rebound. Anyways we haven't spoken since which was just over a week ago, so I was pretty annoyed with him because he just wanted to use me as a rebound (I know I should have seen it but I got a little too excited about it) also the fact he wouldn't shut up about his ex gf then when queried whether he should move on so fast he kiss me and lied to my face that he broke up with her because she wasn't what he wanted. It was a blatant lie as I later found out she dumped him for being too clingy. Anyway I go back to college with him on Tuesday and I thought about getting angry or trying to win him back but I thought it would be better to show him I'm the better person and show him what he's missing. I'm not shy but I'm just not entirely sure how to do this and really show what I got I mean I'm quite small (5"2) so it's difficult to make a big impression but I gotta do this as a way to se things straight. Any advice much appreciated xxx

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