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writes:what do you do to get over a very hard breakup when ur still in love with the person but he as moved on and after 6 months i cant seem to move on and you cant seem to find anyone else. he has moved on and looks happy and i just want to be happy too.
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reader, DeadEyeDick  +, writes (13 February 2010):
 I know how you feel, my ex seemed to forget I ever exsisted, after being together for a decade, she was very eager to hop in the sack with someone not even a week after our split, so how quickly she got over me made me hurt even worse, and for that week, I was at rock bottom, I had never felt that incapacitated in my entire life, and she's out humping her brains out, well it quickly turned to hatred and resentment, that's how I got over the heartbreak, she could let me feel like I felt while she was out getting her brains banged out! she obviously is no friend of mine, and wasnt what I thought she was, just concentrate on how much you resent him for not caring about your feelings, because he's obviously not your friend, so why do you care so much about being his? doesnt make much sense does it? not to me anyways!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2010): Hello,
First of all stop thinking about him. Every time you have a thougght about him, IMMEDIATELY think about something different. Think of an apple, a naked guy, a scene from a film that you like ANYTHING. Just change the thought.
Secondly, put all the things that remind you of him into a box and out of sight. You don't have to throw the stuff away just put it out of your line of vision so you are not constantly reminded of him.
Next, you get out and start living your life WITHOUT him. Get a hobby, throw yourself into work, go out with mates ANYTHING. Just get out there and do stuff to keep your self busy.
Finally, meet people. Not just other guys, that are potential bf's but other women, older women, really old 70 year old guys, young kids. Just meet and speak to people via clubs, societies, libraries, volunteering WHATEVER! Keep your mind busy and yourself in company.
It is VERY hard to get over someone but it can be done. Time alone will do this for your but in the mean time distract yourself with the above tips and you will be over him in no time.
Take car.e
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