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writes:What would you do with a guy who you're sure likes you but who seems completely freaked out by the idea of having a girlfriend? I like him, we briefly got together last year before he backed out and now we hang out mainly in groups, with his best mate dropping huge hints that he likes me and obviously trying to push him into doing something about it. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 February 2010):
You move on. He clearly has major issues with commitment and trust, and the last thing you want is to go out with someone like that only to be messed around all the time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2010): If you mean he's sexually interested in messing around but he won't commit to just you, then forget about him. Seriously, forget it.
If you mean he's never messing with any other girl either, then he might still be worth a shot. Maybe he's heaped up too many thoughts about a GIRLFRIEND but he would like to spend time with you without all the big expectations and implied "couple" things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2010): To answer your head question: what would I do? I'd forget about this guy and find someone who actually wants to be with me and doesnt have to be forced into it. I fear if you have to force him into it, you also have to fight every day to keep him there. I'd rather have a guy who wants me and does anything to be with me, not a guy I have to hold in a leash.
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (12 February 2010):
 I'd move on and let him miss out on the pleasure of having me. No reason to put my life on hold because HE has issues.
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