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writes:heyah guys a tough one!!!! im really close with this boy and he has a gf but i dont know what's going on. we went to football together tonight and well he and my other friend went off on one i was later informed that my close mate had been finished because apparently we had been doing things behind her back and we havent, we're just close and we trust one another 100% i really dont know what to do because if they have broken up its going to be all my fault just because im close to him and i really love her to pieces, we're good friends or supposed to be but the thing is no ones replying to my messages and now i dont know whatta do HEEEEELLLLPPPPPPP Reply to this Question
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reader, Nandos17 +, writes (18 February 2010):
 Sorry its taken so long for someone to get back to you - no doubt your situation has changed since then...
Firstly, if no ones replying to you then you should probably just leave them alone. It shows that your concerned but they'll get back to you when they feel it be more appropriate. Also, its probably not a good idea that you and this other guy are talking if hes trying to sort out his relationship (girlfriend or just friend) if you are the reason they've split up.
Secondly, obviously your going to feel awful because you feel that you are the reason behind the breakup. Though your less of the reason than you think. Its probably in her character to feel a little bit insecure and if she was completely happy in the relationship, she wouldn't have felt that he'd be with someone else behind her back.
In conclusion, just take a step back and leave the situation to sort itself out on its own. Though nothing may be going on between you and your close friend, its more responsible that you just stayed clear for a little bit.
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