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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:ok so I got a problem. there's this girl I think im in love with. she's been there for me countless of times. though she does have a boyfriend. she still treats me like a boyfriend and always hugging me. she will come to me sometimes just saying that she just needs to be held. she's come to me before because her relationship was going through a rough patch. a while ago I met one of her female friends. she had a boyfriend but thing where rough and they broke up now shes been talking to me a lot. flirting and stuff like that. that's making the first girl jealous. now my buddy has a huge crush on the second girl and he's starting to get pissed at me because I guess she likes me. to be honest I don't want either of them even though im in love with the first girl I could tell her, or try to come in between her and her boyfriend because she still has love for him or something. I don't want to put her in an awkward position or make her chose between me and her boyfriend. I really don't want to be with anyone else but at the same time I don't want to hurt her. I just want her to be happy. what do I do? is there any way to make everyone happy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2010): Hey buddy I understand where u coming from. To be honest with you sometimes the only way to make everyone happy is to let evwerything be and let life take its course. I understand that you r in love with this girl but wat more important knowing that she will always come to you when she needs you which means she will always be in your life or tell her how you feel and risk losing her if she feels funny around you. Sometimes things are better left left unsaid. Good luck
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