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writes:Hi, My ex and I split up a few months ago but stayed in touch. We talked about getting back together but then had an argument and haven't seen each other for a few week and he told me he is dating someone else. We still have feelings for each other but there are old unresolved issues. If he is going on dates with this other woman does that mean all hope is lost? I would be interested to hear from anyone else in this position and would love to hear from guys re their viewpoint on this. If a guy still cares for his ex but is kind of dating, what chances are there of him and the ex getting back together? My ex has a bit of a verbally abusive personality so part of me thinks just let him go and another part of me, when I remember the nicer side of him, thinks try again! I'm in a quandry about this and it's upsetting me. Thank you very much for any advice.
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (12 February 2010):
 Sorry, but the prospects for getting back together don't sound good at all.......
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reader, trueatheart +, writes (12 February 2010):
 Hi,
I was in this kind of situation myself a few months ago. We tried the staying in touch thing for a while but all that seemed to do was cause more emotional upset and damage. If he's dating other women then his heart isn't really with you is it? You broke up for a reason and the best thing you can do for yourself is to cut all contact with him, let yourself grieve and eventually you will move on. It's hard but it really is the best thing you can do for yourself right now. Set yourself free from this situation and you'll be able to find a nice guy who is not verbally abusive to you! Take care :)
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