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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Okay hi people..basically ive been with my boyfriend 2 months today and we had been talking for long before that.. anyways on the 14th(yes valentines day) its his birthday and of course valentines day, i think thats kinda sexy lol, his a vlanetines baby ;) back to what i was saying.. today i found out he was having a party ? but i didnt find out from him! i found out from facebook events!!!! it came up on my wall post.. and he didnt make this event page he made it a few days ago.. yet i had no idea about his birthday party?! he hasnt even told me about it, let alone invite me !! and this has got me thinking also of reasons why he hasnt invited me(its obvious wants to get all close and personal with other girls), cause he seems to have invited other girls?! i know we havent been together for a long time, or have i simply got high expectations of him? i think that if he wouldn't be comfortable doing it in front of me, then its basically cheating?! ahh this is just frustrating me, what shall i do.. shall i wait and see if he invites me ?thanks in advance
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reader, veronika  +, writes (13 February 2010):
 Why don't you just ask him?
Even if you haven't been going out for that long, it's rude of him to snub you and ignore you by not inviting you. Don't wait and see, be proactive and talk to him about it. If he acts like a jerk about it and gets mad at you, then that's probably a sign that he's not a real keeper.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2010): you seem to already have the answer... if he doesnt feel comfortable enough in front of you there is a reason behind it.... i have no idea why you havent asked him about it... like post it on his facebook wall... something like hey babe so what are we doing for you bday/ valentine's? it will be super special since we have 3 events to celebrate that day... ya know ur bday valentines and da fact that is our first of those days celebrating them together... or something to that effect.... make ur presence known to other females.... otherwise you will be cheated on... and btw dont feel bad about it if he gives you crap about it then he is hiding something and in all honestly its time for you to move on!
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