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anonymous
writes:Am I being silly or have people felt the same as me. I am a 25 year old female (virgin), I have low confidence and no guys ever want to date me, they just want a bit of fun no strings, I always laugh it off but I have for the first time fallen for someone who just wants fun, we have kissed and gone a little further, we just start kissing and within like 2-3 minutes he wants a hand job and I have been doing it mainly because I want to learn I suppose and I like it when he touches me because I always feel I am not good enough to be someones girlfriend and this could be my only chance for a bit of fun.He has recently been asking for a blow job to which I say no because I think that's taking it a bit further and plus I don't actually have a clue how to do it and I kiss rubbish and my hand jobs well aren't very good, I have known he doesn't have much respect for women, he thinks they are all easy which I have I suppose proved but I like him but know its not going anywhere but I thought why not, but I have just found out he has a girlfriend, which he denies but he says he has "play things" on the side, which I suppose I am. My question I suppose is, is it wrong for me to practice with him and suppose use him like he is using me, I would like if if he asked me out but I know that will never happen, I am being cheap.Do guys like shy girls with literally no expereince, can they tell.
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reader, heather016  +, writes (13 February 2010):
you'll most probably get attached to him over time and it'd only hurt you in the end. you're the one at loss eventually, when you really love him but on the other hand, he doesnt feel the same. i assume he wont feel attached to you over time because he only wants to have fun. bear that in mind. since he only wants to have fun, i'd suggest you to consider the consequences to continue 'practising' with him. there are men who appreciate virgins with no experience.
hope i helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2010): I don't think this guy is really what you want for your first real BF. I think you're just talking yourself into it because you have attraction & chemistry with him.
You've held onto your virignity this long. I would vote to save it a bit longer for something more committed and real.
Sex really messes with your brain chemistry. You'll get attached to this guy by screwing him but he won't get attached back. He's already told you what he wants, please don't convince yourself he's lying or wrong about that.
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