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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm 16. ok so i really dont know what to do. theres this guy at my school i really really like. and last year we got really close. we hung out, bite eachothers noses, hugged, held hands, kissed once, and texed every day. those were the best couple of days of my life. then this year i pretended not to like him when i still did only cause i knew he still liked his ex-girlfriend. he ended up finding out i still like him. we still stayed friends cause he now liked this other girl, when at the time i was ok cause i was trying to get over him. i have tried getting over him this whole year but i cant. A couple of days ago i had this really big problem. i was really upset and even started to cry a little on the school bus. then next day the guy i like wanted me to tell him why i was so upset. he's proably the nicest guy friend i have. well i explain it to him but i started crying again. he looked very concerned. i couldn't tell him all of it though, but i did tell him most of it and during me talking he kept hugging me and wiping my tears, and saying what a great person i am. he even walked me to my class. with that i started to like him even more now. The next day i was hanging out with him in the morning before class and he told me he was moving this weekend. i literally felt my heart break. i started crying. i couldnt imagine school without him. he then told me he was only joking, he didnt expect that i would cry. i felt school, but then i didnt cause now he knows how i really feel. then we kept talking and i heard him mention to another guy that he knows i like him. i kind of knew he knew i liked him but now i know for a fact. Since all this stuff happened, and how he was so nice and caring i like him even more now and by me crying about him proves it. anyway if he liked me he would have done something by now, but lately he's been a little different. so i dont know what to do now. please help.
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reader, overthinker +, writes (14 February 2010):
i'm so sorry that you are going through this in a way i totally know how you feel -- i tend to say now a days i hate "nice" guys cuz you end up liking them more. i have a friend who i like who sounds just like that boy you describe ... i had a huge crush on him and tried to get over it but i just can't seem to and it breaks my hearts to talk to him and no nothing is ever going to happen.
i think that it helps to get it out there and seeing how he is a nice guy -- just stright up tell him. whats the point of living the rest of your life -- holding on to something that can be or could not be.
Hope this helps!
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