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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm currently a sophomore in college. My boyfriend and I have been dating since spring quarter of last year and since then, I have pretty much been staying in his dorm room (even though I have my own) apart from the summer when we both went home. Recently, I've been finding it difficult to sleep on his crappy dorm twin mattress with him squished next to me and have slept through several classes due to this. So, I told him I was going to sleep in my bed, at least on the week days. He pretty much flipped out. He wasn't yelling or anything, but he got super moody and pretty much talked about how life sucks and he's never going to get to see me and blah blah blah. He says he can't understand why I can't just get up for class. I tried to explain to him that's it's hard for me to sleep and none of my stuff is in his room so I have to walk aaaalll the way back to my dorm to get ready. Not to mention he keeps hitting the snooze and I fall back asleep have less than 20 minutes to walk back and get ready... But he's the kind of person that can get 2 hours of sleep and wake up fine the next morning. So he doesn't understand. Or just doesn't want to. He has basically been telling me I'm wrong for wanting to sleep in my own bed and has been, I just saying, a little controlling. He's like two people. Sometimes he agrees with me on this subject and sometimes he's a lunatic. What the heck is wrong with him?! I'm super frustrated. He's like a little kid. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know that breaking up with him is an option, but it's one I'm trying to avoid. I was looking for advice more along the lines of why he might be acting this way. Does he have some kind of abandonment issues? What is he afraid of? What can I do besides break up with him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2010): im sorry but i think im dating his twin... correcting i WAS dating his twin... u need ur sleep and he needs to understand it! so if for whatever reason he can't stay at your place then he got issues and seriously stop wasting your time on him!
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