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writes:This is an email from my girlfriend and I'm not sure why she says she is not sure what the future holds for us.She wanted a commitment and was the one that wanted to get married someday, now i get this. Not sure whats going on.Any insight would be appreciated.I feel like she wants to end the relationship."Well you have me no matter what happens between us I will always be a part of you somehow and way I am sure of that at least. I feel this is good for us though I needed time to, feel so tied down and so overloaded. But I am always over loaded it seems. My children need time with me too. This I am seeing more of. You have been good through all this and I love you and miss you. Yet I stand back and watch and I am not sure what the future holds for us."
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reader, PeterPan +, writes (12 February 2010):
 I wouldn't necessarily think that she's avoiding the marriage aspect, but it seems that she's overloaded with "life issues" -- whatever they be in her arena. Personally, I wouldn't push the issue and just let time progress and see what happens in the near future. She might need a little more space to get her own affairs in order. I would take a no-pressure approach to this, but I would ask what's going on her life as to make her want to step back and look at things before making a marriage commitment.
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