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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hello, my apparent friend group just did something which definitley proved to me there not my friends. We all smoke weed and they've turned extremely aggresive and short tempered since they have. I recently called them fake friends and lately they've been annoyed with me and haven't rang me. I've got a feeling soon there gonna start ringing me and if i leave the group they'll 'bang me'. Also, I've been hanging around with this group for so long all my other friends have 'moved on'. I've still got one friend in the group and we meet up at night and try to avoid them. They'll also take the piss out of the new friends I hang about with. How can I find a new group of friends and leave my annoying ones? Reply to this Question
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reader, Ima FreAk! +, writes (15 April 2012):
 Hiyaaa,You are a man mate for wanting to leave your old friends coz you don't wanna hang around with the wrong crowd. Once you get sucked into their world with drugs, sex and drinks it's soooo hard to get out of it. And during the future you realise you've wasted you're childhood on stupid things. Firstly to find a new group I'm sure you might know some individual people from different classes and you know ask if you can sit around their table at lunch or just hang with them. I'm sure they don't mind and eventually keep hanging around with them till your part of the group. Secondly you gotta face this either way if you make a bold statement saying "I don't wanna be part of your group" or even just gently putting it in a nice way that you don't wanna be part of their group, you're gonna get some crap. Like the guys might ignore you, treat you differently, take the mick or whatever but you gotta be strong and just ignore it. Coz when you're concentrating and getting the grades in class and your "old friends" are smoking things that grow in your back garden and getting distracted you will stay on top.Honestly it is difficult but its really up to you how you wanna tell them either nicely or just a bold statement coz either way they will take it as as bad thing but you gotta remember not to scoop as low as them (that is if they scoop that low).I hope my advice helps!Good luck!Lots of love,Ima FreAk!x
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